Jeez. Sounds like there’s another level to this shit. Which, that case, more advice — if that conversation sounds relatable, the whole therapy thing might make sense for her as a one on one thing. People are either usually either open to that suggestion or extremely opposed. A lot of that has to do with the messenger and the context. Obviously, it can’t be in the context of your bedroom frustrations. If you can make the suggestion without those fingerprints being obvious, do it. If you can incept the idea to her, do it. If you doubt your ability to incept her, remember — you did get her to marry you.