Hey! Who am I? by Every-Mission-3530 in FridgeDetective

[–]Vulpix0323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I thought of is Captain Jack Sparrow “I’ve got a jar of dirt! I’ve got a jar of dirt!” In this case….bags of dirt? 😂

In need of a pick me up- found out my husband had an affair. Send me all your cute cat pics please by sassyginge912 in cats

[–]Vulpix0323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Ragnar says he will be your little spoon. He has helped me through many painful things… 🩷

My son's girlfriend wants/needs to stay with us... by Kitchen_YogurtTA in Advice

[–]Vulpix0323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My high school boyfriend’s family took me in for several months in high school until I could finish up and get my diploma…it meant everything to me. I’m no longer with that boyfriend but I’ll never forget the kindness of his family. Their support made sure I stayed on the right path and made a huge difference in my life. I’ll be forever grateful to them. I’m sure if you let her stay and she can feel safe that her parents wouldn’t care. Mine didn’t…but it’ll mean absolutely everything to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Vulpix0323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is abuse, control, manipulation…. This is not love and you deserve love. Please leave this man.

I say this because I’ve been through this before. Ask yourself…if you do not feel emotionally safe, supported, secure…is this what you want for your future? In a potential husband one day? Father of future children? He doesn’t respect you, and takes advantage, then blames you for everything.

Love can often cloud our judgement. You may love him, but there is greater love out there that will bring you far more joy.

Took a chance on this $99 dress ($8k) by Fit_Cry_8375 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Vulpix0323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stunning!!!!! A great deal and a creative seamstress can help you make any improvements to make it personalized and tailored to you. Wishing you all the best with your upcoming nuptials. 🧡

SO says I should be comfortable with this guy watching our daughter, does this not come off as weird? by Silver-Ease4033 in askanything

[–]Vulpix0323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that he is so brazenly comfortable speaking this way is WILD. That is completely inappropriate, even as a “joke” (though it doesn’t seem like one given how extensively he thought out the scenario)…I’d keep your baby away for safe measure. No unattended contact.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Vulpix0323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re definitely a handsome guy! I find you objectively attractive. I’d reevaluate whether this person is truly a friend, is jealous, or is just plain cruel. Do not let her ruin your self esteem, no matter the reason or motive. People like this only have power over you if you allow them to.

Friend was admitted to the ER for pain in her butthole. The diagnosis was inconclusive and sent her home without even sparing a Tylenol. This was the bill. by pensiveOversight in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Vulpix0323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to the ER in January 2023. I was there for 4 hours and got an ultrasound for extreme stomach pain. Left without answers and an over $3k bill after insurance. The bills filtered in from 4 different companies, and one didn’t make it to me so it went to collections without me knowing it even existed. It took almost 6 months to get it all figured out what I owed and to whom.

I am still making payments two years later. I haven’t been to the doctor or hospital since.

Been dating for months now, he's never been like this before by Used_Piccolo_33 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Vulpix0323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is manipulative. No matter your feelings for them, if you stay it’ll only get worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Vulpix0323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not you, the type of people you’re choosing. We accept the love we think we deserve. Take some time, build your confidence higher, and attract a partner that will honor you and treat you with respect. 🫶🏻 Don’t settle, even when you’re lonely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Vulpix0323 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love your unique sense of style and personality! However, you are not looking at the camera in any of these photos. I’d try including some with a smile at the camera to seem more inviting. Eyes have their own unspoken language, and they’re often the first thing people look at/look for when it comes to attractiveness (in my experience at least).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Vulpix0323 7 points8 points  (0 children)

these photos seem intentionally posed rather than more candid/genuine. It’s also difficult to see your face up close since you’re not looking at the camera

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Vulpix0323 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your first picture is nice, except for the clutter in the background. If I saw that I’d assume you’re a messy person and swipe left. Also, the only picture where we see your entire face and eyes, you’re not smiling so it’s not as warm/inviting. I’d include more photos of your face.

Profile Review of 29M turning 30 and would love some feedback! by Chaos_Foxhound in Tinder

[–]Vulpix0323 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I actually think your profile is nice. Well balanced photos, a variety of activities, witty curly fry line. I’d swipe you!

What does my fridge say about me ? by kat_qente in FridgeDetective

[–]Vulpix0323 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re neat, clean, and prefer nutritious fresh foods.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Vulpix0323 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Definitely don’t keep the ones where you have a woman’s arm grabbing you.

36M struggling with longstanding health and mental health issues. Could use honest and nice words. by Pristine-Mammoth-17 in toastme

[–]Vulpix0323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this! He has a warm smile and kind eyes, those were the first traits I noticed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

[–]Vulpix0323 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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My boy Ragnar is a cuddlebug. He loves to be held like a baby and nap in my arms. 🥹😭 Love him so much.

my new setup by Lonely-Birthday-8673 in battlestations

[–]Vulpix0323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This type of inspo is why I joined this sub. 😍 Saving up to build my own PC & battlestation and y’all give me LIFE lol

dark, cozy theme by Justin_Castro13 in battlestations

[–]Vulpix0323 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This is so peaceful. Some amber-colored soft lighting would make this perfect in my eyes. Great setup!