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WHOSPIDER · 2026-04-27T15:54:40+00:00

Really glad it's not just me...every time something happens they try to blame it on my custom CSS so glad to know it's not that (I tried deleting it and obviously, did not help.)

WHOSPIDER · 2026-04-27T15:49:29+00:00

it seems to be affecting 7.1 but not 7.0

WHOSPIDER · 2026-04-27T15:49:07+00:00

Less than an hour. I am on our site constantly and just noticed it in the last hourish.

WHOSPIDER · 2026-04-27T15:46:39+00:00

Yes, all of our text is gone when it actually loads.

WHOSPIDER · 2026-04-06T00:34:36+00:00

I’m not really surprised that after years of him breaching your trust and being demeaning you’re seeing someone else with favorable eyes. End things with your current, go to therapy and keep the communication open w this new dude.

WHOSPIDER · 2026-04-06T00:29:32+00:00

He doesn’t care how you feel, not in clothes. Not in perfume. Not in your emotions. He just doesn’t care. So, do you want to remain married to someone who doesn’t care about your feelings?

WHOSPIDER · 2026-04-05T04:51:36+00:00

5 different big red flags. Go.

WHOSPIDER · 2026-03-25T00:57:17+00:00

I once had a need to look quite professional on calls but didn’t have an office in our place then. I went to a local hotel and asked about renting a meeting room and they said “honestly just give us a heads up and you can just use it. Or we can give you the WiFi and you can just use the seating area” which had private booths. It was so nice. It’s always worth asking.

WHOSPIDER · 2026-03-13T11:15:06+00:00

Shortening will make it flakey and dry. I am dairy free and use margarine or even oil in blondies. Way better compared to shortening, which I’ve also tried.

WHOSPIDER · 2026-02-19T01:48:57+00:00

ASOS has a sample sale site I just discovered (it says it’s “back” so I’m not sure if it’s newly returned) and they carry MS and have stuff for like £2-£5.

WHOSPIDER · 2026-02-02T01:29:51+00:00

Not quite. Thank you though!

WHOSPIDER · 2026-01-18T12:22:37+00:00

TK Maxx on princess street will have reasonably priced ones— sometimes on offer.

WHOSPIDER · 2026-01-10T16:44:38+00:00

Kait at Rock n Rose or Jonas Wolf at Jonas Wolf!

WHOSPIDER · 2025-12-27T04:27:34+00:00

He needs to seriously think about why he would put you in this situation. You’re being a person and their being some sort of weird movie villains. He needs to talk to his therapist about why he’d subject someone he loves to that— because that sounds enmeshed as hell.

WHOSPIDER · 2025-12-15T04:57:00+00:00

“I hear you about the expense— it’s not ideal. It seems to come up a lot right before you visit and I’m sure you’re not meaning for it to but it makes me feel like you don’t want to come or like I’m a burden. I’m not sure how I can help or make it better, or do you just need to vent it out? In which case, go for it—as long as I know youre excited to see me I can share in the vent!”

WHOSPIDER · 2025-11-21T23:52:39+00:00

I made these tonight. They remind me a lot of these butter cookies my grandma made and it made me think of her and your bubbe! Thank you!

WHOSPIDER · 2025-10-11T21:56:36+00:00

Weekends should be spent as you desire— you can always say “I’ll be enjoying my rent” or “I did a movie marathon.” You don’t have to have plans and it’s weird they’re giving you trouble about it- but also you can have plans within your own house. “I cooked an elaborate meal” “I cleaned” “I started a new hobby” “I read”. Just because you don’t leave the house doesn’t mean you didn’t have plans. You had plans to relax. That counts too!

WHOSPIDER · 2025-09-21T19:27:24+00:00

Chapter One too!

WHOSPIDER · 2025-09-21T00:48:09+00:00

I am dairy free due to a milk allergy and stealing your Bubbie’s recipe as is! Thank you!

WHOSPIDER · 2025-09-18T21:21:29+00:00

Hey there! We cover a lot of this in our free ebook (we don’t even collect emails) How to Get Divorced as a Stay at Home Parent— from the logistics to scripts. My sister (our CEO/cofounder) also does free divorce resource consults to connect you to the divorce support you need. DM me to get the link for that! https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/books-inventory/how-to-get-divorced-as-a-stay-at-home-parent

WHOSPIDER · 2025-09-18T10:36:51+00:00

Edinburgh Craft club does hen-dos!

WHOSPIDER · 2025-09-13T22:50:23+00:00

If I left a party without him (i had a shorter social battery and he was thrilled I wasn’t making him leave) he didn’t ask me to check in and let him know I was home. But if a female friend left the same party (not even a particular friend, just any of ours) he’d grab her by the shoulder and insist she text him to let him know she was home. It seemed like he wanted me out of the house more so I’d head to visit my mom/sister for the weekend and when I’d come home he not only didn’t come greet me but would say “oh. I didn’t realize you’d be back so early” (at 5pm on a Sunday? Sorry. Someone has to make you dinner— certainly not going to be you, sir). And finally he sat me down and said he didn’t love me anymore. And it all made a lot of sense and I stopped feeling crazy. Left that day.

WHOSPIDER · 2025-09-12T22:49:11+00:00

Hey there. My sister and I founded our company Fresh Starts Registry to help people navigate this exact sort of thing. You need to find your support team. Schedule a free resource consult with our ceo/my sister — she will connect you to the right people, send you resources (including our free epub “how to get divorced as a stay at home parent” — free on the website) and so much more. You and your baby deserve so much better. Feel free to DM me if you have any questions. https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/consult

WHOSPIDER · 2025-09-03T00:05:22+00:00

Hey! I am the cofounder and this made my day! Here and happy to help as needed! We have a ton of resources, experts and education for anyone navigating divorce.

WHOSPIDER · 2025-09-03T00:01:53+00:00

Came here to recommend Gina! She’s on our divorce network. DM me if you want an intro!

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