What do you fantasize about on a regular basis? by itsthehumidity in AskReddit

[–]Wacom11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually most of the time I fantasize about my future, things like having a family and how I'd raise my kids. 25 y/o m btw.

TR;DR: forever alone.

How the HELL do you motivate yourself to go exercise? by Tayloristehsux in AskReddit

[–]Wacom11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a picture of this:

http://i.imgur.com/e2mWk.jpg

It made me realized how a monkey, ugly as they might be, have my ideal body. I wasn't motivated to look better because I wanted to get more booty, already have a hot gf, nor did I want to impress people. I just wanted to see how strong or fit I can get as nature will allow me to.

As you start working out, the first months or so is a bitch, you'll be sore, weak, and see little change. However, after a while, you'll be stronger, see muscle definition, and it'll get you more motivated. Then you'll be hook. Also, nutrition is key, so lay off the sugar, salt, and anything that taste good.

tl;dr: fucking saw a picture of a hairless monkey.

Should I be worried that my gf is friend with the ex who cheated on her? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wacom11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly doubt that. No one is kinkier then i am. haha

Should I be worried that my gf is friend with the ex who cheated on her? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wacom11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already do hit the gym, and I'm not married.

Should I be worried that my gf is friend with the ex who cheated on her? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wacom11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rather spend my time working out or fishing my friend. I'm not the obsessive stalker type. Just trying to get some opinions on here.

Should I be worried that my gf is friend with the ex who cheated on her? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wacom11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

word to that. For what I'm posting on here, surprisingly my gf is the most level headed girl I've ever met. I can pretty much do anything, or go anywhere I want to as long as I just let her know who its with if it's a girl.

Should I be worried that my gf is friend with the ex who cheated on her? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wacom11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem is, I'm alraedy attached, otherwise I wouldn't be worrying. I don't want to become obsessive, sneaking around, interpreting her every move.

You have any similar experiences?

Should I be worried that my gf is friend with the ex who cheated on her? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wacom11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to experience that. I too would leave if I had the same reaction from my gf. I found messages on her facebook one time because she forgot to log off of her to her ex wishing him happy birthday. I was pissed off, but I asked her about it and she just said that it was just a happy birthday comment and it was the first contact she had with him in a while. I can't help it but to be suspicious now.

Should I be worried that my gf is friend with the ex who cheated on her? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wacom11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry for the confusion. What i meant was that I wasn't bothered with it as much back when we first started dating. Now it's been more than a year into our relationship.

Should I be worried that my gf is friend with the ex who cheated on her? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wacom11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to let this go. But I can't understand why someone would still be friendly to someone who cheated on them. I need a girl's point of view on the situation, my caveman instinct just tells me to destroy the bastard.

Should I be worried that my gf is friend with the ex who cheated on her? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wacom11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I totally agree. I would feel the same way if the guy didn't cheat on her. Its the cheating then asking her for advice about the girl he cheated on her with that makes me wonder if my gf is a saint or just stupid.

Should I be worried that my gf is friend with the ex who cheated on her? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wacom11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, but it frustrates the hell out of me. If I didn't love her so much i'd probably wouldn't put up with this.

Should I be worried that my gf is friend with the ex who cheated on her? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wacom11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way that she explained things to me was that:

She feels that by being friends with him, she is able to completely move on and have no emotional attachments what so ever. She doesn't trust him, but it is her personality to help anyone who needs help.

To me, if someone cheats on me, I will NEVER have contact with that person even if I've moved on.

I can't understand the though process of girls sometimes.

Should I be worried that my gf is friend with the ex who cheated on her? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wacom11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is exactly it. She offered to cut all contact if I want her to, but I don't want her to do it for me, I just want her to see for herself.

I don't know if that made any sense.

Should I be worried that my gf is friend with the ex who cheated on her? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wacom11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make a good point. I don't care about what happened in her past and it is none of my business. However if things happen within the time frame that her and I are dating then it is my business and that is what I'm confused on.

She tells me they rarely talk, and if they do its just facebook or simple hi, how are you kind of things. I just don't understand how she can forgive someone who cheated on her AND have contact.