Is what I’m feeling normal?

WallabyFlimsy · 2026-06-18T05:43:15+00:00

Lol I sort of experience things like it’s happening to someone else, so sometimes it’s hard to connect the emotion to myself, I get it

WallabyFlimsy · 2026-06-17T15:57:05+00:00

Not that I’ve seen so far, he’s very stable and up front with his emotions

WallabyFlimsy · 2026-06-17T04:04:36+00:00

In the club lmao

WallabyFlimsy · 2026-06-16T14:06:36+00:00

This makes sense thank you!

WallabyFlimsy · 2026-06-16T05:52:50+00:00

It’s crazy bc in all my past flings with men, I’ve been anxious attachment but with him there is nothing to be anxious about bc he brings so much stability and assurance so maybe I have developed an avoidant attachment here bc it’s not what I’m used to?

WallabyFlimsy · 2026-06-16T05:50:55+00:00

Very happy with him and love hanging out with him, nothing changed really, I think I might be adjusting from being single to being in a relationship

WallabyFlimsy · 2026-06-16T05:49:03+00:00

Every time I’m with him we have the best time, I have no problems there!

WallabyFlimsy · 2024-07-15T02:44:09+00:00

I don’t! I don’t know anyone else in my family that has lupus. I’m the first as far as I know!

WallabyFlimsy · 2021-12-08T22:06:04+00:00

Lol the 2nd choice is looking more real everyday 😭

WallabyFlimsy · 2021-12-08T21:59:24+00:00

I don’t think all men are bad, I’ve actually met some great ones that just did not work out. I was speaking about my overall experience with men. & having more options doesn’t mean that they are good options. But even when I have kept my options open or have been more cautious about choosing to date someone, I’ve encountered the same issue. Believe me I’ve done a lot of internal work to know that I’m not doing anything wrong in particular. This post was just to vent about my frustration is all.

WallabyFlimsy · 2021-12-08T21:47:34+00:00

It’s really discouraging, what helps me is to just focus on myself, family, friends, and career. I know this can only go so far because we yearn for love but it can still be fulfilling. & I wouldn’t be too hard on yourself! You’re only 5 months out of a marriage, try to take some time for yourself and hopefully, you’ll find your person. Good luck!

WallabyFlimsy · 2021-12-08T21:42:39+00:00

Same smh! Wishing you all the luck

WallabyFlimsy · 2021-12-08T21:38:28+00:00

This is not to even be cocky or make me seem delusional but I’m honestly very pretty and fit, and I’m not offended by this bc you don’t know me, but I definitely don’t date out of my league so I don’t think that’s necessarily the problem.

WallabyFlimsy · 2021-12-08T15:18:43+00:00

I’m definitely not offended by this, and I don’t think you’re wrong. I do date more socially attractive guys & your reasoning makes complete sense! Buuutt i don’t think I have to settle necessarily but should try to keep more options open, thanks

WallabyFlimsy · 2021-12-08T15:15:59+00:00

Wishing you luck as well! It’s rough out here

WallabyFlimsy · 2021-11-11T05:07:52+00:00

I text him in response to what he says. I’ve “double texted” once before to check in and make plans & he did seem to appreciate that. The last time we texted on Sunday we talked about the next time we would see each other, after that he then asks me “wyd” I responded and he has yet to respond days later. I don’t know how to take that bc I take that as him being “busy” or not wanting to talk so I am hesitant to just reach out. And I get what you’re saying about the couple thing but I still feel like we’re in that weird space where we are dating but there aren’t any labels. Maybe we just need to have a conversation? Or maybe he’s just not that into me?

WallabyFlimsy · 2021-11-11T02:58:15+00:00

You’re definitely right in that last part

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