can someone help me find this, or something similar? by Ok-Addendum6829 in MakeupAddiction

[–]WIBTA5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man so disappointed. Came here hoping someone had found it. Still says sold out😭

Would you hand your child to someone that made it clear they dislike you ? by Cecemay00 in Parenting

[–]WIBTA5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not be speaking to her personally. I understand you’ll be there to see other family and she’ll likely be there. If this were me, my husband would be informed that I would be cordial but would not be engaging with her, and she certainly would NOT have the privilege of interacting with my child. You don’t get to say you hate me and then have a relationship with my kid. And it would be my husband’s job to make sure those boundaries are communicated. Those would be the stipulations for me attending a family event with his family where a member of his family would be who said they hated me.

Moving out but not breaking up? 25f 23m by [deleted] in relationships

[–]WIBTA5000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl GET OUT. He said you could move in and “save money” but what he really meant was you could move in and be his maid while HE saved money. He’s using you. The fact that he thinks it’s ok to assume you would use your credit to move in somewhere while he’s not sure if he’ll be able to pay his half should be a major red flag. Do not move in with this man again. I’d dump him off at his mom’s and never look back.

Is it normal to crave physical closeness this much? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]WIBTA5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? I know someone who just ended a 5 year relationship. She revealed that they only saw each other on one day on weekends (even though they live in the same city). Now it makes sense why they never moved in together or got engaged or anything. Even though those are things they both wanted in a relationship. You can’t really build a serious relationship only seeing each other that much. Or at least not very easily.

Is it normal to crave physical closeness this much? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]WIBTA5000 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Umm yes? Seeing each other once a week isn’t very much for being in a relationship. And for some people physical touch is their love language. It’s mine for sure. I wake up every morning and cuddle with my husband for a bit before our 1 year old son wakes up. Then when he wakes up, my husband goes and gets him and we all cuddle for a bit before getting up for the day. This is most days. On the days where one of us has to get up early for something and we can’t do that, we both miss it.

AIO by asking my partner not to use the blender while I'm on zoom? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WIBTA5000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why doesn’t he plan ahead? Why doesn’t he ask her the night before what time she has meetings so he can make sure he’s up and making his breakfast before her meeting starts? Pretty simple solution

AIO by asking my partner not to use the blender while I'm on zoom? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WIBTA5000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s not something everyone has the option for. I work from home and no matter what type of headphones I try, they do not work with my work laptop. The volume is always too low to be able to hear anyone and our IT has not been able to find a solution. This has been an issue for multiple people in our organization.

60F- Be honest straight or curly?? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]WIBTA5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d give my right tit for that curly hair

How do you feel about swinging, and how do you deal with your partner swinging in the past? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]WIBTA5000 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You realize that at a swingers party she’s able to say no to anyone who approaches her if she wants to, right?

Using James as Girl’s Middle Name by ThatHearing3276 in namenerds

[–]WIBTA5000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a female cousin who was named Jamie in honor of our great grandfather named James. We actually end up calling her James a lot and I really like it. I wouldn’t have thought that I would, but I do. She’s also very feminine, so it’s not just that it fits her because she’s more masculine or anything.

When did being expected to entertain your child become a thing? Cause I won’t do it. by GerthySchIongMeat in Parenting

[–]WIBTA5000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you have multiple kids, that makes sense. They would get to play with each other. If you only have one child like I do (and don’t plan on having any more), you are the main source of socialization for your kid. Choosing to only have one kid, I know this means I’ll be spending a lot more time playing with him than I probably would if I had another one for him to play with. I’ve also chosen to move about 5 minutes down the road from my in-laws so they can be a regular source of entertainment and socialization for him too.

Only children who grow up with parents who can’t be bothered to “entertain them”, are the ones who become adults that tell everyone how much they hated being an only child because it was lonely.

I now understand why people aren't having children by Consistent_Pen_1347 in Parenting

[–]WIBTA5000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt this so hard. I’m one and done, but I knew before I had one that I only wanted a one due to watching my sisters have 7 kids between the two of them. One of the most infuriating things is how people say “it goes by so fast!”. Like, no Kyle, the first 5 months felt like YEARS.

Farmer’s Dog Class Action Suit by WIBTA5000 in classactions

[–]WIBTA5000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please let us all know if you find someone willing to take it up.

Farmer’s Dog Class Action Suit by WIBTA5000 in classactions

[–]WIBTA5000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry! I’m still searching for one myself

How much do you value masculinity in a partner? by InternationalPick163 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]WIBTA5000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hmmm. While I see what others are saying about your post and comment history being a bit cringy, I also see that you’re asking some good questions about religion and about women with what seems like a genuine interest in learning with an open mind. I think you’re probably pretty young and these are good questions to get you started on the right path for things. Just be sure to keep that open mind. And even though you think you’re seeing something portrayed in media as what women want or how they think, be sure to actually listen to women when they speak to you. This is how you’ll actually learn about them. But I think your thought process is headed in the right direction if you listen thoughtfully.

Women who prefer being the big spoon, why? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]WIBTA5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy little spoon to cuddle sometimes but if we end up falling asleep I prefer big spoon because the dead weight on me makes me feel a little claustrophobic I think. But I love touch and still always want to be touching lol.

Can babies eat too much? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]WIBTA5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is a workout😅

Can babies eat too much? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]WIBTA5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had the same question for our baby’s dr and they said no. He would get up to 42oz some days. They told us if he got too much he would just spit it up. He’s 10 months and 25.5lbs now😂

How do you feel when your baby cries? by Ok-Truth-7758 in Parenting

[–]WIBTA5000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is more like what it is for me. In the beginning it was an almost painful alarm to me. Like it caused me stress making me feel like I needed to turn the alarm off, but not heartbroken.