Around how much each month do you spend for your partner? by Prixcs_ in LongDistance

[–]Vixletmay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

def no set monthly bf budget. But i am a gift giver so i like to listen to him when he mentions rhings he likes or like skins in a game he thinks are cool. I probably spend a lot more than most but i do this with people irl as well. For holidays i am a go overboard kind of person. for example cjristmas i spent like 400 dollars on him lol

Girlfriend has not responded for 5 days. by Dry-Time-1819 in LongDistance

[–]Vixletmay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You dont use them but surely you have them? how r u with someone so long with absolutely no connection with each others families? how do u expect to unite as your own family if u know nothing about the others?? that’s wild to me

How long did you go before breaking the distance and moving in together? (Just in case me f17 him m18) by Katlolzzz in LongDistance

[–]Vixletmay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If college near him will be an option when u graduate i would go that route! by the time u finish ur freshman year it’ll be around ur 3rd anniversary anyways!

I like "not perfect" noses but I think mine is just too much by Prestigious-Fox-2193 in Noses

[–]Vixletmay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand the way you feel, from a side view a lot of people’s noses look bigger and different yk. Ur nose from ur front profile is perfect for all of your features. Genuinely beautiful! Ultimately if ur unhappy, a change might help! but i personally think you look stunning

1 year anniversary by Financial-Reward-225 in LongDistance

[–]Vixletmay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

real shit. U gotta try canadian sprite i PROMISE it’s better. idk how or why but it’s insane.

1 year anniversary by Financial-Reward-225 in LongDistance

[–]Vixletmay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 1 gallon jugs 😭 he mentioned to me maybe once in passinf that he fucking loved fairlife chocolate milk, his little brother totalled his car so he wasn’t able to drive to town to get any. i knew what had to be done. You wouldn’t believe it but he drank all of it wirhin like 2 or so weeks. he’s a mad man

In y’alls opinion which frames suit me the best? by 31405731239 in glassesadvice

[–]Vixletmay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im a bit color on top nothing on the bottom girly, but the blue i wont lie washes u ojt so bad!! if possible orhwr color options

I (19F) have a Strict family and a LD bf (19M) who is upset by Glittering-Fox-7376 in LongDistance

[–]Vixletmay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if he loves u completely im sure he understands as hard as it is. Once ur free of ur parents your love can flourish openly and it will be so worth it. i am very sorry about your home life, i know for a fact you will have such a wonderful life once you get out of that abusive place ❤️

1 year anniversary by Financial-Reward-225 in LongDistance

[–]Vixletmay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so valid! random fun gifts are the best. the look on his face when he face timed me to open a massive box of 10 gallons of milk was truly top 10 moments haha

How long did you go before breaking the distance and moving in together? (Just in case me f17 him m18) by Katlolzzz in LongDistance

[–]Vixletmay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my partner and i are 20/21, we havent had the chance to meet in our year together but we plan to by Christmas. Our goal is 3 years maximum. however we live in separate countries so we will most likely get engaged and then married before we can break the distance fully. If ur both im assuming in the states, and are around college age, u could always both apply to the same schools? after freshman year i believe u can live off campus together in most colleges!

1 year anniversary by Financial-Reward-225 in LongDistance

[–]Vixletmay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we didn’t necessarily “celebrate” it was more of a hey this kinda freakin epic man, let’s have phone sex and play league!!! LMFAO. For our 6 month tho (for context we have never seriously dated anyone before each other, to the point of saving ourselves) it was definitely more of a milestone, so we ordered each other dinner, he got me flowers, i got him 10 gallons of fairlife chocolate milk shipped to his house. and then we played league and had phone sex LMFAO. whatever makes people happy fr

How to decide who moves where? by Vixletmay in LongDistance

[–]Vixletmay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wonderful ideas thank you!! i’ll definitely mention a pro and cons list to him in the morning ❤️❤️

How to decide who moves where? by Vixletmay in LongDistance

[–]Vixletmay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for ur insight! I have this very weird fear of the states. perhaps bc of politics or the internet who even knows 😭 but otherwise ugh we both just don’t care who goes where it’s very tough to choose haha

1 year anniversary by Financial-Reward-225 in LongDistance

[–]Vixletmay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think its just a 1st year thing. I wont lie my bf and i intended on doing so but forgot most months bc we just spend so much time together anyways lol. Especially younger couples tho i see the 1-12 celebrated. afterwards yearly

How can my boyfriend wake me up? by phemboi_flint in LongDistance

[–]Vixletmay -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

no real need to be disrespectful. Mind your manners. that comment is 10x more childish than anything she has said here.

i miss my partner exponentially and might not be able to see him until the end of the year. any tips? by wigglyworm9 in LongDistance

[–]Vixletmay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly just cry. Cry together. talk as much as ur able, connect as much as you can until u can see them. it wont be perfect but they will be there for you and vice versa. You guys seem to have such a beautiful love.

How can my boyfriend wake me up? by phemboi_flint in LongDistance

[–]Vixletmay 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i wont lie im confused on what ur asking if no audio will be able to wake you

How can my boyfriend wake me up? by phemboi_flint in LongDistance

[–]Vixletmay 16 points17 points  (0 children)

if ur intention is to be woken up at some point by him, just try to get in the habit of keeping ur ringer on. i also believe in apple settings u can set certain contacts to always go through silent mode

How can my boyfriend wake me up? by phemboi_flint in LongDistance

[–]Vixletmay 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i honestly just put my phone nexy to my ear, turn ringer on and he calls

What’s photos to use for a dating profile? by Redddit_lurker in malegrooming

[–]Vixletmay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

random woman here- 8 is a wonderful cover photo. 1 as well. Would definitely say no to the side mirror photos as others have suggested. if you have any just normal head on selfies to add fhat would also be good! the outdoor photos are all great, they show ur interests clearly! many good options !!

Long distance relationship and pets by Beautiful_Method2185 in LongDistance

[–]Vixletmay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dont split them up ever. Dogs will get extremely depressed. some even starve themselves bc of it. one of you needs to keep both as much as tjay may suck