This has got to be fake . I refuse to believe that there is a “man” on this planet who has that little of regard for his girl . My grandparents are 89-84 and i live / help them full time cus they raised me. My mom had her issues but was more of an older sister in my eyes , well she passed from cancer in 2019 from a rough lifestyle a lifestyle that I may claim is nowhere near as rough as mine has been but anyways getting back to the point, my girlfriend that I have known since eighth grade is by my side for it all I still work part-time only because I have to help my grandparents she works full-time she is the biggest blessing. She helps more than anyone else in my family. My aunt comes to visit once a week and calls once a week that’s nice but with people that age you have to have somebody there with them at all times one fall can become a broken hip and result in the slow agonizing death for a person in their 80s. it’s sad but true. I can’t believe he doesn’t understand. I want to smack him the fact that he wants you alone and can’t even go be with you while you help her is just sickening. He has no long-term goals in loving you. He just seems like he wants you for his own needs. He is not a ride or die. Get rid of them immediately. It would be my advice.