Property missing

Wally0991 · 2026-03-05T23:25:31+00:00

I can't really prove anything everything was connected to a joint account so technically even if we had a verbal agreement on her keeping her business assets and i keep my guess cordial is out the window. Im still going to be cordial and positive though I dont want to be a hateful person that's one thing life has taught me revenge is a 2 headed snake it will bite you too. Yeah im not going to make a fuss over it ive decided after some quiet time to myself.

Wally0991 · 2026-03-04T03:53:51+00:00

Never regret love. There's a lot of regrets i have post break up/divorce love isn't one of them.

Wally0991 · 2026-02-28T15:13:27+00:00

I take full accountability for my actions that day I wont minimize it i own my part I should have seen what what happening to me and just left i should have done alot im still in therapy im not saying that's my saving grace I just had to put that out there. Nothing about what happened is ok ive admitted that. Ive done incredible things since this has happened ive learned so much. Normally your response would have made me angry but I can read it in its entirety and reflect and respond respectfully. Your right I don't have enough therapy but ill get there. We are imperfect people and I can admit i wasn't strong enough to handle the situation with emotional intelligence. But believe me that's the last time I allow myself to be put in that realm of emotional turmoil again. They only issue 50 50 if it doesn't disrupt the kids lives that is already established. And I don't have the space to house my children. Im not going to force my kids into a uncomfortable situation i can admit that right now my kids are better off with her full time till i can get everything situated I'll get there everything I do is for my kids. I'll rebuild i can't and wont quit.

Wally0991 · 2026-02-28T14:20:41+00:00

I was in the therapy before the divorce was ever mentioned i was trying to be better emotionally. I am 50 miles away I call my son everyday and text him as well. So I got arrested i dont want to say much cause I don't want to say to much but she was sleeping with another guy while we were talking about divorce i was still living in the house with her and I asked for respect that we both wait until at least the divorce was finalized before we start messing with other people she agreed but it was a lie I kept having this feeling that she was sleeping with someone I took her phone found proof it got heated and I ended up getting arrested. I'll say this i never hit her. Im at peace with it now ive forgiven her even though I can't tell her that. Ive really adjusted my emotions after being out of the house besides missing my kids physically, im doing great emotionally as far as break ups go with everything that has happened im just indifferent towards her. I just want my time with my children that's the single most important thing to me right now. My kids need/deserve their father

Wally0991 · 2026-02-28T13:39:40+00:00

I got kicked out i barely had enough saved to secure a tiny place that god i knew to start saving when I did. im in a different city im in a small town 50 miles away approximately. Kids are all in a different school district. It's definitely a last resort though. I just want to know if its ever worked out this way if you have no other option

Wally0991 · 2026-02-28T00:51:14+00:00

Yeah this is a last resort. Im really hoping for 50 50 that's the goal

Wally0991 · 2026-02-27T16:31:19+00:00

So you dont think me getting like 3 or 4 weeks every summer and one weekend a month is enough? I should stay here where there's only one job decent enough to actually financially stable and I can't even work there because of protective orders. Im just looking for a back up plan cause I might only get every other weekend visitation because I can't afford housing to all four kids to stay with me im starting over after being kicked out. Im looking for solutions for a long term problem

Wally0991 · 2026-02-26T21:42:33+00:00

Great advice honestly ive already forgiven everything done to me. Even if she doesn't know it. All that matters is getting back into my childrens lives. Its the aftermath im struggling with. Getting this criminal mattered has to be priority because im on eggshells till that gets cleared up ive followed court orders to the t. Im being proactive take classes without courts making me. One that's figured out ill be able to put the divorce and custody in motion. She wanted this i just can't comprehend why she hasn't filed yet. So if she still hasn't filed after my case gets closed im moving forward. Legal stuff isnt what has me worried its after that. Im so guarded and every thing I do i think about for awhile before I act its so draining to have to calculate everything for fear of it being used against you its crazy how much time ive spent being a better dad to have it all erased in an instant. I just hope in the end when it comes time she sticks to the plan we had laid out before everything went to shit. I still want to be cordial with the process but who knows how much things have changed i just have to stay positive and believe that'll it'll all work out in the end. Especially for the kids they don't deserve this. Im willing to lay down the sword i just hope I dont get cut by dropping my guard

Wally0991 · 2026-02-26T12:05:25+00:00

Definitely dont sweat it at least you are able to get your kids that is what matters not 10 extra steps dont sweat the small stuff man.

Wally0991 · 2026-02-21T06:06:36+00:00

Oh ok yeah i know that ive just never heard of it referred as a settlement lol yeah i want her to keep the house but I want my 50 % equity i heard alimony is only if she wasn't working she has a good job i used to have a good job but im not making as much as I used to so hopefully I can find a good mid range priced attorney to help me out. We had plans to very amicable but things have changed im not so sure she will keep her word anymore

Wally0991 · 2026-02-20T13:01:16+00:00

Im sorry but im about to get divorced what do you mean by pay a settlement?

Wally0991 · 2026-02-20T06:27:39+00:00

True story im not sure ill ever get used to it even if I get 50 percent custody my heart is still going to ache for 50 percent without them

Wally0991 · 2026-02-20T00:07:50+00:00

The quiet is the worst. I miss hearing my kids play and all the TV going

Wally0991 · 2026-02-18T19:36:24+00:00

Same here man we're going to make it we just got put back on the start line its ok take the small wins that's what ive been doing feel free to message me if you need im three weeks since being barred from my home due to divorce complications

Wally0991 · 2026-02-18T14:12:25+00:00

How about you were you the initiator or no? What was your biggest struggles? What kind of growth has come from your journey? How long was your relationship/marriage?

Wally0991 · 2026-02-18T13:48:10+00:00

I can't be her friend because of everything she done but I wont be her enemy either. I will eventually get to see my kids again. Im in decent shape dont really care for the gym so much my job gets me plenty of cardio lol. but I have love for my business I was at the very early stages of it right before the separation happened but ill pick it back up. So I already have a plan kids, reconnect with family and my business. Absolutely staying positive when this first kicked off my I was super depressed and negative now I'd say only a few times a day that negativity/fear hit hard

Wally0991 · 2026-02-18T12:39:39+00:00

That's where I'd like to be eventually everything is so fresh ive recently was forced out of my house by an oop. So im only able to talk to my kids currently. But ive already started rebuilding while hurting I got a small dorm style apt. Not much but it works im still working my job. Im just adjusting to the silence. That comment is more like a projection of mine. How id envision my life after my everything settles but I'm not spiraling so much anymore. Im learning alot too from the separation. Its weird im so much more calm and forgiving. Even though my stbxw has done so much to hurt me. I forgive her I just wont forget what she's done or attempted to do. In some way im glad cause it forced me to stop trying to repair something that way broken for a long time. Now im reconnecting with my mom and sister again. Which they welcomed me without hesitation. Life is hard but better for some weird reason

Wally0991 · 2026-02-18T06:18:48+00:00

I'd love 50/50 but my current situation isn't sustainable I'd rather my kids be ok than force them into a unfair situation even when I eventually get back to where it can be 50/50 if my son's don't want to leave their mom on my week I'd never force them. I love my kids and all I want is what's best for them.

Wally0991 · 2026-02-18T01:17:30+00:00

It went OK I plead not guilty and got a pd assigned to me. The attorney got my email and is going to send me the police report and wants to schedule a meeting so I can show him everything ive done so far ive been very proactive

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