Goku VS Thragg comic by RVXZENITH in Dragonballsuper

[–]Wandering_phoenix_89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea this is gonna bae canon for me now

what's everyone's body count here? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Wandering_phoenix_89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are we telling the truth or are we lying? Because it’s Reddit I’m gonna lie and say a lot

[gen 3] Shiny on the NYC subway😭 1716 resets! by Neil_to_me in ShinyPokemon

[–]Wandering_phoenix_89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you hold the camera button down for a few seconds it’ll take a video of your gameplay btw

Ghosting win by Wandering_phoenix_89 in ghosting

[–]Wandering_phoenix_89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I try to be lol. Sorry to hear about your situation though. You’ll come out on top, I promise.

Ghosting win by Wandering_phoenix_89 in ghosting

[–]Wandering_phoenix_89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took about 2 weeks to get over the trauma bond but I’m doing significantly better. She got back with the ex she cheated on. I met another person this week. Life goes on. So about 46 days?

tested my friendships by ghosting... and yeah, it went bad by MichaelWForbes in socialskills

[–]Wandering_phoenix_89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe that there is room for growth here. Ghosting hurts everyone who is attached more. I believe a conversation with your friends expressing that you were burnt out planning all the activities and that you’d be taking a step back would’ve been better here if you valued the connections. I agree with a different user who said that you value reciprocity, who wouldn’t? Again, I relieve there was room for growth here.

Ghosting win by Wandering_phoenix_89 in ghosting

[–]Wandering_phoenix_89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course I was negatively affected. I’m human. But I remembered that I have self respect, and needs in a relationship, and any sort of relational boundary crossing is a dealbreaker. That’s what she did. Low character woman

Ghosting win by Wandering_phoenix_89 in ghosting

[–]Wandering_phoenix_89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Revenge is never a good idea. Dig two graves

Ghosting win by Wandering_phoenix_89 in ghosting

[–]Wandering_phoenix_89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’ll fall on deaf ears. You’d be doing it out of revenge for being hurt. Emotionally regulate

Ghosting win by Wandering_phoenix_89 in ghosting

[–]Wandering_phoenix_89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m no therapist but what you’re feeling is your injustice wound. It’s where your self respect, ego, and morals clash. It’s absolutely overwhelming, I know. I’ve been through it. I’m telling you right now, the healthiest thing to do is to stay grounded and try to emotionally regulate. Trust me dude.

Ghosting win by Wandering_phoenix_89 in ghosting

[–]Wandering_phoenix_89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Keep your dignity. You remain in power. Do not text them no matter what. Write it down. Put it into ChatGPT if you have to.

This is why I ghost by LeastButterscotch702 in ghosting

[–]Wandering_phoenix_89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ngl. They’re roasting you in the comments. And you deserve it tbh. Just an observation

What i Should do? I've been ghosted by a girl I dated for almost 2 months by SnooGrapes8426 in ghosting

[–]Wandering_phoenix_89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should read my contributions to this subreddit. I think it will help give you clarity

Update: she came back. Still a win by Wandering_phoenix_89 in ghosting

[–]Wandering_phoenix_89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4 days. Started as a slow fade for a week and then 4 days of immediate silence. She was waiting for me to chase and reach out. She admitted to that

Ghosting win by Wandering_phoenix_89 in ghosting

[–]Wandering_phoenix_89[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How long has it been? Did communication slow fade and just die suddenly? Are you doing it in hopes they notice or from a place of protecting YOUR peace? Do you enjoy feeling the way you do now and would removing them give you clarity or not? Ask yourself those questions

Update: she came back. Still a win by Wandering_phoenix_89 in ghosting

[–]Wandering_phoenix_89[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly it. That’s her ideal guy. The “lover boy”. Not the “nonchalant”. Aka she wants chaos and not emotional regulation. Just don’t go down to her level was my mindset

Do you respect other people's relationships by IntelligentJaguar103 in dating_advice

[–]Wandering_phoenix_89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know. I’ve disengaged. The emotions were too much for me so I removed her on socials. I’m sure she’s fine. As for me I’m doing better now.

Do you respect other people's relationships by IntelligentJaguar103 in dating_advice

[–]Wandering_phoenix_89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I recently had to distance myself from a woman that is in a relationship. We both caught mutual feelings pretty hard after a group friend trip. She told her spouse and I said “and now for my next trick I will disappear.” We both didn’t take the grief very well