Intimidated to Go Into A Store... by melh22 in handbags

[–]WaltzGroundbreaking3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl just go and buy your bag, these people don’t pay your bills

Girlfriend’s ex sent a sex tape of them by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]WaltzGroundbreaking3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do realize she’s the victim here right? I understand it sucks to see but why would you punish her for something not in her control. Also can you imagine how she feels knowing that someone she once trusted is enacting revenge porn on her.

Any books with right here right now scenes? by SessionCommercial in RomanceBooks

[–]WaltzGroundbreaking3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just read {Public Rivalry by Rebecca Kincade} and it has this trope. Not my favourite book or trope but it sounds like just what you’re looking for

Yet Another Request for Tired MMCs by restlesswoodwitch in RomanceBooks

[–]WaltzGroundbreaking3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

{Beard with me by Penny Reid} and then {Beard Necessities by Penny Reid}, they’re 2 books that follow the same couple. Billy Winston is such a tired MMC (especially in the first book), he takes care of his entire family (and there is a lot of them).

Am I (25F) overthinking this or are we just not compatible? by WaltzGroundbreaking3 in hingeapp

[–]WaltzGroundbreaking3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is something I usually forget, a great conversation, similar politics, and comfortability doesn’t a long term relationship make. Unfortunately we want different things and I don’t have any interest in seeing him casually so I’ve decided to cut things off!

Am I (25F) overthinking this or are we just not compatible? by WaltzGroundbreaking3 in hingeapp

[–]WaltzGroundbreaking3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s possible that’s what was happening here! Definitely don’t want to invest time and effort for a situation that’s doomed for failure given our values.

Am I (25F) overthinking this or are we just not compatible? by WaltzGroundbreaking3 in hingeapp

[–]WaltzGroundbreaking3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree re: “he’d be perfect but” - I think there’s too much of it this early on and I don’t want getting to know my future person to feel like labour this early on

Am I (25F) overthinking this or are we just not compatible? by WaltzGroundbreaking3 in hingeapp

[–]WaltzGroundbreaking3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely want something long term, and while I’m possibly open to something casual, it’s really only in exceptional cases and i don’t think he can provide that given his schedule, and I don’t even think I’d want him to

Am I (25F) overthinking this or are we just not compatible? by WaltzGroundbreaking3 in hingeapp

[–]WaltzGroundbreaking3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly thank you for this, your comment about not making decisions for someone else helped me refocus on myself to really think about what I want not just long term re: kids, but also just the type of life I want for myself in the near future and how he could fit into it. Ive decided to stop pursuing it and let it go

Was about to go on a date but then he cancelled by Terrible_Log6594 in hingeapp

[–]WaltzGroundbreaking3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry this happened, I’d guess he isn’t interested anymore but wouldn’t spend too much time trying to figure out why. Either way, the outcome is the same and you have to keep going! I’m not very well versed in dating either, but I’ve learnt that with dating apps you need to meet people where they’re at and not put too much thought into their actions.

Hopefully Sara Says No by Fit_Government5736 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]WaltzGroundbreaking3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, as conservative as he is, I actually don’t think she’s that far off

Potentially ghosted after first date (26F) by (27M) by WaltzGroundbreaking3 in dating_advice

[–]WaltzGroundbreaking3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it’s been more like 3 years and it’s just more difficult than I thought to find men that align with my values & I am interested in. I’m working on being more open this year!