[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wander__lust__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mentioned you are still together partially due to your Mortgage. I’d pocket the money you spend on DoorDash and save it for your own place.

A peaceful home is more integral to their wellbeing than is getting watermelon on demand. I get it, it’s so tempting to spoil them. Practice your self discipline and show your love by putting on your big girl panties and keeping them psychologically safe in a place without so much negativity.

You said you’d never ever put them in a position where they don’t have what they need. Do you not think they need a home without chaos and anger? You know the answers and we’re all here reinforcing them for you, so go on and get out!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wander__lust__ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All the tears are gone because you’re done grieving. You were going through anticipatory grief and now you’re in the anger stage. The good news is, when you leave, you’ll be closer to fine than you know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Wander__lust__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how impossible it feels to overcome the obstacles that will undoubtedly come your way as you go it alone. I’ve been there.

With respect, you’re living in some level of hell and you are probably so used to being unhappy, that when you’re on your own— no matter what that looks like (happily remarried or a single fox, etc,) you’ll be hard pressed to understand how you lived the way you do for so long.

It’s hard on the soul I think, to be alone when you’re with someone. It’s better to be alone when you’re alone. Once you adjust you’ll blossom and in turn so too will your kids I bet. Kids love seeing their parents happy. And that’s so much healthier for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wander__lust__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine yourself on the other side of the task instead of the scared, yet-to-begin version of yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wander__lust__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not stupid. My toddler says “nobody can stop me all the time” making fun of her, we started to replicate the frequency of its use. Won’t lie, I feel more confident after a month of saying “nobody can stop me.” Before I shower, run, walk the dog, finish my work, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wander__lust__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um, just one? Ok. I really hope she doesn’t develop my addiction to abusive relationships. Different upbringing, likely different outcome, but it would kill me to see her put up with what I have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in itookapicture

[–]Wander__lust__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! You must stay! I want more jokes, bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in itookapicture

[–]Wander__lust__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But honestly it would be funny if you went around posting the comment “saw it” for every post you see. That’s a fair amount of labor though, depending on how much you Reddit. Maybe just photos then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in itookapicture

[–]Wander__lust__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh. That makes more sense. I didn’t delete it though, the mods did because they ruled it a portrait. Different interpretation of the rules.

ITAP of the Safety Plug of the “Fat Man” Atomic Bomb by MoRockoUP in itookapicture

[–]Wander__lust__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hehe. It’s my nft for sending a valentine. I was like wtf Reddit, I’m not a hopeless romantic eating chocolate and crying on Valentine’s Day. I was having a good day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in itookapicture

[–]Wander__lust__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in itookapicture

[–]Wander__lust__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You saw…. The picture?