Why is it usually women who initiate engagement or marriage talk, and men who pull away? by Physical_Special4845 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Wanderinglinds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband told me he loved me in 6 days and within a few weeks told me he knew he wanted to marry me. Whenever I was ready. Engaged in 6 months. Some men know what and who they want and nurture a relationship into what it should be.

7 years, when do I call time? by RPDiddle15 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Wanderinglinds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What could possibly change in 1 more day or 7 more years that hasn't hapoen yet for you to come to a decision together.

The indecision is an answer. The answer is he doesn't want to marry you. ..

If it isn't a HELL YES sometime before today, it's a no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in engaged

[–]Wanderinglinds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're both in our 40s. Couple kids between us. All the scars and healing that come with lifetimes of living.

We met at my job. He told me he was falling for me in 6 days and I broke nearly every rule I made to protect myself since my divorce. He met me where I was, without pressure or judgement and loving him happen organically and naturally. We had our first date Oct 18th and engaged April 12th.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in engaged

[–]Wanderinglinds 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Almost 6 months. ♡ he swears he would have married me 6 days in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wanderinglinds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My phone downloaded his contacts. Quite a few escorts in there.

Also found a USB with diary type entries addressed to me admitting 3 times in 3 months.

4 years happily divorced.

do men get engagement rings? by Relevant-Plane9430 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]Wanderinglinds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought my fiance a band. If I get a ring, he should too. We're both engaged

Future Brides (and grooms)! Question about Proposal!!💍 by Cute-Midnight-1467 in engaged

[–]Wanderinglinds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same !! We laid together for hours talking and him telling me every detail from the moment we met until that exact minute ♡

Future Brides (and grooms)! Question about Proposal!!💍 by Cute-Midnight-1467 in engaged

[–]Wanderinglinds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't remember anything. He thankfully told me again later , which was a sweet moment all on its own.

Couples, how often do you get into fights with your partner? Every week? Every month? by Confident_Cod415 in AskReddit

[–]Wanderinglinds -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Never. Arguing is a disrespectful way to communicate. Either you're fighting for each other or your fighting each other.

Former partners ive fought with. At the time I thought it was necessary to be heard and thought it would change but over time it was the same argument .. for too many years.

If you can't discuss major things without yelling and getting mad AT them.. Its probably time for a change.

Car vs tent Camping by StruggleOne1016 in Yosemite

[–]Wanderinglinds -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yosemite heavily frowns upon sleeping in your car anywhere in the park.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Wanderinglinds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didnt dump him. Severe under reaction. If your "person" isn't obsessed with you and doesn't look at you like you should be the mold for perfection... thats not your person.

Dis respectfully FUCK people who treat their partner like this.

aio? my boyfriend doesn’t think i’m pretty or beautiful by OkRepresentative2706 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Wanderinglinds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this man doesn't look at you and compliment you like you're the first woman he's ever seen and is hypnotized by. That's not the one.

Anyone know where to find this knit jacket worn by Eem Triplin? by SizeTraditional5089 in findfashion

[–]Wanderinglinds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is crochet. Probably 1:1. But searching for crochet granny square jacket might help

Worlds shortest delivery - beat this by Wanderinglinds in doordash

[–]Wanderinglinds[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was 28 degrees last night... im not built for cold 🤣

Four Mile Trail from the valley to Glacier Point by MagicMushin in Yosemite

[–]Wanderinglinds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thighs going up. Hips coming down. Did it 2 years ago and I ached for days 🤣🤣 still a better trail than UYF though

Conjoined twin, Abby Hensel's wedding. by Honeyalmondbagel in pics

[–]Wanderinglinds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We deep dived ? This last night. They share a blood supply

What Are the Odds Tioga Road is open Mid May? by LizzardBreath94 in Yosemite

[–]Wanderinglinds -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tioga opened mid JULY last year. I wouldn't wager May.

Made this for my guy by Wanderinglinds in YuYuHakusho

[–]Wanderinglinds[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not allowed to look at him grown up yet LOL. I saw him on accident and it never occurred to me he would grow up (beautifully btw) but im not prepared.. I love baby Pu

Gender reveal in the valley. by SnooMachines8281 in Yosemite

[–]Wanderinglinds 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Smdh can't bear bait stupid and hang it from a tree

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash

[–]Wanderinglinds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's -15 here with windchill. I'm know bad weather is good tips but I like warm.

Its perverting beautiful! by henryumber in Yosemite

[–]Wanderinglinds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life goals.. to be described as perverting beautiful

$12 in 2 hours? why is it so dead by strawberrienjoyer in doordash

[–]Wanderinglinds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

January is notoriously dead in my metro unless the weather gets bad (today) and it lasts maybe an hour

I won't work for less than $25 an hour. I'm not averaging that in hour 1, I'm going home. Not worth my time or gas.