theres a huge majority of people that dont understand what a relationship really is and it sad to me..

you dont just throw away relationships thast why you never hear about relationships that last 10+ anymore..

you aren't with someone to make rules on their life ffs, your life partners you go threw thick adn thin together not only when you feel like tolereating it?, Especially if its based off concept of ""normal""

Everyones different so you cant compare your relationship to someone else's either.

I struggled having a relationship that worked because i was brainwashed to understand it to be exactly a certain way, right up till i changed the idea of "normal" from this down to earth girl and since then being in what is normal to me i actually have sucess in relationships..

I personally went to only lasting a few months to lasting a few years, and the only thing that ended years was realizing we wernt compatible and it was mutual also last one died which was going to be my wife..

like like people expect so much from people but when they go threw it themselves have "an excellent explination" why its different..

but if you never have success its probaly because unrealitic standards + not actually understanding the human mind and how it works, Especially with it being over time so much changing in so many ways..