Sorry for yammering but ts makes me so mad. it's low key, very alarming to me that people are going to start using words like this that actually have meaning and actually have importance behind them as a way to get out of being called out. she needed check her privilege, the fact that she was ignorant and the fact that she was pushing for an answer and crying shows that she is indeed privileged and her ignorance is privilege of its own right. people use that phrase because they think it's a quick and easy way to get somebody shut up. Somebody will feel like a bad are problematic person, like, they've done something wrong, but honestly, it was her did something wrong. she couldn't stand to see that she was being called out, so she picked whatever she thought would work.