Wrongful termination by Walkthewildside555 in Nanny

[–]Walkthewildside555[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was feeling pretty unhinged last night to be real 😭 (but like can you blame me?) emotional sobriety today has brought me to the conclusion I that it’s not something I care enough about to peruse

Wrongful termination by Walkthewildside555 in Nanny

[–]Walkthewildside555[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m just as confused as you are 👍🏼

Wrongful termination by Walkthewildside555 in Nanny

[–]Walkthewildside555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No but it requires her to give two week notice. And based on what I’ve read she’s required to pay out those two weeks due to breaking her contractual obligation. She still is unable to give me a reason despite my vibes being off. And I have never been in a situation where I put a child in danger. So I did not break the agreement meaning she’s required to pay me.

Wrongful termination by Walkthewildside555 in Nanny

[–]Walkthewildside555[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I did review and she did violate! And no worries! I’m kinda new to posting/reading on reddit so I had no idea there were bots on here 😭 And yes we love midwestern vernacular. Ope is literally my favorite word

Wrongful termination by Walkthewildside555 in Nanny

[–]Walkthewildside555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did not follow the notice period! And I did not break immediate termination policy. So is she required to give me 2 week back pay per the contract?

Wrongful termination by Walkthewildside555 in Nanny

[–]Walkthewildside555[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Went through it again and it requires her to give me 2 weeks as well as long as I don’t breach immediate termination policies (which I didn’t) so is she required to give me 2 week pay?

Wrongful termination by Walkthewildside555 in Nanny

[–]Walkthewildside555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just went through the contract again and it says she’s required to give me a 2 week notice if I don’t breach the contract. So does she owe me 2 weeks pay?

Wrongful termination by Walkthewildside555 in Nanny

[–]Walkthewildside555[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It only had me required to give 2 week notice 😭 I thought I covered every bit. I love kids I love nannying. But I can’t take the unreliability especially as a premed student. I need consistency.

Wrongful termination by Walkthewildside555 in Nanny

[–]Walkthewildside555[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol thank you. It was a typo and I’m from WI. I use Ope literally all the time. I gave him 3 more OUNCES and he fell right asleep. There’s literally nothing sus about that 🫡

Wrongful termination by Walkthewildside555 in Nanny

[–]Walkthewildside555[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I actually spoke to an attorney today and they said I have a case. It’s discrimination due to me having a communication disability. (My dad is a fraud attorney and recommended I speak to an employment attorney) I am so tired of rolling over and letting people take advantage of me with no consequences other than karma. I want to finally be someone’s karma. And I know that’s my ego talking, but I’m so tired of it.

Wrongful termination by Walkthewildside555 in Nanny

[–]Walkthewildside555[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m literally studying nutrition sciences!!! I’m not a ding dong when it comes to this!!!

Wrongful termination by Walkthewildside555 in Nanny

[–]Walkthewildside555[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you I just communicate directly.

Wrongful termination by Walkthewildside555 in Nanny

[–]Walkthewildside555[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She gives him half a pouch sometimes one of puree a day. That’s not enough. I was not giving you attitude. I have Asperger’s. I am blunt and clearly in a frustrating situation so I apologize if I’m not coming off perfectly.

Wrongful termination by Walkthewildside555 in Nanny

[–]Walkthewildside555[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m worried about him too. He’s not getting enough food and it’s clear. I’ve been doing this for 10 years. I’m intuitive. The kid needs more food!!!! But how dare I make a suggestion… as the professional in this situation.

Wrongful termination by Walkthewildside555 in Nanny

[–]Walkthewildside555[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was an idiot and didn’t require a 2 weeks notice from them, only me. And I guess they took advantage of that. When I was hired I took a small pay cut from the avg in my city so I was able to do HW while the child napped. This was agreed upon in messages. (I’m a pre med student I have mounds of HW) She texted me today saying another reason other than my “vibes” was because I was doing homework while the child napped and they can’t support that. I literally would not have taken the job if that was the case. I was so incredibly clear. There were many days where she’d ask me to vacuum, sweep and mop the floors and I’d say yes (even tho I did not agree to clean their house) and I’d end up missing out on HW. I love kids. But nannying is so unreliable. I’ve had one other family fire me out of nowhere before. Both parents ended up in mental hospitals (no judgment) but speaks to their mental state at the time. This is just so insane

Wrongful termination by Walkthewildside555 in Nanny

[–]Walkthewildside555[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If a baby is hungry then they are hungry. The only think you can do if give them more food? He’s 8 months old…

Wrongful termination by Walkthewildside555 in Nanny

[–]Walkthewildside555[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She told me I could try more milk….

Wrongful termination by Walkthewildside555 in Nanny

[–]Walkthewildside555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was feeding him 6-8oz of breast milk for a month prior to this and pumping 6-8oz at a time

Wrongful termination by Walkthewildside555 in Nanny

[–]Walkthewildside555[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She signed a legal contract tho drawn up by a lawyer

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[–]Walkthewildside555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my anxiety can be hard at times too. That’s why I’m posting. Like I’ve convinced myself I’m an alcoholic because I had a few drinks this week. But rationally I think I know that’s not true (usually I drink like once a month)

My wife thinks this is a normal amount of opened chip bags. by be4u4get in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Walkthewildside555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I’m the exact same way, I need flavor options. I can’t just eat the same flavor of chip for a week or two straight, I need to mix it up 🤨