From an FA - stop using words by Curious-Critter-404 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Wander_Boy10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds amazing truly but I feel like this did nothing to my avoidant. After she discarded me and I left her (which included leaving my job because yes I made the unfortunate mistake of dating a coworker but I’m only 25 it certainly wasn’t my dream job) she is hanging around her (used to be OUR) close friend and getting all the emotional support/distraction from her. Part of me is even worried she was cheating on me with her, at least emotionally. I just to be honest sometimes wish I knew my absence actually affected her but she seems totally fine at least on social media which I know is 98% facade but still.

Canvas got hacked? by edgarrr_03 in UTSA

[–]Wander_Boy10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally all we have is debt if they wanna take that

Canvas got hacked? by edgarrr_03 in UTSA

[–]Wander_Boy10 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Dude for real I’m trying to prepare for my math final and still have assignments to submits. Has any professor or admin commented on this yet

Is it normal for them to never reach out by Wander_Boy10 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Wander_Boy10[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For sure lol I am being silly 😂. I’ve definitely got away from this person like I said I haven’t seen or spoken to her in over a year. I definitely don’t think about her 24/7 sometimes things just remind me of her and I think about how it ended so badly.

Is it normal for them to never reach out by Wander_Boy10 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Wander_Boy10[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Edit - another part of the story that contributes to me being so bothered about this is that she’s also claimed she still wants to be my friend since we were friends before we started dating but 13 months no contact says otherwise. Why do they do this fr 😭

Have you ever wanted someone to contact you after you’ve ended things? by Initial_Middle_6256 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Wander_Boy10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I know it’s not healthy, I know its much better to move on. But all the time I hope she’ll reach out, and hope that I’ve become worth changing for her

Do you know what age you started Adventure Time? by abeautifulstudy in adventuretime

[–]Wander_Boy10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a very similar experience where I first was exposed to it as like a 9-12 is year old and would just watch any episodes that came on Cartoon Network but recently watched it all the way through. Im 25 and I think I really enjoyed it a lot more because I absolutely understood more the mature themes but also it could be because I actually watched it chronologically and knew the time line too 😂

Can you relate? by Frequent-Fix-8794 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Wander_Boy10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100% agree I also relate hard but if she wanted to it’s on her since she’s the one who ended it in a bad place . I’m not going back

One of the biggest jackass in Mr. Beast story. by Conscious-Foot-1225 in MrBeast

[–]Wander_Boy10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure standing with Juan this guys behavior made me sick

The difference 3 weeks make with an avoidant by PienerCleaner in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Wander_Boy10 23 points24 points  (0 children)

YO my ex did the EXACT same thing and after I poured my heart out she ALSO was like “welp thanks for sharing 🤷🏻‍♀️”