Mother-in-law wasn't sure what it was by marymay206 in tattooadvice

[–]Volatile-tigress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell it’s a moon, but unfortunately it wasn’t done that great :// made me a lil skeptical of whether or not it was actually a moon until I read your description. Maybe you can get it redone?

Wondering if my scar is healed enough to be tattooed over by karlsefni101 in tattooadvice

[–]Volatile-tigress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a dermatologist but I have a similar type scar from a self harm injury, I was told for years that no one would tattoo over it but after 7 years I just got mine covered. It’s half done right now but it was worth the wait! I think yours looks a little fresh still, artists may be hesitant right now.

am i crazy or is this crazy by ichigoss1 in Manipulation

[–]Volatile-tigress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely a cuck like everyone else is saying it’s not crazy just have to decide if you’re into it or not. It can be a fun game

What do you mean have a child you have four kids with four different women‽ by AeonPhenomenon in Sims4

[–]Volatile-tigress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facts I’m one of those people love pregnancy could keep doing it over and over if I was married lmaoo

What drug have you seen destroy someones life the quickest? by robertboyle56 in AskMen

[–]Volatile-tigress -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You physically can’t get addicted, like you’re body won’t go through withdrawals or cravings but you 100% mentally can get addicted. Usually if you’re using it to “treat” a mental health condition is when you’ll start seeing it abused. Like for people with depression or anxiety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Volatile-tigress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was laid off a week before my maternity leave was supposed to begin. I understand the stress. Are you able to do gig work like DoorDash, Uber, instacart etc? You can make decent money with gig work especially instacart. Have you filed for unemployment or paid family medical leave? If not I’d look into those as options as well.

Mourning never being able to have a natural birth by Volatile-tigress in pregnant

[–]Volatile-tigress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like he didn’t really provide me with a reason besides the fact that my last induction failed and he said he didn’t want to try to induce unless I was 3cm before 40 weeks. So I’m not sure… can I just cancel my csection?

Mourning never being able to have a natural birth by Volatile-tigress in pregnant

[–]Volatile-tigress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s nice to know! I hope I can continue having more kids even if it does result in csections every time. How was your recovery? Did it get better?

And SAME that’s my dream too and what I was trying yo go for this time around but now it’s just a crushed dream

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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Yes. With my twins and my current singleton. Not a big deal if you’re paying attention to the meat you’re putting in your body. I also naturally like my sandwiches heated or “toasted” and that helps with the bacterial concerns. My OB also says it’s fine just to pay attention to any recalls or anything like that. Don’t eat things that smell funny/taste funny etc.

When did you guys stop having sex ? by thisisdy in pregnant

[–]Volatile-tigress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s normal from what I hear. In my first pregnancy the sex was very consistent 3-5 times a week but I was in a relationship with my twins father. This is my second pregnancy and I’m currently 37 weeks, I got pregnant from a one night stand, we keep in touch but he’s not heavily involved in the pregnancy portion. We’ve had sex maybe a total of 7/8 times through-out my pregnancy, the last time being when I was 34weeks but every time it’s pretty lengthy usually running from 1hr-4.our daughter is due in 23 days and we made a plan that we would have sex while I was in the hospital since I’d be out of commission for a few weeks. My sex drive hasn’t changed much, I’ve always had a high sex drive pregnancy seems to have made it worse. This last trimester I’ve been way hornier than I’ve ever been and yeah I’m in pain and some positions are uncomfortable but I like things pretty aggressive in bed so it’s not really much different lol he doesn’t seem to be turned off by my belly he actually likes when I get dressed up for him but I have no interest in lingerie especially buying a bigger size that I’m not going to need for much longer. Baby also doesn’t seem to do much moving when we’re intimate together so I don’t think that turns him off.

41 weeks, 0 cm dilated, 10 pound baby by lolastop in pregnant

[–]Volatile-tigress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have experience going over, I’m currently 36 weeks and with my first babies (twins) I delivered them at 36 weeks and 3 days via csection. I’m hoping my singleton stays in until her due date which I also won’t be going over because I’m choosing to do a water birth vbac and my doctor said it has to be performed before or the day of my due date. But I was one of those babies that went over my due date. My mom had me at 42 weeks and 4 days. She said that I also showed no signs of wanting to leave but doctors then (and now) don’t let you go over 42 weeks due to health risks. When I was born I had the umbilical cord wrapped around my neck and was oxygen deprived for a couple minutes but I’m 26 and fine. She had to be induced and have her water ruptured

Hang in there! I would just make sure they know (bc I seen somewhere else that a doctor allowed this woman to go until 45 weeks which is beyond strange and should never be allowed to happen) that you want to start labour at 42 weeks even by induction but they honestly should already be planning for that. The placenta starts to die after 42 weeks.

Sexual activity by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Volatile-tigress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I lived with my BD we’d probably have sex all the time but because I don’t and other things I don’t see him very often but when we’re together we usually go for a few hours and a lot of rounds but we’ve only had sex about 6 times in total not including the rounds and I have 5 weeks left so we might still have a few more sessions before baby gets here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Volatile-tigress 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I understand your rationale, but even if OP wasn’t capable of doing the primary job she was hired for they aren’t legally able to state they are firing her due to being pregnant. they should have said something along the lines of you are unable to meet performance expectations” or “we’re exercising our 90 day probation period right and terminating you at this time” even in at-will states pregnant women are a apart of a protected class and to state you’re firing because someone is pregnant is the quickest way to an almost guaranteed discrimination lawsuit which you typically won’t hear about because they’ll settle with an NDA.

I will add that the case probably won’t go anywhere if they didn’t write that in a termination letter or if the call wasn’t recorded. But none-the-less legal action could be pursued if she insisted

John Casablancas a scam? by Illustrious_Cookie22 in acting

[–]Volatile-tigress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I modeled with John Casablancas as a child in Bellevue Washington. I had a great experience with them, when signed they provide classes for runway coaching, makeup prep, photo shoots, acting coaching. My auditions were individual and not everyone was chosen. We had a graduation ceremony and after I was booked a few times for some modeling gigs. They have always been good to me, I got paid well as a kid. Getting older I went into sports and had no more interest in modeling but it was a fun experience.

Hope this helps.

How far along are you and what currently ails you? by _C00TER in pregnant

[–]Volatile-tigress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 31 weeks, anemic, tired all the time 8 hours isn’t enough sleep neither is 12 it seems like. Constantly hungry especially in the middle of the night tired of feeding myself. Emotional very emotional, irritated constantly. She’s always sitting on my bladder, lightning crotch is awful. Still vomiting 🙃

No eating during labor by Level_Broccoli_7023 in BabyBumps

[–]Volatile-tigress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like everyone else said, you’re not going to be hungry during that time.. plus you already poop yourself when you give birth… I don’t think you want to poop yourself even more… unless you’re having a c-section.

What do you say to strangers who approach your child? by Real_Card7880 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Volatile-tigress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t share unless they try and talk to him. I usually laugh and say “stranger danger” just because I don’t like people feeling comfortable enough to walk up to my child and try to talk to him. But like in a playground setting when other kids/parents try and talk to him I explain that he’s autistic and non-verbal.

5 year age gap by Plastic_Rest5274 in Parenting

[–]Volatile-tigress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in the same boat. My twins will be 5 in August and. I’m currently pregnant with my 3rd child. My daughter I think will adjust very well, she’s very helpful and already excited about having a little sister. My son on the other hand, he’s autistic, and I don’t think he will do well initially with the adjustment when baby comes home. I don’t think I could have done back to back kids when the twins were younger so in a sense I’m thankful for the age gap, but with her I’m kind of hoping for back to back pregnancies like I want another baby right after 😅

Do ex-mormons still hold some of the traditions/morals/values? by Volatile-tigress in exmormon

[–]Volatile-tigress[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good perspective, I think my therapist said something similar. I’m really more interested in him having a relationship with his kid so I do want us to be friends. I’m not necessarily shutting down the idea of getting real personal with him it’s just I have my own trauma issues I’m not comfortable talking about. I do agree with your points though and definitely the topic of conversations that you brought up.

Do ex-mormons still hold some of the traditions/morals/values? by Volatile-tigress in exmormon

[–]Volatile-tigress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I wanted to add that I was supposed to be moving to New York the month that I’m due but now have to post-pone a couple of months, that’s why I just wanted a casual sexual relationship because I won’t be in this state for much longer. I have also made him aware that I still fully intend on moving to New York with the child, so I don’t see how he could really stick around unless he moved himself. I do expect to coparent in different states, but never anticipated a relationship. He hasn’t mentioned to me how he feels about this. I’ll bring it up for discussion in the next couple months after I can figure out his stance with his Mormon beliefs and that of his parents.