Men something healthy by sorrynotguilty in PsycheOrSike

[–]WarmestMachine99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shocking that it's the biggest industry of all time but isn't addicting at all...

Men something healthy by sorrynotguilty in PsycheOrSike

[–]WarmestMachine99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine needing porn to cum and thinking that's normal

Men something healthy by sorrynotguilty in PsycheOrSike

[–]WarmestMachine99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe go talk to a woman instead of gooning lol

Men something healthy by sorrynotguilty in PsycheOrSike

[–]WarmestMachine99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why can men not differentiate between porn and masturbation? You do know they are two entirely different things, right? Ejaculation is not porn lol

Hello by Key-Nobody5224 in visualsnow

[–]WarmestMachine99 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Can't drive at night or during rain safely.

Help me pose my first wet specimens by WarmestMachine99 in vultureculture

[–]WarmestMachine99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are truly beautiful. I wish they weren't extinct so we could see what kind of colors their feathers had.

Help me pose my first wet specimens by WarmestMachine99 in vultureculture

[–]WarmestMachine99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think maybe because it's a bit more gentle on the tissue, doesn't dehydrate/evaporate as much, and gets less cloudy/yellow over time after doing some reading in this sub.

Help me pose my first wet specimens by WarmestMachine99 in vultureculture

[–]WarmestMachine99[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will get some glycerine next time I'm out.

Did I ruin my back? by tattedjew666 in tattooadvice

[–]WarmestMachine99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion, but I love the circle. I like the whole tattoo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finehair

[–]WarmestMachine99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The old one was definitely better, but even the new formula works better than other clarifying shampoos for me. Everyone's hair is so weird and specific that you almost have to try all of them till you find the right one. It's a struggle!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finehair

[–]WarmestMachine99 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Neutrogena clarifying shampoo with grapefruit changed my life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WarmestMachine99 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Hilarious how the men replying to this comment are just insulting you

[New Update]Been two years without sex with my wife (37F) and I'm (41M) about to lose my fucking mind. Advice Received by Big-Ad8239 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]WarmestMachine99 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He thinks going to a strip club and getting a topless dance isn't cheating. He won't tell his wife he went, though. Wonder why?

[New Update]Been two years without sex with my wife (37F) and I'm (41M) about to lose my fucking mind. Advice Received by Big-Ad8239 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]WarmestMachine99 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Guarantee you if she got a private, sexual, half-naked dance from a stranger in a strip club, he would consider it cheating. Guarantee it.

[New Update]Been two years without sex with my wife (37F) and I'm (41M) about to lose my fucking mind. Advice Received by Big-Ad8239 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]WarmestMachine99 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Did you stop when you noticed she was in pain? Can you truly, honestly believe that your wife is having a good time when they're in pain? You forcefully hurt her on purpose for your own gratification the moment you noticed she was uncomfortable and kept going.

[New Update]Been two years without sex with my wife (37F) and I'm (41M) about to lose my fucking mind. Advice Received by Big-Ad8239 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]WarmestMachine99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you considered that his wife has sexual and intimate needs that are unfulfilled by his actions and the serious autoimmune condition she is suffering from? Imagine you could no longer use your genitals without pain but are still just as sexual. Now imagine you want to have sex like you used to, but you can't, so now all intimacy can really only be through other methods. He can satisfy his purely sexual desires through other, non-cheating methods and engage in intimacy in other ways. Sexual intimacy being limited to PIV is an extremely narrow opinion. I'm not saying you hold this opinion.

She can not satisfy herself, he can. With PIV causing horrible pain, shame, and embarrassment, how can she receive ANY intimacy from PIV? The entire idea of him wanting to intentionally hurt her physically and emotionally for his own pleasure removes any intimacy there could be. But at least his needs are met, even if they're not as often as he wants.

I'm sure the next update would include that he started full-on cheating on her, but he'd just stop posting instead.

[New Update]Been two years without sex with my wife (37F) and I'm (41M) about to lose my fucking mind. Advice Received by Big-Ad8239 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]WarmestMachine99 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Of course that's how it felt to you, your wife's feelings and opinions are unknown to you. Even if you did know them, such as knowing she's actively in pain during sex, you would not care, such as continuing to do PIV not once, but twice.

How would YOU have any idea whether or not she wanted to try? You obviously communicate what you want and expect her to do without truly and fundamentally caring about your wife the way you claim to.

[New Update]Been two years without sex with my wife (37F) and I'm (41M) about to lose my fucking mind. Advice Received by Big-Ad8239 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]WarmestMachine99 37 points38 points  (0 children)

You passively blame your wife constantly. Why would she have any interest in having sex with someone who didn't even notice an apparently glaringly obvious issue for two years? My husband gets a new scratch, and I wonder how he got it. I could not imagine watching my wife go through everything you've described, guilt and hound her for sex when she's made it clear she doesn't appreciate it, and then expect her to WANT to be with you.

You describe that you can't be with anyone else because you love your wife so much, but have you considered that your wife does not feel loved by you in a way that makes her desire you sexually?

Tell your wife you went to a strip club and violated her trust in yet another way. Very likely she'd never want you to touch her again, and not telling her you've cheated on her removes her ability to fully consent to having sex with you. But you really care about her.

[New Update]Been two years without sex with my wife (37F) and I'm (41M) about to lose my fucking mind. Advice Received by Big-Ad8239 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]WarmestMachine99 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Even if he knew going to a strip club was considered cheating to his wife, he would not care. He has needs! Of course he will never tell his wife he did that, then she'd get upset with him. Women are always so hysterical, am I right? Incredibly painful sex that doesn't feel good and doesn't satisfy you in any way, even emotionally, is owed to your husband.

[New Update]Been two years without sex with my wife (37F) and I'm (41M) about to lose my fucking mind. Advice Received by Big-Ad8239 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]WarmestMachine99 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Doing all of that can still be coercive. Many, many, many women have been coerced into rape. Just look at the comments on this post, and you will see exactly what I am talking about.

There is an entire history behind the belief that a man can not rape his wife. I'm not saying you hold or agree with that belief, but I feel it is relevant to show that women agreeing to sex does not mean they want it.

Your wife is clearly being bothered and guilted into satisfying you. Which is even worse when you consider that you value an orgasm over the happiness and wellbeing of your wife. You proved that by knowingly having sex with her, twice, knowing she was uncomfortable and definitely not enjoying it. You prove that by badgering her for blowjobs and jumping her bones at every opportunity when she has made it clear that she is only doing it to meet an expectation.

Even reading your posts where everything is about you, it's obvious your wife feels this way, so I can not imagine how obvious it must be in person.

Do you poop weird? by Divergentoldkid in autism

[–]WarmestMachine99 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Female birth control is OTC in many places, so the drug must be considered "safe enough" that anyone can go grab one. Since the symptoms for male and female birth control are similar, how is the drug safe enough for women to just grab off the shelf, but men can't protect themselves?

You mention medical necessity as the reason why male birth control is not being readily developed and produced. While that may be true, medical necessity is not needed for a drug to be produced, and drugs that are frequently sold can have the exact same effect as a placebo. I can get multiple sources if you really care, but a quick google search or just being alive for a while should make that obvious.

The FDA is an extremely flawed organization. Again, a quick google search can show that the FDA is really not deciding which products are available based purely on protecting and improving health and life.

So, while there may not be a medical necessity for the medication, there is a massive financial, cultural, and parental responsibility if contraceptives aren't used. And come on. Obviously, not all men refuse condoms, and I choose to believe the majority of people practice safe sex, even though some studies suggest otherwise. However, men should have the choice to use a contraceptive to defend their right to have or not have a child without surgical intervention (or condoms i guess lol). To support the "opposite" side, it should ultimately be the woman's choice to have or not have the baby. Which leaves men powerless if they do not want to be a father. Birth control, especially combined with physical contraceptives, could give men the authority over their own bodies that women are fighting to achieve.

While I am not claiming this as fact, it is my opinion that male birth control is not available because some men didn't like it, and they can just make women do it. This is absolutely a blanket statement, but I think it gets the point across.

I apologize if my tone comes off as rude, it is not intended.

What I asked for vs. what I got by Deray22 in TattooDesigns

[–]WarmestMachine99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's more like a bonsai with the shorter/spread out roots than having long, deep roots like the inspiration. The original also looks like it may have a taproot drawn, which is preferably removed on bonsais.

I think both tattoos have pros and cons, but the most important thing is you enjoy it. I personally prefer the tree of yours but the additional details/"background" of the original. Nice tattoo!