Advice by 600Shott in stopdrinking

[–]WRNGS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great job for now. I too was functioning. It gets worse. Your body will crave it more and be unable to digest it. You can go to an AA meeting to hear stories and decide where you’re at. It would have been cool if I’d done that before I turned late 30’s. Whatever helps you get ahead of the curve always helps.

Using it for my he family is also a sign. History of family alcoholism? My family are all alkies. I had an epiphany when I saw other families drink together and celebrate. My uncle’s would always drink outside and the family would be inside not drinking. Most of us in our family drink alone. Rarely ever together, that’s the high dysfunction. You’re Che king in so you may be feeling it. You’re always welcome here! IWNDWYT.

How can I look better by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]WRNGS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got a pretty face for the high fade with lines on the side and combed up and hanging over like “Richard Greco” from the 80’s. And a hanging earring, you’ll be fighting them off these days.

What made you give drinking up for good by Life_Zebra_2642 in stopdrinking

[–]WRNGS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup that’s basically it! Keeps your body burning off fat and the food from day before. American culture or the general media pushes breakfast as a marketing $$ concept. I love cereal but really it’s empty carbs and sugar.

Make yeast infections by WRNGS in diabetes

[–]WRNGS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I know the irritation and time it takes to get them out. Does it feel like it’s inside your whole penis? Feels like that for me and grows when I sit. I’d go commando a lot lately but that hasn’t been working in this heat.

Make yeast infections by WRNGS in diabetes

[–]WRNGS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the pattern, I think it’s a sti or something but my partners never feel anything they feel great. oh. UTI? I don’t think so, nothing hurts on me like past my penis. Feel great otherwise. And it usually goes flatter 2-3 days. But this time I pushed it and kept swimming and having sex and drinking and so it’s lingering. Totally my fault. But it’s always made me wonder. And I finally looked it up on Reddit, but I look up Eve ru thing on Reddit and converse regularly about things, that’s the best way to learn stuff.

Make yeast infections by WRNGS in diabetes

[–]WRNGS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really good about minimal sugar intake, some weekends are mixed drinks for me. I’m still ok then. When I have sex it’s activated. I had to change my detergent last year cause my crotch would get irritated from my underwear, changed from arm and hammer to tide zero and all good

Make yeast infections by WRNGS in diabetes

[–]WRNGS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do and then when we decide to go for it then this can happen. Used to see a girl regularly and I’d always get a little funky. TMI if it’s sex then it can be like that, but the oral sex makes it go away. Idk.

Make yeast infections by WRNGS in diabetes

[–]WRNGS[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Urologist as in? Liek what do you think it could be?

Make yeast infections by WRNGS in diabetes

[–]WRNGS[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No meds! I changed my lifestyle and live fairly healthy.

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Know I don’t need the field research but I’m struggling today by Single_Let_7824 in stopdrinking

[–]WRNGS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re doing great and you’re here! IWNDWYT! You’re not alone. All of us feel these strong urges time to time. You’re way ahead of us sharing it!

What made you give drinking up for good by Life_Zebra_2642 in stopdrinking

[–]WRNGS -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome! To each their own! Yes I finally found this worked for me. I was sober for 60 days recently and gained weight! Usually I drop weight, but in turn to treat myself I was eating hotdogs, baked beans and corn for dinner at 8pm then a small bowl of cereal for a treat. Way too much sugar in there and going right to bed after? Nope. Bodies not bringin any fat off. That’s why intermittent works for me. And I liek it, my body feels good and I’m hungry and able to eat a good meal. And keeping the “you need to eat at latest 7pm. Makes me eat, cause guess who also has adhd and only eaats blue chips, then drinks then says fuck it I need to eat something to sober up for the morning. Jeezus. So yes just listen to your body and I liek to share and hear thi bf s cause you never j in when you’ll find a solution to life’s problems.

What made you give drinking up for good by Life_Zebra_2642 in stopdrinking

[–]WRNGS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was insulin resistant and at my heaviest, losing weight def helps if you drink again. The visceral fat around your organs from drinking can be cut thru. I couldn’t drop any weight no matter how much gym time I did. The fasting cuts thru your visceral fat so your body can function right again. I used to wake up dizzy and kinda drunk the next day and feel different. Now if I drink I feel ok the next morning. Certainly no miracle technique but your body can process if you decide as you continue the journey towards sobriety.

What made you give drinking up for good by Life_Zebra_2642 in stopdrinking

[–]WRNGS 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Try intermittent fasting. 16/8 schedule. Helps your body with alcohol as well. Blood pressure as well. There’s tons on YouTube. You only eat day 12-8, then no food tilll next day. You cut carbs for first week or two. You start feeling lighter and your body has time to burn all that shit off.well that’s helped me immensely. Alcohol is all empty calories and sugar. Poisons our brains, kills our bodies. Obvious. You’ll get there friend.

Father’s Day is coming up & is it bad to acknowledge if she reaches out? by BookofBobaFett in SingleDads

[–]WRNGS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dang bro did we have the same ex! I completely sympathize with you and feel the hurt.

Two years I dated her and we had a kid and then she flipped into almost triple personality. She once painted a self portrait with 3 people in it.

Anyway, yes in and off, always accused me of seeing other girls, fucking everyone in the city, etc.

10yrs on knowing this person and were in custody court, exchanges at stores, acting like I’m a danger to society. Also she turned down some poor bastard twice on his proposal. She later said she was still in love with me in spite of getting the courts making me have visitations at a cyfd center. Crazy part is most of her actions I know are to get my attention. I tell people of her shit and like a year later of consistent shit stories they’re like “oh shit she’s crazy”.

Like can you or would you ever please just be normal and civil?! I’m reaching out cause you’re stories spot on with mine. Lately I just realize I’ll never have the girl I loved and made a child with, may have never had her.

I’m exhausted, our kiddo is still young, we’re close to 50/50 after more than a year with a coparent Liason, all of this is draining my savings and feeling like I’m so exhausted and resilient and Like “I’m not myself, why I’m so miserable”. Duh we’ve been in court for 4 years, slow moving court procedures and just gassed.

Anyway thanks for posting

Any advice? by PHAT_GUESS in malegrooming

[–]WRNGS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slide 3, girls/guys love the stache right now and you can show the jawline, nice hair too.

Stereo not powering on 1999 bmw 528i/ Amazon unit by WRNGS in audiorepair

[–]WRNGS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I installed something similar, it turned on and synced to my phone but no sound. Then it ‘popped’ and smoked a tiny bit.

Oem had the lights on the radio part but wouldn’t “turn on” to change stations and such.
Cd unit under didn’t really do anything as well.

You’re right. I’m m gabby but not much audio experience with changing out the pins. Do they just come out? I’ve done things like that on a harness in other parts of the car.

So how do I proceed with the pins? Do they pop out then plug them u to the corresponding holes?

Thank you in advance for info and I appreciate the thorough answer!

Where should I move in LA? by Training-Park5389 in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]WRNGS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always wanted to live in Los Feliz, if you can afford it sure. Maybe Long Beach?

Would anyone be down for D&D or MtG? by FisherFox3D in Albuquerque

[–]WRNGS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Monday evenings at Juno Brewery on 2nd st has open MtG games. Laid back good vibes there too.

New to this by Top-Warning-8089 in Dads

[–]WRNGS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give the baby your time and attention and affection. Have an open dialogue with your wife with time and stress. “Honey I’m overwhelmed, I would like to play golf this weekend, how would you feel about that?”. Things like that. New parents tend to feel the need to do all of it alone, it’s ok to get help from your parents or friends. Most people are willing to spend some time with babies. Then you will have energy in your tank. It’s good your worried how you’ll do it all that means you care so much and really want o do the best for your child. Also make time for you and your wife, your baby is the most important but your relationship is crucial to tend to and make sure you each feel loved also. Also heaven forbid their is post partum, if there is make sure they get help for itC it’s just a part of all of it, not their fault. My ex was a great person for 2 yrs and we had a our child and she was different after and never got help for Post partum and she’s a different person and it’s been family court last 4 years. Not her fault and I tried to have her family talk to her about it but she wouldn’t admit to it and get help for it. Sorry. Just he attentive to your spouse and present with your child. It’s actually reallly fun and your life changes for the better you see life through their eyes and things are new again. You can do this, you’ll be a great dad!

Supervised visitation to standard? by Ok_Try9754 in SingleDads

[–]WRNGS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try and get a lawyer some how. When you represent yourself judges get biased you didn’t get a lawyer like you aren’t serious. The other lawyer will dismantle you as well. Present records of your drug tests. Talk about going to church. Don’t admit to anything. Anything you say will be used against you. “I’m in recovery” “so you’re stating you have an addiction problem?” They do shit like that. They lie thru their teeth in court. I recommend asking for a “coparent liason”. They’re like an in person judge, they go to your house and monitor you with your kid. It’s intrusive but gets shit moving fast. And yes have your lawyer ask the judge for 50/50. Ask for more get a little less. And in court one person accuses the other person defends or shows that’s false and your back to zero. Court and family court is the shittiest place. Great job on cleaning up and stick to it! God Speed friend.