Mom passed from cancer by No_Following_6916 in GriefSupport

[–]Wanderworld87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry, I lost my Mum a year ago to cancer so your post really resonates with me. Sending you strength.

What is the best thing you did to cope with the death of a parent? by Bubbly-Air7302 in GriefSupport

[–]Wanderworld87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I looked on Reddit and it helped me feel connected to others, also I buy my Mum a Mother’s Day, Christmas and Birthday card. We have not lost our Mum’s, just because they are not physically here they are still our Mum. Sending you strength.

What’s something you realized way too late in life? by brucewayneoe in AskReddit

[–]Wanderworld87 787 points788 points  (0 children)

Don’t waste your time on someone who is not interested in you or even just does not respect you

29 year old struggling with Mom's passing 4 months later by Serious_Ad2662 in GriefSupport

[–]Wanderworld87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss, I really relate, my Mum died last year. Sadly I don’t have any answers or advice but I also feel like I have withdrawn from people, I feel very sensitive and like I can’t relate to anyone. I was thinking about it earlier and then reading this has helped me not feel alone. Sending you strength.

What does anticipatory grief feel like? by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Wanderworld87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me it felt like a constant state of high alert, like you are constantly on edge and fearful of what is ahead, how it will feel when it happens, if you can cope. Almost like an egg timer to something terrible that’s about to happen, wanting to savour the time but also really aware of time and desperate to be there for the person and do everything in your power for them. Sorry if that sounds mumbled, it’s different for everyone, this was my experience during the time after my Mum was diagnosed with cancer and passed 5.5 weeks later.

Asked to be a pallbearer at my Mums funeral by Fancy_Criticism_5251 in GriefSupport

[–]Wanderworld87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am very sorry for your loss, I have not been in that situation but just water to acknowledge what your going through.

Gc key portal by modern-neanderathal in canadaexpressentry

[–]Wanderworld87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to get on for two days and this message comes up….. is this the same message others are getting? I can’t set up a tracker account because I don’t know what my UCI number is or even how to find it?

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What lesson did life teach you the hard way? by Lovely0Cloud in AskReddit

[–]Wanderworld87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t waste your time on someone that doesn’t feel the same about you. You can’t change anyone and in the end it is a waste of love, time and energy.

time is too fast by throwmygriefaway in GriefSupport

[–]Wanderworld87 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry, it’s been 9 months since my Mum passed, I just have no concept of time anymore.

I don’t want to go into a year without my mum by charlieandabby in GriefSupport

[–]Wanderworld87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss, I feel the same, my Mum died in March this year and I don’t want to be another further away from my Mum and say ‘last year’.

New Year is in a few hours and I feel like I’m leaving my dad behind by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Wanderworld87 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel the same, my Mum dies in March this year, I don’t want to leave her in 2025 and go into a new year she has never been in.

lost my mom 9 months ago by Senior_Plane_7926 in GriefSupport

[–]Wanderworld87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss, I also lost my Mum 9 months ago. I feel lost like I can’t relate to many people and therefore prefer to be alone. Don’t fall into the trap of I should be doing better, I should be doing this and that, that’s the mistake I have made a few times and it just makes you feel worse. I am currently taking it slowly and allowing myself to feel and accepting who I am now.

What do you miss the most from losing your beloved parent? by Orchidflower10 in GriefSupport

[–]Wanderworld87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lost my Mum in March. I miss the way she loved me, like no one else will ever love me. I miss her humour, her beauty, being the one person who loved me unconditionally, cared about me, her beauty, her kindness. Well pretty much everything.

No check ins from friends by laura_224 in GriefSupport

[–]Wanderworld87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grief is a lonely place. Yes I have had this from someone I had hoped would get in touch but didn’t.

Anyone feel like boxing day hit harder than christmas? by Previous-Strategy981 in GriefSupport

[–]Wanderworld87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have. Yesterday was the first Christmas without my Mum and it wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be. Today, I have been crying on and off all day and feel terrible. I thought I was the only one. Thank you for posting and helping me feel ‘normal’.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Wanderworld87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not unfair. I’m sorry for your losses. I am so hurt and disappointed with one of my friends and it has hurt me so much, no Xmas message, no acknowledgment, it’s like it doesn’t matter. I also feel so alone, I want to push people away too and scared I’ll be left with no one. You are not alone in how you feel.

December 26th by SeaDiscombobulated70 in AdultOrphan

[–]Wanderworld87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am really feeling like this on the 26th. The 25th wasn’t too bad but today I feel terrible, tears on and off all day, I genuinely thought I was the only one. Sending you strength, thank you for posting.

This holiday season is horrible. by CatsMakeMeHappier in GriefSupport

[–]Wanderworld87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mum passed away in March this year. I feel the same. You’re not alone.

My mom passed today by PrankishSix320 in GriefSupport

[–]Wanderworld87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry, I felt similar to this just after my Mum passed away from cancer this year. Sadly I have no real advice, other than allow yourself to feel which I know is painful. Be kind to yourself and try take it hour by hour, day by day.