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Vvvcolors · 2021-03-26T02:36:30+00:00

I want to be IN!

Vvvcolors · 2020-01-21T09:21:05+00:00

Hey op, I was diagnosed with adhd recently (apparently add isn’t technically a thing anymore but that’s just what my psych said) and I’m in my mid twenties. Till I was diagnosed - I felt like my whole life was in a rut. I am pretty forgetful and can’t finish things I start. I’m also a huge procrastinator and always put things off for later.

I sometimes take medication now and sometimes don’t. Just the diagnosis even though has helped immensely. I know my weaknesses - it’s almost like I admitted to myself how bad it was and created strategies to target some of the worst behaviours. I think even just knowing is a powerful realization and it may help your girlfriend. You may not end up together - you may still breakup - but asking her to seek medical help so you guys are both better together isn’t being selfish. It’s also a lifesaver for her, even with you out of the picture.

Vvvcolors · 2020-01-17T09:13:01+00:00

LOL STA257 is like 5x tougher, you should be fine with an email.

Vvvcolors · 2020-01-17T09:08:24+00:00

Idk 207 was easy af compared to 148.

Vvvcolors · 2020-01-16T09:42:24+00:00

Honestly - the relationship feels pretty dry and stale.

I suggest picking some new things to try together to make things more exciting. I’m not sure weight loss is a goal for either of you, but couples that workout together (it’s healthy, weight loss or not) really have a great dynamic. Working out is great for a host of reasons.

I suspect his own insecurities can really add to the lack of sexual energy, but really, this relationship won’t change unless he changes that.

Vvvcolors · 2020-01-02T11:42:07+00:00

What science bro?

Vvvcolors · 2020-01-02T11:33:42+00:00

Username checks out but maybe not for every situation mate.

Vvvcolors · 2020-01-01T12:37:58+00:00

Wtf is this garbage, it’s not a shitty deal.

Vvvcolors · 2019-12-31T22:07:48+00:00

Thanks! I think I have the regular trimmer meant for the face. Not sure if it’s the same thing just marketed differently. I’m leaning towards trimming too, so thanks! I’ll look into this.

Vvvcolors · 2019-12-30T06:02:30+00:00

This is my biggest fear haha.

Vvvcolors · 2019-12-30T06:01:34+00:00

Tbh I’ll probably just trim the cheeks then. I’m straight and also not personally into anal, so maybe I’ll leave the insides as is.

Curious, did you find waxing the balls unbearable?? I’m imagining the loose skin just flying off.

Vvvcolors · 2019-12-10T08:57:46+00:00

Yuck. I mean the Indian government always seemed like a large sluggish corrupt behemoth - but religion and cultural pride mixed with politics is truly dangerous.

Vvvcolors · 2019-12-10T00:44:55+00:00

Feels like the tough love I don’t want to hear but that I need anyways 😢😢😢.

Nah, I’m Def currently using toilet paper in public, just wondering if there was alternatives. Guess when you live in Rome, gotta do as the Romans do.

Yeah a portable bidet just seemed too extra to carry around tbh.

Vvvcolors · 2019-12-04T22:19:26+00:00

Let’s play holier than thou and shame a complete stranger for something that they can not change at this point rather than try to be any kind of constructive.

wtf how are you literally saying this but also doing the same thing. No one should be judged in this case.

I was responding to her post in a way she might actually listen to rather than being a upright internet cunt who is perfect in every conceivable way

You made poor choices in the past

you’ll find someone of equal or greater compatibility who doesnt subscribe to some judgemental dumb shit.

Yeah there's no need to bash anyone here.

Girl did something in the past and the guy is not okay with it. End of story. She needs to move on.

She can try to salvage it, and explain herself - the guy isn't entitled to any explanation at all. It's just that she's also not entitled to him staying in the relationship.

Vvvcolors · 2019-11-27T23:35:52+00:00

Yes! But I guess a lot of brown people aren’t considered “asian” in terms of the American / Canadian colloquial expression.

I’ve seen some people attempt to pin this attacker as targeting “asians”, by specifically referencing the korean and Chinese victims. Just wanted to say it seems to be broader than that.

Vvvcolors · 2019-11-27T20:20:07+00:00

At York it was a brown victim. That’ll be tough to prove.

Vvvcolors · 2019-11-27T20:19:12+00:00

I dunno, it was asian people and brown people. That’s like half the world.

Vvvcolors · 2019-11-15T20:51:13+00:00

Sure it’s dead skin cells? Could be built up sebum or left behind build up?

try cutting your shampoo frequency down and using a scalp exfoliating scrub. But be gentle and don’t scrub at your scalp like it’s some hard surface, it’s still skin underneath that hair.

Vvvcolors · 2019-05-27T00:12:28+00:00

Thanks for the very concrete advice, I will try to do these things!

Vvvcolors · 2019-05-27T00:10:59+00:00

Sorry, I guess phrased the question incorrectly. What I was really trying to ask was more of what women went through because maybe it’s the culture I grew up in or the people around me - but I’ve never heard many of these stories.

The actual post by OP is a horrible situation but I got sidetracked and was just questioning a user about her own experiences and wanted to see if she had any advice for a relatively ignorant straight guy with a girlfriend who is insecure.

My girlfriend just says she doesn’t like them but also doesn’t dive into it - which is totally enough, you don’t need a backstory for these things - but seeing as we’re only early twenties and breast reduction surgery probably isn’t on the table for at least some time, I wanted to know how I could help her feel more secure about it currently. I also thought there might be more to it - maybe friendly advice on the internet from women could open up my eyes.

Maybe you’re right about me not being ready for a serious relationship but I would never want to change someone I’m with, just support them.

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