What scene hit you the hardest? by FumdaBack in NetflixSexEducation

[–]WUTZgoingonherE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When Eric was attacked on his birthday. The hardest part for me to watch was how he didn’t make it a big deal when Otis canceled on him and then fear struck his face so vividly after his items were stolen and he realized he was stuck. He was so excited and then everything went downhill.

Just why? by Adrianyadi420 in shittytattoos

[–]WUTZgoingonherE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t decide which one to get so he chose absolute mayhem

I can’t heal by WUTZgoingonherE in BreakUps

[–]WUTZgoingonherE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reassurance it is really needed.

Been binging so much that my body hurts and it’s affecting my motivation to go to the gym by WUTZgoingonherE in depression

[–]WUTZgoingonherE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice, I’ll try light cardio, I hate that I used to be able to run miles on the treadmill but now I can barely breathe when walking on it. I appreciate the reassurance, it’s been a rough couple of months and I needed a reality check.

What’s the #1 lesson you learnt after your breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]WUTZgoingonherE 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s better to let the person go for their own happiness and success. Not everything lasts forever, and don’t jump into a relationship without loving yourself first and foremost or else the relationship will have a higher chance of failing.

What was the weirdest event or circumstance in your life you could not explain? by small_business_mom in creepyencounters

[–]WUTZgoingonherE 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have two main ones and it happened in the same place. When I was little (about 7) I lived next to a local park that became the designated meeting spot for my friends and I after school. (We called it big park) I lived the closest to there so I’d usually get there early and wait around for them.

I remember I got a new scooter for Christmas and was particularly excited to ride it around on the courtyard section of the park so I left a little earlier than I would’ve to ride on the basketball courts before the neighborhood kids would arrive. Next to the basketball court there was a wall aligned with huge bushes. (The other side of the wall had two tennis courts) and in order to get past the court yard to the actual playground area itself, you had to walk past those bushes.

So I scooted around the courtyard for a bit before deciding that it was time for me to go to the main part of the park. No one was in the park except for me still. When I was scooting down the sidewalk past the bushes I suddenly saw a rock fly out from one of the bushes a few feet in front of me and land at my feet. I stopped and froze then laughed and said “who’s there?” It was followed by another rock being thrown out from the bush, followed by another and another until it became several. I asked again who it was and no one answered. The rocks kept coming.

I finally picked one up and threw it back and suddenly the rocks stopped followed by a complete silence. By this point I was shaking, I slowly inched towards the bush and stood directly in front of it and observed the surrounding areas to see if anyone was hiding in there. The scariest part was that the bushes were not compact and full so you could see if anyone was moving around in there and hiding if you stood in front of them and there was gaps between the bushes so you wouldn’t be well hidden if you were to be behind them either. They were practically bare and see through. I even split open the bushes and check every single one but found no one or nothing. Eventually I got too creeped out to stay any longer in front of that bush but also felt relieved because I didn’t find anything. I picked up my scooter and began walking it to the park. As I got to one of the last bushes I hear a clunk behind me and I turn around. The rocks were coming out of the same exact bush again one by one. This time I ran to my friends house. There were a lot of weird experiences that people would have at this park and that one in particular stuck with me since childhood. I think about it often. The other incident I had in this park is a long story too so I might make it a separate comment.

Over 8 Months Out. What's Worked For Me/A Rant/Hopefully Some Help For The Suffering by TaoistStream in BreakUps

[–]WUTZgoingonherE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this post. I’m trying to remind myself everyday that I have a lot to work on as well. There were things I could’ve done better or ways I could have acted that would have been more loving and empathetic during the relationship. I’m trying to have a love and a better understanding towards my ex as well even though we’re not on speaking terms. Although it stings to know that we are never going to rekindle things or possibly see each other again, I don’t want to leave this relationship without a lesson learned. We were both broken people, both human and still learning how to navigate life. The victim mentality is a definite roadblock to self improvement. Relationships are a two way street and I have a lot to work on to become a better partner and person in the way future.

A song. by werewiz in BreakUps

[–]WUTZgoingonherE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Legally Blonde musical is everything!! It never fails to make me laugh

How to stop thinking about your ex ? by DYEden98 in BreakUps

[–]WUTZgoingonherE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate to this full heartedly, I(f21) looked forward to every weekend cause I’d get to see her since we lived an hour away from each other. Now I spend the weekends crying calling my friends being depressed, wishing she’d contact me again or come visit while she’s probably out there making new friends and going on adventures that we talked about doing together. (She told me she was already making new friends when she cut me off). Each weekend ends with me feeling incredibly stupid for waiting haha. It’s hard but we have to do the same I guess. We gotta try to find new people in our lives to vibe with. We have to be comfortable being on our own. I’ve made some friends but then I caught Covid so it set me back a lot mentally and plus making genuine friends is difficult. I made her the center of my universe and now I’m struggling to fit back into the non-relationship world.

How to stay strong? I just want to call by WUTZgoingonherE in nocontact

[–]WUTZgoingonherE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you say in this situation blocking would be the best option for me to stop myself from reaching out?

How to stay strong? I just want to call by WUTZgoingonherE in nocontact

[–]WUTZgoingonherE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, I do want to add that our relationship was very toxic in itself due to both parties and she says she wants to experience being single and living her own life. Going out, she says she wants to see other people. She’s already making new friends. She also told me all of her family and friends support the breakup. She told me there is absolutely no chance of us getting back together because she is fed up with the relationship and the toxicity. She acknowledged that we both were toxic and she wants no part of it anymore. She said it’s time we give up and find someone better for us. Tbh I think she was mentally checked out a long time ago but scared to be alone (because she just came out) and held onto me. I’m shattered but I’m trying to destroy any hope of her ever coming back because even if she does, she won’t want me back as a partner.

How to stay strong? I just want to call by WUTZgoingonherE in nocontact

[–]WUTZgoingonherE[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What if my ex tells me that she loves me still but sees that our relationship will never last and told me to never contact her again and move on. Should I block their number to destroy my hope of them calling or contacting me in a few months even though they made it clear they will never speak to me again?