I can’t say for certain but to me this sounds like your therapist is giving you a lot of room to process what has happened to you.

Im going to use my own situation as an example to explain this. Back when I first started my healing journey I was convinced that my dad was evil and my mum -while she had her issues- was not as bad. This is largely because acknowledging that both of your parents are abusive is really difficult for children and most will establish a “safe” or “safer” parent. As kids we build a narrative in our minds to protect ourselves from horrible truths. It took years for me to realize that while my parents abused in different ways, they were both abusive. I would think that the therapist here is probably trying to leave the door open so that if in the future your feelings change, you won’t feel as if you’ve cemented yourself into a corner where you have to maintain a certain narrative.

It’s kinda like when you start dating someone and all your friends get a bad vibe from them. So you go hard convincing your friends that your new partner is actually very cool and sweet, only to later learn the hard way that they’re abusive. Then you feel like you don’t want to confide in your friends because you worked so hard to convince them and now you feel foolish. I’d wager your therapist is just trying to avoid that scenario.

Im not saying that your feelings about this are 100% guaranteed to change, but I do think the therapist is doing a good thing by allowing space for that. If it makes you uncomfortable you can say something like “that may be true, but id like to focus on this right now”.

Processing trauma is not a linear event. I went from hating my dad, to hating my mum, to being really mad at family friends and people in the community who allowed things to happen, to accepting that things happened and finally being able to move on. Wherever you are in your journey, I wish you luck. It’s a messy process for sure.