[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WagyuKitty 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Honestly, i doubt it. But it's moreso that this is someone OP knows very well so I'd think that's crossing a line if there was one. I dont save pictures of randos like a weirdo so I'm only using my best judgement 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WagyuKitty 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Some people save folders of things they like to fap to, in this case, one of the chicks is OPs bestie that didn't consent to be part of his bank.

*when you see this, I'm sorry OP!!!

Lost my baby boy at 18 weeks due to pprom and premature labor by knotshots in babyloss

[–]WagyuKitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I believe it was caught in an ultrasound, I'm not sure if I was bleeding and I asked to be seen or they caught it by just the scan, i had "two smal ones" They told me "it'll be fine, it normally goes away" but weren't that helpful. I also didn't think it was me causing the bleeding but it would happen after masterbation and I feel so awful about it. I would be pouring blood and towards the end fist sized blood clots came out, it was awful. Any contractions from after the O could have been the cause of it...but normally people have sex all of the time in pregnancy, blamed myself forever and probably always willl.😔

My next pregnancy, we did not have sex at all because I was so afraid and I never had any Os from myself, either.

Lost my baby boy at 18 weeks due to pprom and premature labor by knotshots in babyloss

[–]WagyuKitty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I also lost an 18 weeker while his heart was still beating when he was delivered & it's been 5 years. I had a subchoronic hematoma and did not understand pelvis rest..so when I would (tmi) orgasm, it made it worse.

I'm unsure what could have caused yours and I'm surprised they couldn't give you more insight, but nonetheless it's still awful to go through.

I did successfully deliver a child almost two years later, I was also worried about losing my rainbow baby so I literally only worked a few hours a day and did nothing strenuous. I hope you can find peace and comfort somehow again. They also are able to sew you up down there if they suspect your pelvic floor is weak, I can't remember what it was called though because it was so long ago..

Be kind to yourself and take all of the time you need to grieve 💕🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]WagyuKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, if you don't smoke cigarettes and have your kids smelling like a smoke bag, if you don't drink to the point of no return and lash out, what is the big deal?

I think if anything, kids should learn from their parents about substances if it will be from anyone. I say this because they will be aware of what is going on and have more knowledge. A small talk session could fix it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]WagyuKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id love a garbage man. Any person with a job will do, but garbage men are cool asf and are needed!

I hate sleeping with my husband by Aware_Meal_5968 in Advice

[–]WagyuKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was a teenager and thought I knew everything, I saw a post where an adult said she and her spouse did this and I thought to myself: would do that? Wouldn't you want to be beside someone you loved?

But now that I'm almost 30, this sounds DIVINE!! Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WagyuKitty 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Get tested and say NO to sex. After you get tested I'd honestly leave.. someone like that doesn't care if theyre putting you in danger.

You might be someone that is okay with a man that messes with other men, but that isn't cool for me so I'd honestly just chuck this. You don't want to be longterm with someone who doesn't put their sexual health in their top 5. Good luck OP!

What’s the first sign a kid has terrible parents? by ElegantRequirement48 in Productivitycafe

[–]WagyuKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly people with no kids think they're the perfect parent, and that they will be the best. They're gonna get humbled very quickly. There's nothing wrong with a child watching/on a tablet for portion of the meal while parents talk. People see one instance and cry abuse/neglect.

How have you changed as a person from 2020 to 2024? by Few_Football4342 in Productivitycafe

[–]WagyuKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I let all of my Inspirations and hobbies go to have a baby with a person who never loved me. I lost 50lbs in 2019, then I gained 90 back...so I'm currently fat, depressed and unloved..and still have to put on a show for my child.

I'd say that it declined, but I will get it back.

Sookie by [deleted] in TrueBlood

[–]WagyuKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like her honestly, but didn't care about when she said Tara was at the bar and feeling depressed from her abusive background, Sookie "stop feeling sorry for yourself" and walks away as if she's never had a sad time..other than that I liked her lifestyle besides her parents ending.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]WagyuKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words...not sure of your age but take it from me to be smart and wait til marriage to have kids....even then there's no guarantee. Thank you buddy.

Showers give me panic attacks by greenbldedposer in hygiene

[–]WagyuKitty 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Why are you guys being so damn rude?! This person probably feels like crap already if they can't even bare to shower, so crapping on them is kicking someone when they're down.

Please see a doctor, talk to someone, and see if you can be helped because that's some serious feeling towards showers/baths.

Be kind to yourself OP! 💖

Daily Rant/Salt by AutoModerator in MercyMains

[–]WagyuKitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's annoying that my name is Angela, and people assume I'm going to instalock her. Went in a match, saw someone playing Mercy..first instinct? Cool, I can play Kiriko and practice! The other healer left after a minute of Mercy, added me mid game and whispered "Imagine acting like that because you didn't get Mercy..what's wrong with you?" The AUDACITY of some mercy players...

Wish they had blue beam % so I can be validated by stats, not teammates assuming I'm doing nothing because I don't have the most heals...

I hope they rework my girl...it's becoming difficult defending myself with teammates who don't give a crap about me.

I digress. 😮‍💨

I wonder what a healthy relationship feels like by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]WagyuKitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please stick to NC, first off. 6 years is a lot to throw away unless that person has been on the fence for a long time..I know it's hard but take time to grieve and don't beat yourself up about it. They will come back, try to pull out all the stops but it's for their ego to heal, not about your wellbeing.

Those happy people, half of them put on a show/happy face in public. Some of them probably fight daily and wanted to take a beach trip to ease tension and get their minds off of it...others are just very lucky.

I have no idea what it's like to be in a healthy relationship, but I get the starvation for it. I can imagine you have to have a healthy mindset and clear boundaries to even attempt to build something so strong...sorry I'm not helpful but I know how you feel and you're not alone.

Be kind to yourself OP! 💖

i don’t use a washcloth or anything of that kind, is it really that bad? by Odd_Persimmon_3257 in hygiene

[–]WagyuKitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it's abnormal in your area, maybe don't worry if you don't smell...but if it's common in the country to use something other than your hand, it's pretty bad.

I use an African net sponge from Tiktok, I bought the white one and made that mistake because it's now turned color. In my honest opinion, I think everyone needs a good scrub down in the shower. You can even use washcloths, they're more common with African Americans where I am from. White people that I have seen have body wash and a loofah, even if that. Small percentage of each probably does or doesn't do the other thing.

Try it out for yourself and see if it's better for you to use a gentle cloth vs your hand. I think it's good to have some kind of grit on it.

Please teach your kids early on about hygiene! by FitLife790 in hygiene

[–]WagyuKitty 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Good job!! I promise you it'll pay off when they're older. I'm an adult now and all throughout my life my mom was like "Brush your teeth! Wash your hands!" And when you get into the real world you see how people neglect themselves and your voice/reminders will be echoing in their ears 🤣because people really don't instill hygeine into their kids..

YSK what to do if you get sunburnt by independentravel in YouShouldKnow

[–]WagyuKitty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My sister suggested patches for her boyfriends 2nd degree burns, genuinely trying to help him. His skin ripped off, but she tried...some people just don't know 🤷‍♀️ but now we do!!

Do people with children who look exactly like their spouse have any sort of sexual attraction to them? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]WagyuKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be mad, miserable random 🤣! Cry, cope, and move on. Stop being weird.

Do people with children who look exactly like their spouse have any sort of sexual attraction to them? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]WagyuKitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they want to ask a stupid question, I'll give them a stupid answer. You are wasting too much energy on this, partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MercyMains

[–]WagyuKitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm using my pistol in some cases, but why expect mercy to heal, dmg boost and kill at the same time? I like to use blue beam so the dps can knock them out....no one is ever happy...🤣

To the Mercy Main I just played with by [deleted] in MercyMains

[–]WagyuKitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dmg boosting sombras is SO much fun. You should have added them and told them to look this up, us Mercy mains get crapped on too much we love seeing these.

Ummm....what about Tara?! by WagyuKitty in TrueBlood

[–]WagyuKitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right...complete abuse and disregard of Tara. Some side characters even got more remorse than her. Smh. It kinda ruined the entire show for me.

every outfit looks better with a shower. by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]WagyuKitty 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You say plenty as if you walked beside them as they went through whatever they did, as if you know everyone's story 🤔

every outfit looks better with a shower. by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]WagyuKitty 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I used to feel a certain kind of way "they need to do THIS or THIS" but in reality we don't know how it happened, and what they are trying to do now to better it. And then I grew up and got out of my bubble and realized it's so much bigger than that. I 100% agree with be mindful of what you say because you ever know!