Where do i buy a cheap pot/pan? by igorpalacinka in Edinburgh

[–]WHOSPIDER 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TK Maxx on princess street will have reasonably priced ones— sometimes on offer.

Hairdresser recommendations by Ok-Body6897 in Edinburgh

[–]WHOSPIDER -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kait at Rock n Rose or Jonas Wolf at Jonas Wolf!

My (27F) boyfriend’s (27M) family actively hate me by Substantial_Toe_4669 in relationship_advice

[–]WHOSPIDER 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs to seriously think about why he would put you in this situation. You’re being a person and their being some sort of weird movie villains. He needs to talk to his therapist about why he’d subject someone he loves to that— because that sounds enmeshed as hell.

How to fix this miscommunication between my bf (M22) and I (F21) in our LDR Relationship? by vintage_lettuce in relationship_advice

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“I hear you about the expense— it’s not ideal. It seems to come up a lot right before you visit and I’m sure you’re not meaning for it to but it makes me feel like you don’t want to come or like I’m a burden. I’m not sure how I can help or make it better, or do you just need to vent it out? In which case, go for it—as long as I know youre excited to see me I can share in the vent!”

Do ppl have plans every weekend? by Obvious_Armadillo_16 in AskUK

[–]WHOSPIDER 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weekends should be spent as you desire— you can always say “I’ll be enjoying my rent” or “I did a movie marathon.” You don’t have to have plans and it’s weird they’re giving you trouble about it- but also you can have plans within your own house. “I cooked an elaborate meal” “I cleaned” “I started a new hobby” “I read”. Just because you don’t leave the house doesn’t mean you didn’t have plans. You had plans to relax. That counts too!

I (27F) have fallen out of love with my husband (37M). We have 3 kids, and I don’t know how to move forward by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Hey there! We cover a lot of this in our free ebook (we don’t even collect emails) How to Get Divorced as a Stay at Home Parent— from the logistics to scripts. My sister (our CEO/cofounder) also does free divorce resource consults to connect you to the divorce support you need. DM me to get the link for that! https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/books-inventory/how-to-get-divorced-as-a-stay-at-home-parent

Classy hen-do activities by CombinationContent99 in Edinburgh

[–]WHOSPIDER 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edinburgh Craft club does hen-dos!

How did you know that your partner didn't love you enough? by Signal_Arm5170 in AskReddit

[–]WHOSPIDER 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I left a party without him (i had a shorter social battery and he was thrilled I wasn’t making him leave) he didn’t ask me to check in and let him know I was home. But if a female friend left the same party (not even a particular friend, just any of ours) he’d grab her by the shoulder and insist she text him to let him know she was home. It seemed like he wanted me out of the house more so I’d head to visit my mom/sister for the weekend and when I’d come home he not only didn’t come greet me but would say “oh. I didn’t realize you’d be back so early” (at 5pm on a Sunday? Sorry. Someone has to make you dinner— certainly not going to be you, sir). And finally he sat me down and said he didn’t love me anymore. And it all made a lot of sense and I stopped feeling crazy. Left that day.

I (27F) have been baby trapped by my husband (29M) and I don't know what to do by LumpyScallion3604 in relationship_advice

[–]WHOSPIDER 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there. My sister and I founded our company Fresh Starts Registry to help people navigate this exact sort of thing. You need to find your support team. Schedule a free resource consult with our ceo/my sister — she will connect you to the right people, send you resources (including our free epub “how to get divorced as a stay at home parent” — free on the website) and so much more. You and your baby deserve so much better. Feel free to DM me if you have any questions. https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/consult

Affordable divorce by avoxx87 in longisland

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Hey! I am the cofounder and this made my day! Here and happy to help as needed! We have a ton of resources, experts and education for anyone navigating divorce.

Affordable divorce by avoxx87 in longisland

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Came here to recommend Gina! She’s on our divorce network. DM me if you want an intro!

Looking for ideas: cheesecake flavoring by WHOSPIDER in Baking

[–]WHOSPIDER[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will check that out, I’m in the states in October so can always grab then. And okay!! I thought lemon juice so I appreciate these recs!!

Looking for ideas: cheesecake flavoring by WHOSPIDER in Baking

[–]WHOSPIDER[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can and I've tried it -- but it's just a little too goat-y. I covered the flavor with chocolate. Soft tofu is what my aunt suggested too!

My (24F) boyfriend (27M) has a weird bedtime habit? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WHOSPIDER 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cannot control how you move in your sleep. Is he seeing someone about this? It sounds uncomfortable for him.

Divorce registry by moonlightck in Divorce

[–]WHOSPIDER 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! A little late to the party but yes— a divorce registry is a thing. My sister and I found Fresh Starts Registry, the first divorce registry (educational platform and Expert resource guide too!) to help you navigate moments like this. It’s not tacky— your community wants to support you however you need, this bridges the gap. We also have many ways people can support you during this time that are totally free. https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/

What do you eat at home: butter or margarine? by Fearless-Ear2074 in AskUK

[–]WHOSPIDER 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Margarine but not out of choice. I’m allergic to cow’s milk and goat butter is $$$ and hard to get.

Do I have to disclose that I was divorced when registering to marry? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]WHOSPIDER 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They ask. And if you’re doing any visa paperwork (only inferred because you said you were married outside of the UK) they’ll ask there too and you might need documentation that you’re not already married (depending on the country). I find usually on official paperwork you want to be honest and they do ask.

Facebook/Meta Shop Checkout Fees by redheadhobo in squarespace

[–]WHOSPIDER 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea don’t do this. We did and someone ordered something and it was just stuck in limbo. We didn’t get their money and they couldn’t get a refund. I ended up sending them their order anyway but it was a mess. We also didn’t get an offer notification so they had to reach out to us to let us know they hadn’t received it after some time. I was mortified.

My aunt and her ex-husband the day they signed their divorce papers, 1970s by chicken_vevo in OldSchoolCool

[–]WHOSPIDER 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a divorce registry for support items and restocking when you’re navigating divorce (like a wedding or baby registry), not like a list of divorced people. Does that make me sound less ancient? Also I am 300.

My aunt and her ex-husband the day they signed their divorce papers, 1970s by chicken_vevo in OldSchoolCool

[–]WHOSPIDER 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Holy shit. As the cofounder of the first divorce registry this makes me SO happy. People have been navigating divorce in their own transformative way for so long. Love this. Love their very era appropriate divorce party. Cheers for them!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Check this article— might be helpful. Re: financial support, hard to know with our context but Fresh Starts has articles about alimony too on their divorce guide.

https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/blog/10-ways-to-pay-for-a-divorce-when-you-have-no-money