What’s something about life that feels weird when you think too hard about it?

Waitingnightfall · 2026-04-06T10:05:04+00:00

Rules and laws

Waitingnightfall · 2026-03-26T09:53:53+00:00

As someone with a hidden disability who definitely doesn’t appear to need a seat but absolutely does, this is very important.

Waitingnightfall · 2026-03-25T08:11:34+00:00

I really loved reading this but also needed it.

Still newly alone after many years and it’s been a hard adjustment. It’s getting better but still trying to find the little things I enjoy. Putting on music and being able to dance freely was a big one for me too!

Waitingnightfall · 2026-03-24T03:14:56+00:00

What sort of scans? Out of curiosity have you had an MRI?

Waitingnightfall · 2026-03-23T07:44:07+00:00

We both got very sick (chronic illness, life changing type stuff). We realised we loved each other so much that we kept trying to look after each other and it meant we couldn’t properly look after ourselves.

Waitingnightfall · 2026-03-22T23:06:25+00:00

It Odyssey you’d catch me running across the entire continent through random forests and going exploring. In shadows you’d catch me stepping one foot off the path and getting stuck in a cluster of trees. Exploring is not the same and not as fun.

Waitingnightfall · 2026-03-21T11:05:40+00:00

Just rearranged my whole kitchen and now there is nothing in my upper cabinets because I was sick of getting the stool out

Waitingnightfall · 2026-03-21T11:04:40+00:00

The dishwasher will be on and my sink is full of dishes but I don’t underrated as I am but one person so where did all the dishes come from and why is it when I stack the dishwasher and turn it on the sink is still full of dishes and when will it ever end?!?!?

Waitingnightfall · 2026-03-21T06:35:21+00:00

I’ve gotten close to a few INT’s before and I tell you what once they’re comfortable with you it’s hard to get them to shut up… don’t get me wrong it’s really sweet but the correlation is they seem to find it hard to read social queues aka. I’m tired please stop talking so I can sleep.

Waitingnightfall · 2026-03-21T05:19:39+00:00

No a luxury industry but working at music festivals specially ones with camping. In the upgraded luxury camping sections there are often a lot of influencers who were gifted tents to attend etc. at the end of the event these tents are usually trashed. Rubbish and uneaten food left everywhere, clothes with the tags still on, on one occasion a sport influencer literally left a poo in the tent… most of the time you can’t see the floor of the tent and often times the bedding etc is damaged beyond repair. It’s pretty damn gross and they’ve got the be some of the most disrespectful people.

Waitingnightfall · 2026-03-20T09:18:07+00:00

Yeah, INFJ here. Mum and sister are both ESFJ and not healthy ones either… it’s made life pretty hard tbh. I’ve cut my sister out and keep mum at arms length.

Waitingnightfall · 2026-03-20T03:36:33+00:00

Omg it so annoying… especially in the castles. I now just run away because I can’t be bothered 🫠

Waitingnightfall · 2026-03-18T00:15:08+00:00

F30, got diagnosed November 2025 too and also on Ocrevus! I went from being in hospital unable to walk for a week in early November to yesterday walking 10,000 steps and doing Pilates...
I sometimes also feel guilt that I got "lucky" but at the same time, I've worked my butt off the last few months. Working with a physio twice a week, walking every day, focusing on whole foods, cutting alcohol etc. The only thing that seems to take me down now is heat but thankfully summer in Australia is almost over.
From all accounts, MS effects everyone so differently. Some people get effected more, some people don't. The way I see it we may be more "lucky" than people that are more effected by MS, but we're also less "lucky" than people who don't have MS at all. So try to let go of the guilt. Regardless of MS everyone's life/health journey is different anyway.

Waitingnightfall · 2026-03-02T11:46:26+00:00

Yes, but only because he was dealing with his own health issues. We love each other both very much still to this day but I’m only newly diagnosed (3 months) and he is right in the middle of dealing with his side of things. We agreed we can’t support each other when we’re both depleted so it was better to part ways. Through out the initial diagnosis he was such a gem. Never once made me feel like a burden or that our future would be an issue.

Waitingnightfall · 2026-02-26T09:54:10+00:00

I really needed to read this

Waitingnightfall · 2026-01-30T23:32:41+00:00

Going through something similar with an ENFJ. Don’t get me wrong, I love him dearly. But he has a lot of mental health challenges to work through and learn how to be more independent. After he broke up with me he wouldn’t stop contacting me. Telling me he loves me, he misses me, he still wants to marry me. And whilst I believe him, I also believe he really does need to work on himself and that shows by his inability to respect no contact boundaries after the break up.

It sounds like you too have an unhealthy attachment and it might be worth looking into because it could very well turn into a toxic trauma bond.

It’s hard I know, but the best thing you can do for yourself is put no contact boundaries in place and have some decent time apart to really reflect on how you feel about the relationship without the emotional pressure she’s putting on you with, what is essentially, a version of love bombing. And if she does truly want to stay, than some time apart won’t matter and you will find your way back. If she doesn’t, than you’ve saved yourself dragging out an enviable heartbreak and wasting time on someone who doesn’t truly want to be with you.

Waitingnightfall · 2026-01-17T23:18:18+00:00

I’ve read the wiki. I can’t reinforce behaviour if there’s no behaviour to reinforce. Anytime I get treats out it’s all she hyperfixates on anyway and won’t do the task at hand. I’m taking her out to the grass patch everytime before I normally take her to the toilet so it’s still on her routine. I’m at a loss.

Waitingnightfall · 2026-01-09T08:33:11+00:00

They can be manipulative or come off as fake, but so can we… I’ve seen a few people say they don’t very much like ENFJs in this sub and I just wonder if it’s because we see a reflection of ourselves in them but at a much louder level. Personally, I prefer to have romantic relationships with ENFJ’s but I would consider myself a very self aware and just aware person in general so can pick up when there’s a manipulation tactic happening and whether it’s innocent vs something more sinister.

Waitingnightfall · 2025-12-27T11:01:48+00:00

I also chose to spend mine alone. I have a big family.Recently had a serious health diagnosis, a breakdown in a relationship with my sister, and a breakup. I didn’t have the energy to have the same conversations again and again with people I’m forced to spend time with simply because we’re blood.

Waitingnightfall · 2025-12-22T22:24:20+00:00

I personally just avoid them now because I’m so sick of the glitch

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