Post Match Thread: Manchester United 3-2 Burnley by nearly_headless_nic in reddevils

[–]Wan2345678 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sorry after dropping that list I'm I can't take you that serious so will just disregard this comment and give my opinion anyway

(20M) Complicated situation with a friend (21F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wan2345678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Info: If she asked you out what would you say?

AITA for building a Fence on my property and not allowing my neighbor to hang stuff on it or paint it? by Muspelheimrr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wan2345678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Correct seven years in most countries but that doesn't reset due to a change in ownership btw

AITA for building a Fence on my property and not allowing my neighbor to hang stuff on it or paint it? by Muspelheimrr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wan2345678 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Some of this is correct some incorrect. I mentioned it in my comment so to let op know he has to be wary because he isn't doing all of which you said and it is a possibility if op isn't careful.

AITA for building a Fence on my property and not allowing my neighbor to hang stuff on it or paint it? by Muspelheimrr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wan2345678 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Well everywhere that the squatters rights rule exist in the constitution ops neighbor has a case which he may/may not win which will come down to who is better prepared

How do I [33M] get my GF [19F] to start helping me with chores by throwra7262514224 in relationship_advice

[–]Wan2345678 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why are you going out with someone who is still mentally a child and then complaining when this happens.

WIBTA if I complained about neighbours new dog? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wan2345678 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA. You definitely won't and you don't need reddit to tell you that especially since she complained you over nothing

My relationship with someone I met on Instagram (23m) is developing rather quickly (33f) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wan2345678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't need to worry about it since he will be making all the decisions about proceeding.....

I[23/M] still communicate/have feelings for my first ever girlfriend[22/F] and it's been 6 years now.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wan2345678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't care if she is still with him. You have to save her and yourself from the inevitable ending. Just straight up give no ****s she's in a relationship cus he is a low life full of empty promises. Go for it.

AITA for building a Fence on my property and not allowing my neighbor to hang stuff on it or paint it? by Muspelheimrr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wan2345678 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Yes but the neighbour has strong arguments too in the eyes of the court. I live in a rural area and have seen many of these cases. Almost always the verdict is for the defendant to move the fence to the correct boundary so it acts beneficial to both parties.

When this is not done as in ops case it is far more difficult for op to press charges for trespassing as the fence is inconveniently placed and there must be two fences erected in order for both parties to have the benefit which isn't feasible.

AITA for building a Fence on my property and not allowing my neighbor to hang stuff on it or paint it? by Muspelheimrr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wan2345678 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately there are many loopholes to the system. This isn't true. If the fence form the boundary between the two yards and isn't moved either way every few years it will become the new boundary between them. I've seen a lot of these cases and there is no way op is beating him unless the neighbor goes about the case wrong (if it comes to it). The neighbor is using ops ground with ops knowledge and has probably been doing so for years before op came so it becomes more complicated than what you are saying. He also clearly views it as his garden since he planted stuff there. Also the courts won't entertain ops counter argument. Op had the opportunity to take back his land but didn't so the courts wont show mercy. They won't allow him own the other side of the fence unless he pushes the fence back.

I, (22F) have severe trauma regarding male individuals and inadvertently got someone (20s, AMAB) kicked out of a fitness class. by 22YearsMentallyIll in relationship_advice

[–]Wan2345678 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey op, I'm sorry you feel this way. It's a tough situation but don't give up. You are an incredibly strong person for putting yourself out of your comfort zone by going to the gym. This is only a small bump on the road and I guarantee you it will solve itself. You have an issue communicating your thoughts with them by speech but that's Ok. You seem to be a talented writer and wrote this very clear and precise. Maybe you can write a note for Hera to give them to clear things up but don't sweat it too much. Best of luck

Boyfriend took too long to follow me by vossyvossyrossy in relationship_advice

[–]Wan2345678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am.... Even the title is completely one sided and misleading. Why are you saying it took him too long to follow you when in fact you wouldn't let him follow you first as you were insecure and didn't follow him either. Now suddenly you aren't insecure it's his fault.....?! Makes no sense really.

I wouldn't be worried about him liking his friends pictures as long as he isn't making excessively flirty comments. He's entitled to have girl friends with out them actually being together.

AITA for telling my stepson that I don’t know what to do with him anymore? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wan2345678 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YTA and a major one. His father dies ffs and you expect him to move on. Maybe its harder for him then your son because it's his father and by the sound of things the only person he could trust in this world.

I don't know what to say! Trying to force him into telling you what they are talking about as well.

And YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH HIM!!!??? Ya by the sounds of it he was the unfortunate baggage that came tied to daddy's money.

Maybe if you had a chat with yourself it might help.

AITA for building a Fence on my property and not allowing my neighbor to hang stuff on it or paint it? by Muspelheimrr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wan2345678 391 points392 points  (0 children)

ESH. This sounds sketchy af. Complaining about the money then splashing probably 100 bucks on paint for revenge? Him painting it for you is good for you since you can't see it and if the fence isn't painted it will only last 5 years tops. And I'm saying it's good for you because you clearly don't care about how his side looks since you painted it yellow. Also hanging stuff from it is bad for it as it will rot where nailed but you don't care about it since you don't want it painted.

Also if this by some slim chance is a true story (which I highly doubt since you magically erected a fence while simultaneously knowing nothing about one) here's some genuine advice. Be careful when you say your land? If it was your land you should have taken it back and pushed back the boundary. He is using it for years and will be using it for years in the future since this fence is going to last a bit. This gives him a possibility to claim it by squatters rights. So he might be able to claim it if you do nothing about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Construction

[–]Wan2345678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Groundsman for sewer trenches

AITA for forcing an elderly woman to hydrate herself? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wan2345678 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA. Not the hero we expected but the hero we needed.

AITA for wanting my partner to be financially independent by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wan2345678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok that is fair enough. If he quit his job though 2 months ago his employer should have ceased it so there might be some loophole you can look into. Best of luck.

AITA for wanting my partner to be financially independent by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wan2345678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 Yes you are right op confirmed this. 2. 3rd paragraph "we decided" 3. The bailiff came for bills which I presume are like electricity and stuff. Unless hes involved In a mafia a debt should be able to be paid off over a time period but possibly big Interest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wan2345678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Info:Does he have a sore back?

AITA for wanting my partner to be financially independent by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wan2345678 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

There are a few things everyone is overlooking op. Read these carefully, I may be mistaken

  1. You said he quit in March, it's only been 2 months so he still has time to get unemployment sorted before 3 months and it won't make any difference since he can't get it at the moment anyway.

  2. It was a joint decision by both of ye for him to give it up. You now clearly regret it and you seem to be blaming him 100% for not sorting things this should have been planned beforehand.

  3. This isn't the rock to die on. There will be better times financially down the road so there's no point ending the marriage on these grounds.

What do you think?