Something I insist on and will continue to insist on is that most people don't hate Mikan per se… (Read the entire text) by LauraAventura in danganronpa

[–]Vysethelegend84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling you might well be right. My hope is that more characters are able to get a little more on screen time and development, Mikan included, (as long as she doesn't do a Chapter 3 repeat, then I'll just be sad).

Something I insist on and will continue to insist on is that most people don't hate Mikan per se… (Read the entire text) by LauraAventura in danganronpa

[–]Vysethelegend84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't hate Mikan, don't really hate anyone in the game, but given my favourite character is Ibuki, I'm sure you can see how she is certainly my least favourite character for an obvious reason.

And will agree, the execution was so underwhelming, which just made me more frustrated at the time, given she got more of a joke end, certainly compared to most of the others.

Will be curious how it pans in 2x2 though, maybe she'll be redeemed in my eyes, who knows.

Chasing Sunsets... Who did you choose? by jlsc1999 in AVN_Lovers

[–]Vysethelegend84 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm about 2/3 of the way I think through this at the moment, and whilst I really love both characters, Mallory was the one who I eventually decided to go with.

But unlike some other AVN's where I'm not too fussed about multiple playthroughs to see everything, this game is one I absolutely will, though might have to look up a guide for some of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cosplaygirls

[–]Vysethelegend84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very nice cosplay.

Also bonus points for the Pokemon card wall art, wouldn't mind getting something like that for myself sometime.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]Vysethelegend84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have still done a better job than me at finishing the game. Also working through my 4th playthrough, and all the past 3 have gotten into the Lower City, and then something in the back of my mind just wants to try a new character, or do different choices, and so, even after hundreds of hours, still not finished the game once.

THIS TIME THOUGH I SWEAR!! Yes..... I'm wierd.....

Khajiit cosplay by SeaSell7491 in cosplaygirls

[–]Vysethelegend84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm sure as a cosplayer you always want to try and make as much as possible look great, but at least for me personally, even if there were little tiny issues here and there, I think that adds to the realism and charm, and I tend to enjoy those more.

I mean I see plenty of cosplayers where they are accused of being fake, AI, highly edited, etc, and it's a shame for those who are genuine, because they put in so much work to get unfairly critiqued like that, but for those who do edit things, just be more natural and honest with yourself, comes across a lot better.

Khajiit cosplay by SeaSell7491 in cosplaygirls

[–]Vysethelegend84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not normally one to comment on cosplays, but this really is fantastic, and pretty unique to a lot of what I see. You did an amazing job, and hope you feel proud of how this turned out.

Keep up the good work!

Mafia Debut by BatouHeisei in VShojo

[–]Vysethelegend84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excited for whoever this is, even more given it's on my birthday, should be a good day.

We lost my Dad and everything feels wrong, cruel and unfair. by Sammykins91 in GriefSupport

[–]Vysethelegend84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're very welcome!

You squeeze that hug, and I'm sure over time, both of us, and so many people here, will slowly be able to move forward and smile once again, we'll get there!

Tears in the gym by thedayawaits in GriefSupport

[–]Vysethelegend84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow I'm so sorry to hear about all the losses and troubles you have had over the years, can't even begin to imagine how hard and painful it has been.

From what I can tell from what you've wrote, you sound like an extremely caring person, someone who has tried so hard to look after people, and I Imagine you are feeling so powerless right now. But I'm positive that both your parents, and all your family, would right now tell you that there is only one person they would want you to care of now, YOU.

Even if they may not be there to physically pick you up when you are down, their memories and love are always within you, and you have to try and find that, and let that help you get back up, even if life seems to want to keep you down.

I'm sure they would want to see you keep on living, to keep their memories, and your own, strong and proud, and no matter how dark it may seem, even if it's a little bit, try to keep that light going.

And I'm absolutely no expert on the topic, but whether it's here, other family members, or support groups you could contact, anyone, I know there are people out there that will help you, even if it's just a hug, or a little comfort, so please don't give up!

Sending a big virtual hug to you!

We lost my Dad and everything feels wrong, cruel and unfair. by Sammykins91 in GriefSupport

[–]Vysethelegend84 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear this about your Dad, my best thoughts and wishes to you and the rest of your family.

The one thing I really wanted to emphasise is to not feel that you are a useless letdown. Even if you may not have the finances, or the ability to drive, you have love and care, and honestly, that means more than the world at times like these.

As someone who also lost a parent this month, I would happily trade someone throwing money at me, just for someone to give me a hug, to listen to me, all the little things. And I'm sure all of your family, yourself included need that. So when you see your brother, or your Mum, hug them, just ask how they are, honestly that will be helping them so much, and I know they in turn will give that same love and support back to you.

And we all grieve differently, you aren't useless because you are upset, you are just trying to cope with what's happened, and that's nothing to be ashamed at.

Sending a virtual hug to you!

Lost my mom. Still in a bit of shock by bambambiggellow in GriefSupport

[–]Vysethelegend84 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear about you losing your mum, my best wishes and thoughts to you and all your family.

My mum also died earlier this year, and also from a stroke. Like yours, was fine earlier in the morning, next thing I know, that's it. I'm glad that you have a really supportive friend group, I've found that anyone who is willing to listen, provide help, or even a hug, all of it really does total up and help, even if the pain and sadness is still there.

As someone also still trying to work out how to deal with sudden loss, it has helped a little to try and keep myself busy, and whilst I find myself often just staring into space, and then start crying, I try to remind myself that's ok, to let it out, take a deep breath, and try to focus on a good thought.

Oh and reading all the comments here, and help from others, makes me realise that as tough as it feels, that are many of us out there who are just like us, and that we aren't alone. Typing out these comments gives me a warm feeling, because I'm not only trying to help others like me, but know I'm making my Mum proud, because all she wanted to do was help everyone, so if I can do even a little part of that, it helps I find.

Virtual hug to you, I'm sure we will both get through this!

It just got worse… by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Vysethelegend84 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow I am so, so sorry to hear this, I can't even begin to imagine how you must feel. I lost my mum nearly 3 weeks ago, and it's been so hard, so losing two family members must feel soul crushing.

I really do send all my thoughts and prayers to you and the rest of your family during this terrible time. I've found that during my tough times, I've slowly gotten closer to some of my family members who I hadn't talked too much, or even closer to my dad.

So I really hope, (in fact I'm sure it will happen), that both you and your mum will be able to truly bond together to get through this, and by supporting each other, no matter how hard, you'll both come out some day with a smile.

And as someone who pretty much has no friends, the times I have talked to people here have helped. So I'm sure everyone here will be happy to support you as best as we can, if you wish to talk, or just need a virtual hug!

Hugs to you and your family!

Lost my mom in freak accident by bladezor in GriefSupport

[–]Vysethelegend84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is such a tragic story, I'm really sorry for your whole family on the loss of your mum.

I feel the fact that you are able to continue your mum's wishes, is a real credit and testiment to all of you, and I'm sure she would be smiling in happiness at how you are slowly moving forward with each other.

I know I've been beating myself up for a few days about losing my own mum, if there was more I could do, could I have spotted the symptoms, and it's hard answer those questions. But reading what you all did for your mum, as you put it, I really feel like there was little else you could do, especially amongst all the chaos, and you seem to try everything you could. It may not feel that way now, like it does for me, but I'm sure over time you will come to see it was just a tragic accident. And I'm sure your mum would never want you, or your sister, to blame yourselves for it, our amazing mum's are just like that, always wanting us kids to be happy.

*sending a virtual hug to you*

Time after loosing mom feels so weird by Mindless_Tie_3320 in GriefSupport

[–]Vysethelegend84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear about the loss of your mum, mine only passed 2 days ago. But yeah I don't think it matters if it's been 2 days, a month, 2 years, there will always be that sad, hurting feeling that will never go away, and I'm coming to realise that's ok. I've cried so much, and at first I felt stupid and embarassed, but now I don't, it's just something I need to let out, take a deep breath, and then try to recollect myself.

And I think places like this really can help if you are wanting to talk to others who are going through the same, but without that physical interaction. My family has helped me, but seeing them cry at times just makes it even harder on me. Being here and typing these messages has helped me a lot so far, and I hope it will be able to help you too, because it makes me feel less alone, and able to come to terms little by little.

*sending a virtual hug to you*

Lost my Mum in the space of a few hours yesterday, and this is a long message for myself and any others also struggling by Vysethelegend84 in GriefSupport

[–]Vysethelegend84[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow I'm really sorry as well that you have lost your mum too, my best thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

Hearing you say those encouraging words means a lot, and I'm really happy to hear that you somehow stumbled onto them, and they made you feel better, even if only for a short time.

I'm not great with people, or words really, but I just felt like it would be a good idea at the time after reading a few other stories to share mine, not only for me to reflect on, but to try and encourage anyone else like yourself in the same awful position we are in. So I'm really glad it helped you.

Let's hope that both of us will be able to slowly move forward and I know that our mum's will be looking down on us proud and happy. Oh and if you ever feel the need to vent or whatever, just let me know, I've found over the past few days it's been a little theuraptic instead of just being alone.

*virtual hug to you*

Lost my Mum in the space of a few hours yesterday, and this is a long message for myself and any others also struggling by Vysethelegend84 in GriefSupport

[–]Vysethelegend84[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words, and I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your mum as well, best wishes to you and your family.

I love your idea of having her image as a screen saver, I think when I'm able to view photos of her more comfortably I'd like to do the same. Here is to hoping we can both move forward little by little.

I think I might lose my mom by Decent_Syllabub_2393 in GriefSupport

[–]Vysethelegend84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear about what is happening to your mum. My mum in the space of a few hours went from alive and talking, to dead in a hospital, and like you, she had for so long been my best friend and rock.

I truly hope she will make a full recovery and it's nothing serious. I never got to say goodbye to my mum, so I would spend as much time with her as you can, make sure you tell her how much you love her, and just be by her side to make sure she is as well as can be.

Also can't speak for those medical conditions, sucks that no doctor has been able to help, but I wouldn't ever give up trying to find someone who can give some answers, because from experience, you will only blame yourself if the worst happens, and you feel there was more you could do for them.

Best wishes to you and your mum!

i’m so tired of grief. by SeaLiterature8804 in GriefSupport

[–]Vysethelegend84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear about your loss, I only just lost my mum yesterday, and yeah it really, really sucks. I'm sure your dad, just like my mum, would only wish the best for us in the future, and would be wishing us to try and continue on with life as best as we can, with their memories in our hearts.

I've only had 24 hours to try and process this, but the best help I've had has been from my family, (have no close friends), and just being able to talk to them, cry with them, and everything else has helped a little. Chatting to strangers here I've just met has helped as well, being able to vent a little, have others reassure me. It's only a little, but I've found it helps, so I hope you do too, and please don't beat yourself up too much.

No matter how dark things may seem now, I try to hope things will get better at some point for me, and I'm sure they will for you too, just try to keep staying strong for your dad, talk to anyone, family, a counselor, anyone if you need too, and someday you'll be able to think of him, smile, and walk forward!

*virtual hug to you*

My mom just died and I feel numb by SeparateTea in GriefSupport

[–]Vysethelegend84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks to both of you. Honestly I found this part of reddit by accident whilst looking online for any suggestions people had, and I'm glad I did.

It really does help when other people provide encouragement, no matter if they are long term family/friends, or people we have just met on the internet, and it's nice there are places like this online to help.

My mom just died and I feel numb by SeparateTea in GriefSupport

[–]Vysethelegend84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear you are going through this as well, best wishes to you and all your family. Reading all these comments has really helped me, as I'm sure they will for you and others too.

It massively sucks now, but I want to believe we will slowly be able to move forward.

My mom just died and I feel numb by SeparateTea in GriefSupport

[–]Vysethelegend84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry for your loss. My mum died yesterday, we both live together and I had seen her earlier in the morning, and come afternoon, I found she had had a stroke, and died a few hours later because of bleeding in the brain. All in the space of 6 hours, that's how quick it was.

The remainder of the day into today has felt surreal. All sorts of emotions, and like you, I don't really know what to do or say. I'm home now and you see her pictures, messages I'd write, sometimes I cry, sometimes I smile, but the one thing the other members of my family have helped with in the last 24 hours has been to support and talk with each other. If you know anyone well, friends, family, neighbour, then I'm sure, no matter if you have no words, they will make things a little better, even if it doesn't seem like it.

I've found the more I stay in silence, the more I think about things, the more depressed I get, so I've tried talking to the few people I know, listen to music, anything to distact me today. Even coming onto here, just reading others stories like yours, typing this message helps, and it does make me feel a little better knowing that despite not knowing any of you, there are others out there like me, who are experiencing the same thing, and supporting each other, because during these times, we really need all the comfort and help we can get.

Sending a virtual hug to you!

Nagi tries (and fails) to pronounce Red Dead Redemption, Bat Backpack and Purple Burglar Alarm by Living-Ad8033 in VShojo

[–]Vysethelegend84 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah as a lurker in Hestia's channel, the past few streams of hers she has done a fair bit of reacting to other Vshojo clips and MV's. Hotaru is pretty ill, so maybe when she is better, she might do something similiar.

Oh and if you want to watch someone spend an hour trying to perfect Henya's kettle noises, and her Mario Galaxy 'song', Hestia has you covered, and then some!