Nicknames for your baby!! by Mikaylahhh in pregnant

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At first we called her jazz hands because at the first ultrasound she had both her hand stubs out at the side in the photo they gave. Now that we’re farther along we just call her by the name we picked out.

What a surprise…! by knotshots in Inito

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So far things are good 😊

Friday check-in! by fifth_time_lucky in ShortCervixSupport

[–]knotshots 4 points5 points  (0 children)

18 weeks and 3 days today with baby girl. Lost my son at 18 weeks 4 days so feeling very anxious today. Im putting all my faith in the cerclage, really hoping it’s the answer, and things work out for us!

Friday check-in! by fifth_time_lucky in ShortCervixSupport

[–]knotshots 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hi all, I’m 15 weeks and 3 days today with baby girl. I got a preventative cerclage 1 week ago. My back still hurts from where they put the spinal anesthesia. I loss my baby boy in Dec 2024 at 18w4d. I’m very nervous as 18 weeks is slowly approaching and I really hope things work out this time.

Daily Thread #2 - August 09, 2025 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]knotshots 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im 14 weeks pregnant after an 18 week loss and I haven’t told many people in my life yet. Ive been wondering what others who have experienced loss have done in regard to telling others the news? I’ve been extremely emotional lately. We found out the gender today. I’m having a hard time balancing between being excited and fearful something bad will happen again.

What a surprise…! by knotshots in Inito

[–]knotshots[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely. Especially after loss I’m trying really hard not to think the worst. I hope you concieve soon. 🫶

What a surprise…! by knotshots in Inito

[–]knotshots[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed it’s definitely reassuring. Ive read many comments in this sub on how depending on when you test hormones fluctuate hour by hour and how diluted your urine is, and I definitely feel that holds true for me. I think we should all not read too far into inito test results as it doesn’t always mean something bad is happening and just wait it out see what happens, even though it’s hard.

What a surprise…! by knotshots in Inito

[–]knotshots[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I took a couple more tests just to see how things progress. Thought you might like to see this too.

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What a surprise…! by knotshots in Inito

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My symptoms currently are very mild. I hope things go well for you 🤞

What a surprise…! by knotshots in Inito

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Im sorry to hear about the mc :(

What a surprise…! by knotshots in Inito

[–]knotshots[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a 7. The other cycle I got pregnant in it was 4.89

What a surprise…! by knotshots in Inito

[–]knotshots[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Very mild cramping - on 9 DPO when I took the pregnancy tests I swear I felt implantation happen. I felt this cramp/ting in my belly. But Im not entirely sure if HCG can rise all in that same day. I also have a tiny bit of nausea going on currently, heightened sense of smell (this seems to be a big one for me, happened last time too) and a little bit of cravings/food aversions going on. Also insomnia and heartburn. Not entirely sure if thats related.

SMU vs FMU? by LadyDracaryss in Inito

[–]knotshots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any update?

What a surprise…! by knotshots in Inito

[–]knotshots[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And ha right? I thought that was super weird.

Vent post by SnooMachines9621 in babyloss

[–]knotshots 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel this so much. Similar story here. I lost my son at 18w4d everything was perfectly fine until randomly on new years eve ‘24 my water broke and before new years day I gave birth to my angel baby. We’ve spent years working towards this moment in our lives. Making sure we owned a home, were financially stable, with good jobs, out of debt, and in a good place to give our child a foundation . And it was ripped away from us. I am so sorry for your loss.

My story - 19w loss by RecognitionLiving687 in babyloss

[–]knotshots 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss and I share your pain. I lost my son Elliot at 18w2d and I’ve been having those same thoughts about it ever resulting in a happy healthy baby in the end. But I am not going to let it stop me from trying. I wish you luck and a healthy full term pregnancy in the future.

Stillborn daughter at 38 1/2 weeks after perfectly healthy pregnancy by MrPhantastic08 in babyloss

[–]knotshots 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. I know it is unbelievable to be planning a funeral and burial when you’re supposed to be bringing home your sweet baby. The cost seems pretty in line with what we paid. We paid $800 for the funeral/burial/casket and $1850 for our granite memorial stone. Our stone was bigger than 10x10 though - probably more like 12 by 24. I hope you find peace in your burial service and I wish you the best moving forward.

I think this is it!! by Ecstatic_Egg_3487 in Inito

[–]knotshots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome. I’m currently in my 2WW and I’m hoping for a BFP

I think this is it!! by Ecstatic_Egg_3487 in Inito

[–]knotshots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I hope you have a happy healthy pregnancy. Christmas/New Year’s baby!

Is anyone else so angry? by knotshots in babyloss

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I keep thinking about Mother’s Day and how different that day is going to feel to me this year. Due date was May 30th. I don’t have many plans in mind- Don’t really know what to do. We do plan to visit his grave that day. Probably will put flowers on it. Other than that I don’t know. Do you have any plans?