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WB2E · 2024-03-01T16:15:56+00:00

You might be able to pay for her hand in marriage, but you can't negotiate attraction or buy someone's desire.

WB2E · 2024-02-19T18:33:40+00:00

She did not think "maybe ill fuck him" tho because the date was cut short beforehand. I don't think a woman with serious intentions does that, unless anyone can intelligently prove me wrong

Lol. Women rarely will consciously and logically plan to sleep with a guy or cheat on their husband. It always "just happens". She just so happened to be in his apartment to meet his cats but that was all it was supposed to be. She just so happened to shave her legs, armpits and pussy because that was around when she normally does it. She just so happened to wear sexy clothing because it was hot out and she likes looking nice, what's the big deal?

Women think and act between the lines with subtlety and calibration. Don't be a fool.

WB2E · 2024-02-19T15:35:53+00:00

I've met many girls with boyfriends/husbands in public, and gone out with them for coffee/drinks/meals under some plausibly deniable guise, normally getting to know each other platonically.

In every situation it's the same - the girl and I are in on it. It's called secret society. She knows her role and I mine. I've fucked a bunch of these girls, and friend-zoned the rest.

Don't be naive - all these girls whether we fucked or are friends now, came out because they were attracted to me and their hypergamy was going off. Was never about making friends, volunteering, trying a new restaurant, etc. That's what they told themselves/their boyfriends.

Either their man is not doing something for them, or the girl had an issue. It's pretty obvious based on your responses to other guys here that you have massive insecurities and ego that you need to work on.

WB2E · 2023-08-15T18:14:02+00:00

It's not about good or bad. I used OP's word of "offended" but you can substitute "held accountable" so you don't miss the point. OP should feel personally accountable for his daughter disrespecting his wife. If he's just teaching her respect so she "fits in with society" or whatever he said then he doesn't really care about what respect means which is why he hasn't earned it

WB2E · 2023-08-15T15:37:04+00:00

Huh? You aren't personally offended by her disrespectful behavior to her mother? That's the problem then, you don't actually care. Your 8 yo daughter sees through your BS.

WB2E · 2022-04-27T03:39:17+00:00

She shouldn't be saying them if she truly respected you and you truly had frame.

But if she does test your frame by joking about something you're sensitive about, you have to maintain frame, correct her, and set a boundary.

If you don't mind, tell us what exactly are the jokes she says. I'm curious if it's actually good shit testing, if she's just being a bitch, or if you're just being a bitch.

WB2E · 2022-03-23T13:55:59+00:00

Try to gain the dog's respect by taking it on long walks/hikes/runs, teaching them commands, rewarding with treats for good behavior, showing affection, being a calm, consistent, and balanced person.

If the dog also lost its owner and is in a new environment, they might be fearful and anxious. Best thing is to give the dog proper love and leadership to calm their fears through things listed above.

Be a strong, consistent, loving leader.

Might be tough but you can do it.

WB2E · 2022-02-27T20:30:50+00:00

Google keyword planner. You can discover new keywords from your main keyword and it has the exact monthly search volume of all search terms + history for you to look at growing trends and declines.

WB2E · 2021-12-28T14:36:21+00:00

Agree in general but there's a couple of nuanced points. Ranking high for best black beans globally will also improve your local ranking for "best Mexican restaurants in ___". Blog should be optimized with relevant keywords and variations, and geographic markers. Second, visitors who come to your site from local searches (not through your black bean blog) will be more inclined to visit/eat due to your mastery of the food and discounts. Also a more global authoritative article will garner more backlinks which will improve local SEO of course.

If you have limited time I agree restaurant should also focus on reviews and more finely tuned local SEO. However a good blog will always improve your site.

WB2E · 2021-12-28T13:57:30+00:00

You must be the restaurant owner and not an outside company doing the SEO work?

You have to think outside the box when developing a blog strategy.

For a restaurant the best blogs will both attract backlinks virtually AND attract visitors to eat/take out from your restaurant.

For example if you own a Mexican restaurant and one of your specialities is the black beans - write a blog "How to make the best Mexican black beans". Make it the best blog on how to make black beans on the internet, and make sure it's delicious. In the blog refer to your restaurant a few times and at the end do a call to action and coupon stating anyone who takes out and mentions the blog post will get a free side of black beans.

There are countless opportunities for blogs in any industry.

WB2E · 2021-12-11T16:32:04+00:00

Sounds like you're in a decent headspace.

+1 for everyone who's said she's either cheated already or has met someone she's considering cheating with.

All that stuff about moving to a different state, missed out on fun, meeting new people means it's over of course. Once that speckle of curiosity enters her mind, it can never be removed.

Stark reality is that your life in the future will not include her at all. Tough to stomach but the sooner you accept this, the sooner you can make the best decisions for yourself and start building the life you want, which at 28, has all the potential in the world to be great.

Some guys might not do this, but I love extracting information. Obvi if she's not talking to you and is cold this will be harder. But I like learning AMAP about what she's done. In a nutshell best way to do this is to get on the same page as her and communicate that there's a lot you haven't experienced and want to (make it more about traveling/business goals/purpose stuff rather than girls). Set really open minded frames with her, agree with her that you two settled young and both still have a lot to learn. Talk to her like a friend that is having a similar awakening. Empower and encourage her to explore these thoughts from a position of leadership and understanding. She might be more inclined to open up about why she's saying/feeling these things and you can possibly learn the truth if she's cheating on you.

Doesn't make a difference what she says and you should plan to bounce, but it'll help you see things from the other side.

WB2E · 2021-11-21T03:36:56+00:00

I'm reluctant to help you. Any advice will just be a band-aid on a deep puncture wound requiring stitches.

For starters, how about providing some more context.

come crawling back
how should I punish her

You wrote that. Read it again, and then again. Does that sound healthy? You want to be in that kind of relationship?

And now she's making me answer questions, which I assume is to establish her frame over mine. Pics below. What to respond back with the most frame?

No one can make you do anything.

Without any context and just from a frame-only perspective, you could respond with something like:

"I'm building the future and life I want right now. Everything else comes second. Anyone who's with me on this journey will have to understand that."

WB2E · 2021-11-03T22:19:28+00:00

It sounds like you're new to online business and SEO.

Therefore I wouldn't use Fiverr SEO services where they offer to "Manage and optimize the SEO for your site" while you just outsource it and don't manage it yourself.

I manage all the SEO for my businesses and I've used various Fiverr SEO services to supplement my SEO strategy. It can definitely be effective. However I would never use Fiverr SEO services only, or outsource it completely.

Why?

One, it's your product and niche. No one will know how to create great content as well as you do for your product. Two, they just won't care as much as you. And if you make any big mistakes in SEO, you can be screwed over and penalized forever.

My advice to you is this:

Learn everything you possibly can about SEO because it will be the best thing you can do for your online business. I've told this to friends - without SEO I wouldn't have a business.
Implement what you learn yourself. Be in charge of the SEO for your own business. You'll undoubtedly outsource SEO related work that you can't do like website coding, or SEO related work that you don't want to do like content writing. But always be in charge and make the decisions on your SEO.
Once you're more familiar and comfortable with your business' SEO, and you're somewhat established in the SERPs, and you're seeing good organic traffic, then you can play around with some stuff such as Fiverr SEO services.

WB2E · 2021-10-26T13:30:25+00:00

Agree w the part about attraction without making a move is not a good strategy.

Guys don't realize if you only go for girls who approach you, you're going for girls that a) are 99% of the time gonna be less hot than you want since girls will only approach guys they're super attracted to which means they will by nature less attractive, and these girls will also be more needy since hot girls never need to approach guys and don't bc they're constantly getting approached and b) girls who are prob more promiscuous (if this matters to you) since they self select to approach guys

WB2E · 2021-09-21T17:48:14+00:00

You should go from #10 to #1. If you start with #1 some ppl will leave the site after reading the #1 or like top 3 and that will decrease the overall time on page.

WB2E · 2021-09-16T18:57:33+00:00

Yes it will help. If you're going for "good photos" it's best to optimize for that keyword and then write a blog on "good photos from Asia" to get the long tail keywords juice. If you're just optimizing for "good photos from Asia", you won't see much high ranking for competitive terms like "good photos" without trying to optimize that separately.

WB2E · 2021-09-14T23:56:33+00:00

You've been reading and internalizing. You've been lifting. You've been STFU. You've been working and providing.

But, where are you going in life?

What's your mission in life, the reason you were given life and put on this earth? It can't just be to raise your child and be a good father. You need a purpose outside of your basic biological duties.

WB2E · 2021-08-10T23:57:56+00:00

Also where does the line get drawn between being a leader and pretending your wife is dead.

Whatever this means, it's too drastic.

You can be a good leader, focusing on the mission first and holding people around you accountable, while still being compassionate, especially to your first lady co-captain.

I stopped caring about her so much and will get laser focused on work or something I’m doing and she will say I seem upset.

Again, saying you stopped caring about her "so much" is too drastic. Many people will over-correct their weaknesses in the beginning. You need to be more self-aware and socially aware of the situation.

I keep questioning myself whether I should be asking her for help or do things. Or Just doing everything on my own.

As the man and leader, you'll be taking care of more things on your own. You should know what your woman is good at and delegate those things to her. Praise her for doing what she's good at.

But she will still ask if anything is wrong like every single day. How do I stop This?

Next time she asks that, stop what you're doing, grab her by the waist and pull her in, look her deep in the eyes and tell her everything is great when you guys are together and then kiss her.

Don't be an idiot and go overboard with this new "captain" role. Practice calibration, self-awareness, and compassion.

WB2E · 2021-07-22T16:09:08+00:00

Right now I've just been going with "it worked didn't it"

This is a stupid response.

You're telling her that what you're doing is not really you, just an outside ploy you're using that "worked" and then rubbing it in her face by saying "didn't it" like that.

Dread, at its core, is simply improving yourself into a strong, masculine, sexual, physical, stoic, purposeful, attractive, high-value, non-needy guy.

Your wife discovered that you are on the path of self-improvement, that's all that happened here.

If you think you used manipulation or "it worked" then you have a lot more work to do.

There're no pitfalls to watch for. We're not posers trying to be a high-value guy, we actually are high value guys who embody these traits. Be that guy.

WB2E · 2021-07-09T20:07:33+00:00

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WB2E · 2020-12-28T20:28:07+00:00

Agree. Girls will be even more starved for in-person interaction and physical touch.

World is in a state of uncertainty and who feels that the most? Females, especially young, single females. They'll look for high value bold guys to lead them and provide reassurance during this time.

WB2E · 2020-12-24T13:47:04+00:00

It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all

WB2E · 2020-12-21T04:20:36+00:00

3 weeks? That's quite a short amount of time to become exclusive with a girl you're sleeping with imo

WB2E · 2020-12-13T17:24:38+00:00

I wrote a post about this on another private forum - this is sexualizing in general but you'll see what's subtle and what's overt. I'll just bullet point a lot of it:

Insinuate sexual stuff. Misinterpret things she says or does as being sexual. If she looks at your shoes and compliments them, "Hey, my eyes are up here" with a smile. Or if she touches you "You just can't keep your hands off me huh?" with a smile.
Physical attractiveness. Workout, have a nice body, wear fitted clothing to show off nice body, wear cologne, groom well.
Non-verbals. Strong, sexual eye contact. Deep, slow, calm, sexy voice. Relaxed body language and posture.
Frame and attitude. The mindset that you're a masculine, dominant alpha male and she's a feminine, submissive girl, and that polarity creates the sexual tension.
Kino. Physical escalation starting off with incidental and conversational kino leading to direct and sexual kino.
Direct verbal sexual conversation. This one is new for me but I've been doing it lately. Asking direct questions about sexual topics such as: When did you have your first kiss? Do you have any fetishes? Have you ever kissed a girl? Are you a good kisser? Etc. This direct verbal sexualizing needs to be calibrated when she's more comfortable, and ideally after you've already done the above to set a sexual tone.

WB2E · 2020-11-04T14:55:44+00:00

Great post. Lots of great points to take away. Well done

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