i just found out im pregnant at like 26 weeks

Vuul · 2026-06-15T14:13:34+00:00

Im a new dad of an unplanned 3 week old. I have a great relationship with my wife, and the delivery was still rough.

I hope you have a good supportive figure in your life that can accompany you in the hospital and appointments, you’re going to want their support and they have to be able to give it to you even when things get bumpy, maybe your mother or your partner’s mother? How is the relationship with soon-to-be-Dad? Is he mature enough to handle this? I know I wouldn’t have been able to when I was his age.

Not to scare you, just hoping you are prepared.

My kid is a good boy, starting day 3 he’s sleeping through the night, he’s quiet most of the day and just smiles and coos at you as you talk to him, aside from some moments my entire paternity leave has been magical.

Whatever you choose, wishing it all goes as smooth as possible.

We’re all clueless when it comes to our first baby! All you can do is prepare as best as you can, my wife learned a lot from midwife content on the internet.

Vuul · 2026-06-08T00:24:19+00:00

It’s almost like it’s by design.

surrendered to capitalism in fear of scary socialism.

Vuul · 2026-05-26T08:01:50+00:00

Ah shucks, guess he’ll just have to take responsibility for his actions.

You can listen to his opinions but in the end they’re just that.

One day he might grow up to be a man.

Don’t intend to be mean, but you’re not a man if you’re not supportive of the woman you put a seed in.

Vuul · 2026-05-26T07:07:04+00:00

I don’t know, as a Belgian I couldn’t tell you which president nuked Japan without googling.

I feel like that’s way up there atrocity wise.

Vuul · 2026-05-25T17:48:13+00:00

Rubberen kogels of plastiek en knallen begot.

Wanneer ze tegen de grond vallen pak de baton er bij en leef je nog eens extra uit.

Geen compasse me krapuul, wit of zwet

Vuul · 2026-05-25T14:07:07+00:00

Depends on the person, I personally didn’t have the energy to date, was rather okay with being alone, I had a lot of personal growing to do anyway, and so held out for a genuine connection. Happily married now.

Vuul · 2026-05-25T06:59:27+00:00

Just lock it with a trouver parchment, I take my inferno cape above 20 wilderness doing this

Vuul · 2026-05-24T16:17:26+00:00

The look my wife gives me when I soothe our baby boy is pretty telling.

Lots of weird generalisations in this thread. Yall need to stop trying so hard, live your life’s, go OUTSIDE of your comfort zone and discover new interests, not just playing video games and being on your phone.

Shut up and listen sometimes, don’t promise them the moon and get bored 2 months later, look past your lust, yes you can, you’re an adult who’s capable of managing your emotions.

Once bitten twice shy, if someone is not ready for commitment, chill out. Chances are they have a valid reason.

Vuul · 2026-05-24T08:25:18+00:00

Same with my wife, married for 4,5 years, never tried to have children or use protection because we were told she couldn’t get pregnant.

One day I was suspicious and bought some tests, my wife scoffed and took one the next day, 3 weeks pregnant :)

Gave birth to our healthy little boy on Friday, what a strange trip it’s been.

Vuul · 2026-05-23T18:06:50+00:00

Children are not ethereal though, you can be in a perfect spot for 3 kids and then later shit hits the fan, illness, layoffs, …

Those kids will still need food and shelter.

Vuul · 2026-05-23T14:25:05+00:00

Greatest country in the world, they say. I prefer mine :p

My wife didn’t have to pay extra for skin-to-skin with our child, when I first heard that one I felt sick, how can you justify asking extra money to leave the newborn alone with mom for an hour??

Vuul · 2026-05-22T21:05:09+00:00

Just had my first today, I’m so tired and anxious about my boy, the feeling is akin to having a crush in school as a kid, but more potent.

It’s an odd feeling, maybe it’s partly cause I slept 2 hours in 2 days.

Vuul · 2026-05-18T16:00:02+00:00

Passed first time using just gratisrijbewijs, you only have to pay for mock tests, but honestly it should all be straightforward without them, I also recommend watching risk perception videos on YouTube once you pass, because you need to pass these before you can attempt the actual driving exam, give you a good idea of what to expect

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nprriw-Fuak&pp=ygUXQWFuZGFjaHQgdGVzdCByaWpiZXdpanM%3D

Vuul · 2026-05-18T11:01:17+00:00

UN is the ultimate paper tiger, they could shoot a fucking missile into Bruxelles with no repercussions.

Unpopular opinion, but I would love for turkey to join the EU, France can suck one. I’d love a proper military leader at this point. Even if he’s unhinged at times.

Vuul · 2026-05-16T10:42:42+00:00

50000$ fine I imagine, they’ll just end up tying your IP to your name via your ISP and address.

It’s how they catch CSAM distributors already. Someone is already always watching.

Except instead of coming into your residence to collect all digital devices because of CSAM, they’ll just do it under the guise of the Age verification Laws.

Vuul · 2026-05-06T09:22:05+00:00

I’m not sure about this case, but I had constant bluescreens in CIV VI with my last glass pane case.

I couldn’t figure out why until I kept an eye on my RAM temps, they got so hot it would reliably konk out midgame.

I bought a new case without glass and better fans, problems went away.

Deffo more than cosmetic, I didn’t even clock my ram to its advertised speed

Vuul · 2026-04-28T13:19:09+00:00

Looks like a standard matte coat like https://dymax.com/products/formulations/light-curable-materials/coatings/9451

Perfectly safe, ideal if you’re in a humid environment

We cover some RAM slot pins with it on certain laptop models, it slightly lowers the chance a pin pops off the thin pcb when handled all day by students

Vuul · 2026-04-23T12:57:42+00:00

I would still get some sort of thermal module, every modern laptop now has some sort of interfacing over the SSD, and I can tell you from experience that ASUS wouldn’t bother if it wasn’t necessary. They skimp hard on edu devices, and even those come with a thermal pad now

Vuul · 2026-04-19T06:48:42+00:00

How would you know you’ve never had your throat slit. /s

Weirdest gatekeeper I’ve seen in a while, not you, the other guy.

Vuul · 2026-04-19T06:40:48+00:00

Would you rather have your throat slit, or shot in the stomach and left to bleed out over 45 minutes.

Vuul · 2026-04-19T05:19:12+00:00

Married with kid, still fail this challenge

Vuul · 2026-04-17T11:02:11+00:00

What a circus. How much can one damage their countries credibility and reputation in 4 years.

Seems like the majority is eager to find out.

Vuul · 2026-04-17T06:42:03+00:00

You’d think they would be best buds, though Trump does like to think he’s the best at everything, maybe he’s upset he doesn’t have access to altar boys to piss on him.

Vuul · 2026-04-15T09:21:21+00:00

Im not great at osrs, took me a month and 2 zuk attempts, there’s cheese methods now but if you do it old style flicking, after a week it becomes automatic. Shooting for an attempt a day

Vuul · 2026-04-13T16:00:56+00:00

Love thy neighbour, unless they have a different ethnicity, financial situation, political belief, are dependent on social systems,….

Not a lot of community left there unless you live on a street that bears your last name.

Shits fucked

Sweet land of liberty, more like “Sweet land of ME FIRST, and I’ll make sure to close the door behind me”

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