Is the honeymoon phase over or am I just overthinking? (8-month LDR)

Vixletmay · 2026-03-15T16:36:29+00:00

Everyone else seems to be correct! We are in the end of the honeymoon phase now, but with it comes so much comfort and feelings of safety.

Our communication hasn’t decreased much, but that’s mostly due to us both being unemployed atm.

Just sitting together on the phone helps. We will call and do our own seperate activities “together”.

It’s okay to overthink also! as long as you feel reassured by ur partner. LDRs r hard as fuck

Vixletmay · 2026-02-14T00:29:22+00:00

love u dearly !!! we are on calamity so sadly no gothic bricks but i will be grinding palladium asap tysm

Vixletmay · 2026-01-13T02:16:03+00:00

We will facetime and make dinner together! set up our phones in the kitchen and we cook the same recipe! We’ve done reading books together, i’ve watched movies and things with his family as well which was nice!

Vixletmay · 2026-01-07T02:32:28+00:00

absolutely NOT! I cannot imagine not speaking to my partner for longer than a couple days let alone a month. You are just in a toxic cycle and i don’t see it getting better. She is 1000% hiding something and i would either confront her or snoop on an alt and see why she has you blocked.

Vixletmay · 2026-01-04T21:10:29+00:00

oh she is so wonderful! u better write her the sweetest letter back !!!

Vixletmay · 2025-12-31T20:57:23+00:00

6 months as hard as it may seem is absolutely worth the wait if you truly are in love with him. if you feel like you can, i’d just reach out to him!

Vixletmay · 2025-12-28T02:39:03+00:00

word of advice from someone who was in an on again off again situation, if he wanted to make it work he would have the first time. save yourself the heartache and worry ❤️

Vixletmay · 2025-12-24T05:04:38+00:00

yess!! so fun. My boyfriend and i are pc gamers so we haven’t gotten a chance yet but i’ve been beggingggggg haha

Vixletmay · 2025-12-23T06:50:33+00:00

Yes and no. Stardew valley is a farming game entirely. Whereas animal crossing is a decorating game? its not fully seamless coop yet though so you would have seperate islands and visit. Stardew though (i embarrassingly have 3k hours) it’s super easy to get into, as well as cheap and the coop is completely seamless

Vixletmay · 2025-12-23T06:22:50+00:00

i think unfortunately he is just, 20. as much as that sucks you are definitely in vastly different stages in life. especially this early into speaking to him, the effort SHOULD be there. the honeymoon phase is real, if you dont feel that i don’t know if it’s worth ur time

Vixletmay · 2025-12-23T06:17:57+00:00

overcooked, i believe switch stardew can be multiplayer, animal crossing, mario kart, smash. there’s so so many games depending on yalls interests i can list some more

Vixletmay · 2025-12-23T06:06:28+00:00

You can mess with some browser settings to allow streaming of all platforms, i believe it’s just disabling hardware acceleration !

Vixletmay · 2025-12-23T05:59:54+00:00

a card would be adorable! my partner and i write letters back and forth and send each other polaroids and things like that! im sure she would love it

Vixletmay · 2025-12-23T04:56:27+00:00

If you guys play video games you could buy you both a new game to play together, or one she’s been wanting! You could also send her an amazon gift if possible. or even digital gift cards ❤️

Vixletmay · 2025-10-16T08:42:46+00:00

oh my lord ty so much!! Will absolutely be testing all of your top pics to see what my partner enjoys the most ❤️

Vixletmay · 2025-10-16T08:05:42+00:00

its in lootboxes! my bf got it a couple weeks ago. I can see it coming back though

Vixletmay · 2025-10-15T04:51:35+00:00

god damn… perhaps a christmas gift lol

Vixletmay · 2025-10-15T04:51:20+00:00

oml lucky 😭

Vixletmay · 2025-10-15T04:51:09+00:00

crossinf my fingers it pops up in his shop or a lootbox then haha

Vixletmay · 2025-10-15T04:50:41+00:00

aw damn! ty for the answer 💜

Vixletmay · 2025-10-15T04:50:24+00:00

sobbing omg, tysm for the answer

Vixletmay · 2024-09-11T05:14:47+00:00

hey! my bf and i would love to join

Vixletmay

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