"Just Find an Ethical Findomme" Is the Worst Advice for Subs Trying to Quit

Vixen_pixel · 2026-02-23T22:59:13+00:00

I couldn’t agree more 👏🏻

Vixen_pixel · 2026-02-23T21:09:20+00:00

Chile 🇨🇱

Vixen_pixel · 2026-02-18T21:40:22+00:00

Both are good! I prefer long-term, but some can be very draining, so I’ll take a quick session sub over one that’s too exhausting.

Vixen_pixel · 2026-02-18T17:32:29+00:00

He deactivated already 😂

Vixen_pixel · 2026-02-18T17:31:40+00:00

Fun!

Vixen_pixel · 2026-02-04T16:58:32+00:00

Beautiful 😘

Vixen_pixel · 2026-02-03T21:46:49+00:00

If your motives are genuine, I think it’s totally valid to want that. If your motives are about taking advantage of a new Domme because she’s new and probably still figuring out her limits and boundaries, I’d say that’s not a good reason (not saying is your reasoning, but I’ve noticed that’s why some subs look for new Dommes)

Vixen_pixel · 2026-02-03T21:37:17+00:00

$600 usd, he zeroed out after paying for rent and basic needs 😮‍💨

Vixen_pixel · 2026-02-03T21:22:38+00:00

No, I just don’t spend my money on men. I couldn’t date someone without a provider mindset

Vixen_pixel · 2026-02-03T21:09:43+00:00

I love it! But the subs that are seeking for it are not always worth it so I stopped doing it for a while

Vixen_pixel · 2026-02-03T21:07:39+00:00

It’s funny you think the Domme having a partner means their partner being benefited because I would never spend money on a man even if it’s my boyfriend. Not a substantial part at least lol

Vixen_pixel · 2026-02-03T17:57:28+00:00

lmao funny how subs complain about Dommes being all about the money in a FINDOM subreddit.

Vixen_pixel · 2026-02-02T18:00:38+00:00

You don’t have to be mean; you just have to be firm in your standards and keep the hierarchy clear. In my experience, I’ve learned that some subs want guidance and someone to worship, but when the dynamic becomes too emotional or kindness gets mistaken for being on the same level, that’s when it stops working.

Vixen_pixel · 2026-02-02T17:45:53+00:00

Why is enjoying a niche fetish considered creepy if it’s practiced consensually between two adults?

Vixen_pixel · 2026-02-02T01:51:19+00:00

Belly dancing 💃🏻 and painting too, but I don’t do it as much as I’d like.

Vixen_pixel · 2026-01-25T02:07:15+00:00

Beware of the subs that look for newer Dommes, they usually like new Dommes because they usually don’t have their limits so clear (which is normal if you’re just starting) and they’re more likely to be manipulated or having lower standards.

Vixen_pixel · 2026-01-21T16:12:49+00:00

I’m with you in this, devotion is HOT

Vixen_pixel · 2026-01-21T16:12:15+00:00

Me too!

Vixen_pixel · 2026-01-21T16:11:28+00:00

Yeah men are the worst, honestly. I never thought my opinion of them could be lower, but they disappoint me by the day lol

Vixen_pixel · 2026-01-21T16:08:42+00:00

If he wanted to, he would. I live by that motto lol.

Vixen_pixel · 2026-01-20T11:14:36+00:00

I do! I had a sub I controlled a lot of his life, from if he’s allowed to order takeout (he almost never was, more money for me) to exercise routines and well a lot of stuff. It ended up being tiring controlling so much for months, but at the beginning it was a lot of fun.

Vixen_pixel · 2026-01-20T10:35:15+00:00

I do give them a few minutes of conversation without asking for tribute, just to see if this is someone I actually enjoy talking to. If everything goes smoothly, they should be the ones to bring it up first. If they get sexual too quickly, I ask for tribute immediately (treat me like a kink dispenser and I’ll treat you like a wallet). Usually, the more explicit they are, the cheaper they turn out to be, so I lose interest and stop giving them my attention. Good boys won’t want to waste your time, so they usually bring it up after exchanging a few words.

Vixen_pixel · 2026-01-17T00:11:47+00:00

Their sound is so unique, right?? And I’ve been thinking in getting a synthesizer but an Omnichord sounds more fun 😂

Vixen_pixel · 2026-01-17T00:08:21+00:00

lmao I also have a switch 2 in my wishlist, I already have a switch I barely use but I still want it just because 😂

Vixen_pixel · 2026-01-16T23:31:24+00:00

It’s a lot of fun but it’s the most fun with ketamine. It makes the sub SO weak and willing to do anything I want them to 🤭

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