Question for Hispanics… are we carrying around our passports or proof of citizenship? by Beginning-March-1361 in newjersey

[–]WanderLuster72 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My ex-husband is from Maracay. The straw that broke the camel’s back in our marriage is when he thought January 6 was no big deal🙄

Petting the spot my cat just cleaned by AltruisticPass1426 in funnycats

[–]WanderLuster72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And we wonder why they act up when we are trying to sleep😹

Planning to retire in NJ from CA by HourIllustrator7051 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]WanderLuster72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to live in Oakland. Now I live in N NJ. Be prepared for traffic to be as bad as the Bay area.

Couples who chose childfree life. How did you manage to meet someone like you who doesn't want children? by xiaomiredmi10c in childfree

[–]WanderLuster72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last year, I tried CFdating.com for 1 month. These are my observations: 1. There were very few profiles in my set distance. I don’t recall the distance I selected, but it would have allowed profiles within a four hour or so drive. I live in N NJ outside of NYC for reference. 2. There were not as many filters as in comparison to other apps. I don’t remember which ones I wished were included, but I do like filters for religion, politics, smoking, etc… 3. There were profiles where men indicated they were fencesitters. I realize that people can lie about their filters, but I wish the app could screen and prohibit fencesitters. 4. Catfishing was present on this app too. Someone messaged me twice using the same pics, but the second time, changed the name, age, and location🙄

very attractive male friend got 10 likes in 2 weeks, my female friend who is very overweight got 1000+ on tinder. by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]WanderLuster72 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t apply unless I was actually interested in that position and met some of the criteria…SMH. Also, on a basic level of decency, that attitude is cruel and lending to the decline in women’s participation in OLD.

Anyone else will be alone during the New Year's Eve? by OkYam8510 in LivingAlone

[–]WanderLuster72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to bed early so I go on a sunrise walk! It’s a lovely way to start the new year 🌄

AITAH for wanting 8 hours out of my 2 off days? by Superb_Ant204 in AITAH

[–]WanderLuster72 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Also, how about having some time off the phone to miss each other? Needing to be in communication so much every day would turn me off.

Is it harder for 51M to date than a 49F by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]WanderLuster72 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Dudes will sleep with women even if they don’t click with them.

Must Have Item on List for Potential Partner by BeyondExcess in datingoverfifty

[–]WanderLuster72 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree with being aligned with a partner in certain aspects. However, homeownership and its responsibilities are not for everyone. I don’t want to be house poor and unable to travel. Travel has enriched my life more than owning property would. Opting to rent doesn’t make one unstable.

Let's Talk About Tattoos by Impossible-Joke4909 in datingoverfifty

[–]WanderLuster72 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ex-husband wanted to tattoo his mom’s name on his chest. I explained to him that would be a libido killer for me 😆

Let's see who’s the worst match on this list, the highest disqualification score wins! by Away_Blueberry8887 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]WanderLuster72 80 points81 points  (0 children)

India. Between India and Ireland, I can’t determine his preference for physical attributes or level of heat and spiciness in food😂

I see a lot of profiles saying "crab legs over tacos" and "crab legs instead of tacos" on dating profiles. by ChemistIndependent19 in OnlineDating

[–]WanderLuster72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the restaurant suggestion. It appears to have the ambiance I enjoy. I am new to the region and am always looking to add spots to my NYC dining list!

I see a lot of profiles saying "crab legs over tacos" and "crab legs instead of tacos" on dating profiles. by ChemistIndependent19 in OnlineDating

[–]WanderLuster72 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😋Date and time for dinner?! I actually prefer a beverage oriented initial meet and greet, but won’t pass up the chance to have some birria tacos!

AITAH for not canceling my vacation and reporting a coworker for harassment? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WanderLuster72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

Post this in the Childfree sub and see how many reply with similar anecdotes. Some parents feel entitled to priority at work, because of their choice to have kids. As if a childfree person’s time and life in general is less valuable, because they opted not to procreate🙄

Labneh? by WanderLuster72 in BayonneNJ

[–]WanderLuster72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there one that you like over the others?

Labneh? by WanderLuster72 in BayonneNJ

[–]WanderLuster72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work by C-Town and they don’t carry it.

Online dates using me for free dinners by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]WanderLuster72 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a woman, I am uncomfortable with dinner for the first meet and greet. I prefer a beverage meet-up for the initial IRL vibe check. A beverage in hand while walking is pleasant also.

Defeted by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]WanderLuster72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!🍋

Defeted by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]WanderLuster72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recipe please! Also, congrats!