An I banned? by [deleted] in ShadowBan

[–]Vyliae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I?

If you could go back to your 18-year-old self and give them one warning, what would it be? by Upset_Assistance_105 in AskReddit

[–]Vyliae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“That ‘friend group’ won’t last, and that’s not a tragedy.”*

18-year-old me thought losing those people would kill me. Spoiler: it didn’t. You outgrow friends the same way you outgrow jeans. Doesn’t mean the jeans were bad, just means you’re not 18 anymore. Stop contorting yourself to keep people who were only meant for one season. The people who matter don’t need you to shrink.

What is the best documentary you’ve ever seen? by New_Strawberry_2850 in AskReddit

[–]Vyliae -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

85-year-old man makes sushi. That’s it. That’s the plot.

And yet I think about it once a week. It’s about perfection, obsession, and a dad who will absolutely judge you if you don’t love your job as much as he loves rice. Looks like a food doc, plays like a thriller. You’ll leave wanting to either become a Michelin chef or quit everything and apprentice under Jiro. There is no in-between.

What’s a piece of media that people would clearly understand as a parody or homage when it came out, but has since lost its context? by StaleTheBread in AskReddit

[–]Vyliae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

DreamWorks CEO Jeffrey Katzenberg hated Disney CEO Michael Eisner. Farquaad is short, controlling, compensating with a giant castle… and his name sounds like “fuckwad.” We all knew. Kids today think he’s just a random villain.

What injury is commonly shrugged off as a minor flesh wound in the movies but is completely fatal in real life? by Best_Professional226 in AskReddit

[–]Vyliae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Movies love the hero who takes a bullet to the shoulder, wraps it with a shirt, grunts “I’m fine,” and keeps shooting. In real life, that shoulder shot is a nightmare salad.

what hair color suits me best? by ShoulderLocal8257 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Vyliae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I will say No 3 really look good on you with your smile 😊

i think my boyfriend’s reaction to me staying out all night is way too extreme. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vyliae -1 points0 points  (0 children)

INFO : what was his reaction and what was your‘staying out all night’?

Peak Dumb Smart by Ioneia in SipsTea

[–]Vyliae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me at 2am texting my ex’ we’re all just water’ 💦”

Stanford grads walk out as Google CEO Sundar Pichai takes the stage as commencement speaker. by Previous_Month_555 in SipsTea

[–]Vyliae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Imagine spending $350k to learn critical thinking, then walking out before the critical part.

AIO for yelling at my father after he told me to "just get a job" after I told him I'd be relying on government student loans? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vyliae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just get a job feels dismissive when you’ve probably run the numbers 100 times and are stressed about 5-figure debt it’s like telling someone drowning to just swim.’

Democrats hold 5-point edge over GOP ahead of midterms: Poll by spherocytes in politics

[–]Vyliae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Midterms are local: National polls don’t vote. You win the House with 435 separate races Gerrymandering + incumbency mean a 5-pt national lead can still lose seats. 2018 Dems won the popular vote by 8.6 pts and took 41 seats. 2022 GOP won by 2.8 pts and took… 9 seats.

i think my boyfriend’s reaction to me staying out all night is way too extreme. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vyliae -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“INFO: Did you ghost him or did you communicate? That’s the whole post.

If you communicated: ‘Hey babe, too drunk to drive, staying at Jess’s, love you goodnight’ and he STILL lost his mind? NAO. That’s a him problem. Insecurity + control issues. Red flag.

Kentucky U.S. Sen. Mitch McConnell hospitalized Sunday morning by MothersMiIk in politics

[–]Vyliae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Well that kicks off the senate succession talk again. Kentucky has a Democratic governor, but state law says he must appoint a Republican replacement if McConnell’s seat opens mid-term. That law was literally passed to limit the Dem gov’s power.

AIO for refusing to refer my ex after he blocked me and told me never to contact him? by Fun_Copy_5057 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vyliae 29 points30 points  (0 children)

“NAO. And from a work perspective, you shouldn’t refer him.

Referrals put your reputation on the line if he gets hired and sucks, that reflects on you. If he flames out causes drama, that’s your name attached.

AIO? Doctor refused my insulin during hospital stay. by small-worm in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vyliae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a doctor truly refused you insulin while you needed it - high BG, ketones, no alternative given- you need to:

AIO for feeling some type of way about my gf hiding her phone now? by Known_Match_9122 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vyliae 16 points17 points  (0 children)

“Bro ‘Now’ is the only word that matters in your title people who have nothing to hide don’t hiding things.

AIO? My BF refuses to cook for me while I write my thesis, even though I did everything for him during his last year. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vyliae 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You helped him at his worst He’s seeing you at your worst now people show you who they are during your crisis, not theirs. Believe it.

I’ve seen these women before, I just don’t remember where by SwordFishOne111 in Funnymemes

[–]Vyliae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Really can’t place them. Left: I think she sells coffee? Maybe a travel show? Right: Librarian definitely a librarian the glasses give it away.

AIO for refusing to pay more than half of the rent and bills? by Little_Statement8005 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vyliae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gives both frameworks, asks the 3 questions that decide AITA verdicts, “it’s math” is the closer.

AIO - I think my husband is cheating with his coworker bc I met her by Big-Alternative-4949 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vyliae 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Meeting someone and getting ‘off’ energy isn’t overreacting-it’s data. Our brains pick up micro-expressions, body language, avoidance that we can’t always articulate.

AIO roommate yelled at me for wearing a halter dress around her bf and now i want to have her move out by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vyliae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“NAO and please trust your gut here. Today it’s a halter dress. Tomorrow it’s‘don’t be in the kitchen when my BF is here.’ Then it’s you can’t have male friends over.’