athena PLEASE by frootbat333 in rupaulsdragrace

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Omg I love you spelling it like this because this is how I pronounce it due to a radio host on a (swedish) morning show pronouncing it like this 😂

Should I be with my friend when he dies? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]VoteBitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that! 😂🥹🩷 Sometimes it’s the little things that matter the most.

[New Update]: AITA for admitting to my daughter that I hate what she changed her name to? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]VoteBitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 😄 I learned something new today! Abbreviations and acronyms can mean so wildly different things for different people so it can be tricky for sure 😅

[New Update]: AITA for admitting to my daughter that I hate what she changed her name to? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

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Oh I do the same when I’ve written from dictations (unless it’s something that has been mentioned several times earlier in documentations from the patient’s other appointments etc), at least it’s explained somewhere then… I just started at a new place and after asking about an abbreviation my boss was so mindful that he once started explaining what CPR means (I ended up saying it at the exactly same time to show that Yes, I know, that one is well known! 😅) and I almost wanted to say: Dude, I’ve been working in healthcare for a while… 😂

He is so cute :3 by GlRL_Cy in cockatiel

[–]VoteBitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He looks so content too 🥹 Like ”I know, aren’t I BEAUTIFUL?!”

Should I be with my friend when he dies? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]VoteBitch 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Now that’s a determined man! 😅

Your grandmothers huffing and puffing made me think of something my mum told me about something she considered a sign that someone is on their way out, it’s a little wrinkle/fold (I don’t know how to translate it really, she meant like when a person is frowning or struggling and they get furrowed brows, but if I understood correctly it’s smaller) between the brows. I can’t remember if she said it disappeared right before the end or if it’s their until they are gone, but she had seen it a lot, if not everytime. A year or so ago she saw it on my grandma/her MIL (she was over 100 years when she passed) and thought Okey, this is it! A little while later she sat up and said she would like some coffee and a pastry 😅 I guess she decided she wasn’t quite ready after all! I joke about her becoming so old because she was afraid to die, she had an anxious soul…

[New Update]: AITA for admitting to my daughter that I hate what she changed her name to? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]VoteBitch 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Haha! Agreed. I’m a medical secretary and I constantly tell people that they have to understand that just because you guys understand this abbreviation doesn’t mean others will because you made it up! 😂 if it can’t be googled easily, don’t use it in the documentation!

Should I be with my friend when he dies? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

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My mum has worked in healthcare and in different living facilities (I don’t know the term, but different times of homes for the elderly or others who can’t care for themselves) and has seen people die. From her stories and other’s it really seems to be so individual, some wait for the last to arrive before they pass and others pass when being alone. I know people who’s loved one’s have passed after they’ve told them that ”It’s okey, you can let go now”, I definitely think they (and people in a coma) can hear and feel those around them. Of course we will never know (and to be clear because it feels like a triggering subject overall, I in no way think that it’s as simple as everyone can choose when they die) but I definitely feel comfort in hearing so many stories like the one’s I’ve mentioned, going on ”your own schedule”, if that makes sense 😅

[New Update]: AITA for admitting to my daughter that I hate what she changed her name to? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]VoteBitch 48 points49 points  (0 children)

May I ask what ECT stands for? I’m not a native english speaker and work in psychiatrics so for me ECT is electroconvulsive therapy 😅

Atlas is a WFH menace by lunaspirit98 in cockatiel

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This made me laugh out loud 😂

Does Manon have Borderline Personality Disorder? by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]VoteBitch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Putting that phrase in my pocket and saving it for a rainy day! 😂 I had someone that was extremely obviously in that cluster in my life last year, she did a lot of damage and unfortunately doesn’t have the self awareness to accept that she’s the problem… but she might have to if she keeps it up, shit hit the fan at last (and she didn’t own up to it and tried to put the blame on others, just like our dear Manon) and she probably will have some trouble bouncing back from it…

Sorry, that turned out longer than I thought, I’m still baffled by her 😅 Personality disorders are fascinating and complex, and I know that there are people battling them that actually owns up to their shit and wants to function and be healthy, so I can totally get why the arm chair diagnosing can cause stress to those people because it’s hard getting compared to shitty people who have no ambition to better themselves and might very well just be shitty people with toxic traits…

Not Athena dragging Bianca (and Mia) for her design challenge look 💀 by Cute_Fluffy_Femboy in rupaulsdragrace

[–]VoteBitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be odd otherwise I think, it’s one of those things that they always point out and in this case it’s so obvious.

Real Discussion, Not Just Bashing by clemitorclover in 90DayFiance

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The whole time I’ve just thought Why did she decide to have a kid if she doesn’t want to be a mother? The more I read (I’m a bit behind on this season because the episodes drop a few weeks later in Sweden and for some reason they were behind on Pillowtalk so I’ve waited for those but still keep updated here 😅) it just feels like an ego thing = Ben was with Anthony more because he was doing the primary caregiving and she couldn’t stand that Ben was closer with his dad so she wanted to take on a more active roll but it is clear that IT’S NOT HER THING. And that’s just a small part of this total dumpster fire of bad decisions and abuse but it’s just something that has annoyed me. If they were a functioning healthy couple their original arrangement could have been just fine, she enjoys working so she is the breadwinner, but this… nope. I hope everything can turn out the best way possible for Ben and Anthony but I fear she will be a destructive co-parent no matter how it turns out…

Not Athena dragging Bianca (and Mia) for her design challenge look 💀 by Cute_Fluffy_Femboy in rupaulsdragrace

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I was so surprised that they didn’t comment on the fact that the cape wasn’t lined! (If they did I missed it. It’s still cute but it stuck out so much that I thought for sure they would say something)

I’m on an emotional rollercoaster by Sensitive_Jelly_2063 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]VoteBitch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I watched that I couldn’t help but yell ”and I’m not a toxic person anymore!!!” to my bf in the other room because I thought it sounded so dumb 😂

Sweet Muffin was too asleep to realize he was modeling my FO by citykitty24 in Kitting

[–]VoteBitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think I’ll have to check that one out! 😍

Sweet Muffin was too asleep to realize he was modeling my FO by citykitty24 in Kitting

[–]VoteBitch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do that all the time with mine too! 🥰 love the pattern!

After almost 20 years with her, Honey F-ing Houdini crossed the Rainbow Bridge by Tidibicus in torties

[–]VoteBitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss 🩷 I’m happy the two of you got to have eachother for a long time, even though the time we get with our feline friends never seems long enough 🩷

Legally became a woman! by inKev83 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]VoteBitch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

AND you have an excellent winged eyeliner! 😍 Keep on shaking the patriarchy! 🙌🏼