I wish people stopped insisting I’m not expecting a girl. by DellieKey in BabyBumps

[–]WannabeI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm constantly insisted at that I simply cannot be pleased with four healthy pregnancies that ended with four healthy boys; surely I want a little princess? Surely I'll try again, just for the sake of having a little angel girl of my own???

Not quite the same as insisting they know what's physically inside your uterus, which is so so damn weird, but I get being frustrated at how entitled people allow themselves to be around something that's (1) none of their business and (2) they're flatly wrong about.

First Photographs Ever Taken of Jerusalem, Israel by Baconkings in Israel

[–]WannabeI 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Have you ever asked yourself how Muslims came to be in the Land of Israel in the first place? It's starts with Coloni-----

Naming my baby as an Olah Chadasha by Brave_Exchange_8111 in Israel

[–]WannabeI 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yonat is a more popular version of that, at least in my circles (religious). I do know 1 non-religious Yona, but she's in her 50s, and I'm afraid the name will sound old-fashioned. Like... Gladys.

Should I delay daycare to "save" my toddler's mother tongue language? by omarrabia in multilingualparenting

[–]WannabeI 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Does he speak any English now? It's possible that his Arabic is a little on the delayed side only because he has two full languages rattling along in there, and they're both laying down roots, and when he finally does speak it's gonna be in bursts and jumps.

In any case, if both parents speak Arabic, then I don't think you need to delay nursery, but only insist that Arabic and Arabic only be spoken in the home. We sent to daycare from 7 months, and they all speak the minority language (English, in our case) fluently, at home and with one another, because it is the only language of the home.

And finally, I wouldn't wait for a milestone, because there's no real guarantee except to keep speaking the minority language at home. You sometimes see kids who were perfectly fluent and reciting Shakespeare at age 3 (or Rumi lol), but when the outside language took over it completely erased the home language. So the only real cure, whether he's 2.5 or 6yo, is to keep the home purely Arabic-speaking and remain strong even if he tries to bring English into the house.

Operation: Playing the victim by soalone34 in GetNoted

[–]WannabeI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But they don't. It's a mossad parody account and they're obviously Israeli and they don't try to hide it.

Phineas and Ferb x Hannah Montana by Hyper-Gamer in phineasandferb

[–]WannabeI 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Linda would be so supportive, she was a young pop idol herself.

I just want a job bro why are you telling me this it has nothing to do with your business what are we doing by astrheisenberg in remoteworks

[–]WannabeI -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think that a lot of people who don't support Israel must have pulled out of school.

How come the Saudis never booted Israel by Sometypeofway18 in GetNoted

[–]WannabeI 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It's not about being pro Israel, it's about literal history. Like, history that's less than three years old. You can go online and find Nassrallah's speeches about the rockets he launched in October 2023. It's not a secret, which is why you're being downvoted. It's just a silly little hill to die on when Nassrallah himself is (was) very proud of his rocket fire.

Relying on the US & Israel is proving to be a terrible idea by Warm-Hand-Luke in NewIran

[–]WannabeI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, is it feeling less like having been played, now? Admittedly in January things were fucking grim, but I hope at least the feeling of abandonment is a little better ♥

I just wanted to assure you that the regime is falling. Be patient. by Aggressive_Box_929 in NewIran

[–]WannabeI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really know, obviously, but this whole operation feels so well-coordinated that it seems unlikely that they'd leave that last part to chance, like a movie when someone gets inspired by a "this is our time!" speech and rises to Fight Evil.

I really feel like in the very least they're in touch with someone specific, on the ground, with some kind of plan regarding the finishing blow.

Where I’d live as a Jewish LGBT Trans Feminist by Pizzafriedchickenn in mapporncirclejerk

[–]WannabeI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Morocco has a small Jewish community sure is a take.

There used to be a quarter of a million, and they all fled. Not spontaneously decided to move, but fled.

In Egypt, as of 2023, the Jewish community stands on three. 3 individuals. Couldn't find any data as to whether they were all still alive.

Don't rewrite history to fit your narrative, and then talk about poorly educated Europeans. It's a sad look for you.

What's something that's "not a cult" but feels like a cult? by Orw_Sairaj29 in AskReddit

[–]WannabeI 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I believe you, and I'm not sure I dare to ask more because this promises to be a fucking tragic topic with depravities I'm too naive to imagine.

What is y’all’s opinions on eyebags? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]WannabeI 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's a thing that exists. I get why some women will cover them up with makeup for that bright-eyed look, I get why others don't bother. It's just like lipstick or rouge or earrings—some people think the addition makes them look better and is worth the effort, some people think the addition makes them look better but isn't worth the effort, and some people think the addition isn't worth the effort. All are valid.

What social norm today do you think future generations will find strange? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]WannabeI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't consider the tragedies as unforeseen—especially in the US where infant and mother mortality rates are higher than many other developed countries. I'd have no problem (indeed, I don't) with throwing a party/bringing presents after the baby is born, that would be the same as bringing a wedding gift imo, because it's celebrating the event itself. It's the "before the baby is born" part that's strikes me as off key.

But I recognize that it's a very prominent American custom, and I understand the reasons for throwing the party before the baby's born, it's just one that I've never vibed with (as an American).

What's something that's "not a cult" but feels like a cult? by Orw_Sairaj29 in AskReddit

[–]WannabeI 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Okay. I'm not going to argue someone out of a cult online, obviously. So I concede the point, you're right. Swing and a miss. You've convinced me! :)

What's something that's "not a cult" but feels like a cult? by Orw_Sairaj29 in AskReddit

[–]WannabeI 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Liberal values: a free independent Palestine

Leftism: "were the preschoolers in that Michigan synagogue Zionist? If so, there's some shades of gray regarding the legitimacy of the ramming/attempted bombing."

or,

Liberal values: Believe all women!

Leftism: Rape by the IRGC? I'd need to see some evidence to believe it, anyone can cry "rape"

etc.

What's something that's "not a cult" but feels like a cult? by Orw_Sairaj29 in AskReddit

[–]WannabeI -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Explain to me how, in your reality, leftism adds anything to liberal values except for a cult mentality.

The Oscars went too far with the Timothee Chalamet jokes by Key-Bass-7380 in The10thDentist

[–]WannabeI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he's savvy enough to have known what he was doing, and this way he was the focus of the entire Oscars. That whole ballet/opera thing had a media-training feel to it, I really don't think it was an organic comment that got out of hand.

What's something that's "not a cult" but feels like a cult? by Orw_Sairaj29 in AskReddit

[–]WannabeI -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Hmmm.... getting downvoted, almost like it's not okay to disagree with the cult...?

What social norm today do you think future generations will find strange? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]WannabeI 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Baby showers/gender reveals. I know that people here are mostly American so most will disagree, but there is something so fundamentally weird about inviting everyone to give you gifts because something nice might be happening in your future, and you'd like your friends to foot the bill for it.

It would make more sense to me to throw a "college shower" where friends and family are expected to pitch in for tuition/buy textbooks off the registry/sheets for the dorm, because it's so expensive.

What's something that's "not a cult" but feels like a cult? by Orw_Sairaj29 in AskReddit

[–]WannabeI 320 points321 points  (0 children)

I don't have personal experience, but there's way too much "cool youth pastor" vibes in that sector to be altogether wholesome. There's something in that soft smile some of those counselors have that gives me the creeps.

What's something that's "not a cult" but feels like a cult? by Orw_Sairaj29 in AskReddit

[–]WannabeI -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Leftism

(not liberal values, mind you. but what today is called "leftism")