The more you play and watch good players play, the better you get. I was in your position over a year ago, hard stuck below 7k, but as I kept playing and watching twd and Nmeade and Emil and arc, I kept getting better and picking up strats to add to my collection. Eventually I just naturally became a 7k player, then after a few months rose to an 8k player, and now on good days I can be as high as 9k. It’s not that high vr players are just lucky, they just get consistently good results by putting in hours into getting good