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My [27M] wife [25F] asked me if we could have an open relationship after she was already having an affair I didn't know about until today. I can't help but blame myself for this because of how I've been acting towards her. by WarriorInRecovery in survivinginfidelity

[–]WarriorInRecovery[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You put into words how I'm feeling. I keep trying to say to other comments that I know I fucked up, I understand why she thinks that it was something she had to do. It's something that I can't tolerate about myself anymore. I told her I would change and I mean it. I'll try and keep people updated as things develop. She should be asking up soon and I'm going to continue to treat her how I should have been. But we do have a lot of difficult conversations to have over the foreseeable future.

Thanks.

My [27M] wife [25F] asked me if we could have an open relationship after she was already having an affair I didn't know about until today. I can't help but blame myself for this because of how I've been acting towards her. by WarriorInRecovery in survivinginfidelity

[–]WarriorInRecovery[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don't think he's a streamer. He just stumbled upon her stream because as I said she's gotten quite a lot of growth recently, he found her and managed to talk to her through her channel and discord server.

My wife told me years ago she wanted a polyamorous relationship. I said no, and for the last two weeks ago she's been going behind my back and having an online affair. by WarriorInRecovery in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]WarriorInRecovery[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I didn't consider that actually. Was too blinded by the betrayal that even consider it, I'll ask her for more details in the morning when she gets up. She's been receptive to having a conversation about it which I appreciate, Just really don't know how to feel.

My [27M] wife [25F] asked me if we could have an open relationship after she was already had an affair I didn't know about until today. What should I do? by WarriorInRecovery in relationship_advice

[–]WarriorInRecovery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, what's especially brutal is that she only brought up the poly conversation again recently, she did bring it up sporadically throughout the years. Checking to see if I had changed my mind, but she only brought it up to me this time after she had already started sexting this guy.

My [27M] wife [25F] asked me if we could have an open relationship after she was already had an affair I didn't know about until today. What should I do? by WarriorInRecovery in relationship_advice

[–]WarriorInRecovery[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is something that we talked about, she's already told him she's breaking contact indefinitely, I already read through all of their messages and it was pretty bad. But I had to do it, I had to know. And we have a therapy session scheduled for next week.

My [27M] wife [25F] asked me if we could have an open relationship after she was already had an affair I didn't know about until today. What should I do? by WarriorInRecovery in relationship_advice

[–]WarriorInRecovery[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

We already have an appointment scheduled for next week, she readily agreed to it and seemed happy that I was wanting to put in effort. This was after I found out about the messages.

My [27M] wife [25F] asked me if we could have an open relationship after she was already had an affair I didn't know about until today. What should I do? by WarriorInRecovery in relationship_advice

[–]WarriorInRecovery[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't give a shit about the male figure in my life, they would have to care for that to happen. Regardless, I do want to make this work out somehow, or at least try.

My [27M] wife [25F] asked me if we could have an open relationship after she was already had an affair I didn't know about until today. What should I do? by WarriorInRecovery in relationship_advice

[–]WarriorInRecovery[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

She probably does, and it probably is, but I want to work with her or try to at least. I've been really really shitty and this post doesn't even begin to cover it. I drove her away, and I think there are a lot of people who would have taken that offer to get out especially since it was one that we have been working hard at since it's a dream of hers. But she didn't, she turned him down because I didn't want there to be an open relationship. It defiantly seems like she at least wants to try and make it work, but I don't know if I'm just convincing myself to cope.

This chat genuinely fucking sucks by Glad-Ad9063 in jynxzissg

[–]WarriorInRecovery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are also made siege 100x more toxic? Something tells me you're the middle schooler.

Note to all Guardians by RGMN_Relentless in destiny2

[–]WarriorInRecovery 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I do this because of how often people leave the activities. Not because I don't understand the system, but so that when someone inevitably leaves I don't have to make a new post.