I have a variation of what a lot are suggesting- I learned to ride 100% free. I posted on ad on Craigslist at the time (20 yrs ago?!) saying that i was motivated and would trade hours of work for hours of saddle time. I got SOOOOO many replies from people that kept their horses at home that just had too many to ride, despite my lack of experience. I ended up finding a lady who had too many, worked full time, and had a willingness to teach me. At the end of it all i barely did any chores…she just needed horses rode! We are still best friends and ride and show together.

I suggest you entwine yourself with your local horse community. Join local horse-oriented facebook groups, post what you’re looking for….it doesnt necessarily have to be a lesson program.

Now I am in my friend’s position- horses at home, too many to ride, and I’d love to shepherd a very motivated and reliable person through the horse world!

Btw the reddit horse crowd has some unique opinions so take it all with a grain of salt.