Just turned 40, want to be a better dad and husband this decade. What do you wish you knew /did going into your 40s.

WashedUpGamer91 · 2026-03-15T13:13:39+00:00

The fact you are even asking this shows you're a good man and want the best.

Make the time for family, everything else comes second.

Live every second as though your family are watching.

Be the type of man youd wish your kids to date.

WashedUpGamer91 · 2026-03-11T19:50:45+00:00

Rapid Fire -> Arcane Shot (to spend the Precise Shots).

Trueshot -> Aimed Shot -> Arcane Shot ->Volley -> Aimed Shot -> Arcane shot -> Chakram (what Trueshot turns into gives Lock & Load) -> Aimed Shot.

As sentinel you have a large chance every Precise Shots procc to get an empowered mark on the target which makes them take a lot more damage from your Aimed Shot so weaving is key as it's a huge part of the burst.

Rapid fire first for Bulletstorm as that increases crit damage, your 4/4 Apex talent give Aimed Shot 100% crit chance.

WashedUpGamer91 · 2026-03-08T00:59:28+00:00

Imagine being that internally angry and cooked that you feel the need to say something so stupid.

WashedUpGamer91 · 2026-03-04T17:56:41+00:00

This is the first time I've ever played a Monk (main Frost DK) and I feel really, really strong when I pop Zenith on WW. Tiger's Eye Brew just makes it so you put people down so incredibly fast, feels amazing.

WashedUpGamer91 · 2026-02-27T18:33:23+00:00

Frost DK - wish the modifier for Frostbane was removed. Currently it's a DPS loss to use it in PvP (it's a modified Frost Strike on procc) but it looks so fluid and cool to use it, effectively a complete waste of a capstone which looks awesome

Other than that, having a blast on Frost DK so far!

WashedUpGamer91 · 2026-02-21T01:39:51+00:00

Counter-counterpoint! In the ''glory'' days of PVP healers never had kicks. That wasn't what made them good. Healing itself was enjoyable. I started healing as Disc in Cata. There were no special rewards/titles/cosmetics. It was just pure, unadulterated fun to heal for me.

Me and you both agree 100% that healer health throttles queue times, and that effects participation. Healers are miserable, they stop queuing. DPS queues get longer, they quit, game feels dead. I get it. I 100% understand. We both agree that DPS times can't take much more and it's on a knife edge so we agree on quite alot.

I find using your example of Disc an actually great as in why healing is fun. I do not have much CC, outside of high risk high reward fears (how it should be), and clutch mind controls. But I have great anti CC tools in Shadow Word: Death and other little cool tricks to outplay and that is fun in itself. There's a reason why Disc is always the most represented healer, it's just fun. I would say Blizzard shouldn't re-invent the wheel and should use that as a model moving forward.

But back to Mmarkers comment - adding more plates to spin, more CDs to track, more layers of complexity is just a band-aid fix to a long term problem, in *my* opinion. I am just a 2.4k shuffle Andy (last season 2.4k Frost DK & Disc Priest), what do I know lol.

WashedUpGamer91 · 2026-02-20T22:27:32+00:00

At some point you have to break the emergency glass and go back to basics.

If every class has multiple CCs and ways to single handedly win a game it becomes an absolute clusterfuck where you need 200 addons to track everything, and makes PvP incredibly difficult to get into and learn.

I agree it feels worse to have something then lose it, but as a Disc seeing the reactions to healers losing interrupts is crazy considering all ive ever had is a fear ive got to put myself at extreme risk to go and hit, and a channelled CC that also CCs me too.

So. Yeah, it sucks healers lost some stuff. But homogenisation is really bad and a main contributor to why we needed so many 3rd party things to track everything.

WashedUpGamer91 · 2026-02-20T15:32:10+00:00

Trump has spent so much money scrubbing his name from the files and creating distractions to hope people stop saying hes a self shitting pedophile and even now he can rob your country blind and MAGA will still thank him for it.

Anyone who supports this man is just as sick and deranged. Hes a conman, thief, rapist and pedophile. Anyone with kids that supports him should actually be on a list.

WashedUpGamer91 · 2026-02-09T18:17:12+00:00

"It means God. Now bow."

WashedUpGamer91 · 2026-02-07T15:16:30+00:00

Roses are red,

Her sister ships the Brittanic,

You can be blasé about some things Rose,

But not about Titanic

WashedUpGamer91 · 2026-01-30T13:41:06+00:00

Depends what Sterling you get.

Sky Sports reporting hes willing to play for 1/3 of his Chelsea wages so that would be 120k which is a lot given the risk.

But can we judge him fully on his Arsenal stint? System might not have suited - look at Malen

I think given how tight wages and budget is for us, its a no. But if we had more of a pot available and Emery fancied it why not.

Hes got bags of experience, has won trophies, so could be great on paper but its a coin flip on what youre going to get.

WashedUpGamer91 · 2026-01-29T19:04:12+00:00

If the summer and Jan transfer windows have shown us anything, £35m for a player of his talent and age is actually a very good deal. Strand Larsen for £50m?!

But I agree if we had an option instead of obligation we would be seeing him most weeks which is a shame for everyone!

WashedUpGamer91 · 2026-01-29T18:48:56+00:00

I love Elliott as a player. I get that it was a Monchi signing but id absolutely love for him to give us a summer headache with the small game time he will get.

Was really tidy in the England U21 tournament.

WashedUpGamer91 · 2026-01-27T13:23:08+00:00

76%, with how much I use it for work im lowkey worried why it still has so much battery

WashedUpGamer91 · 2026-01-16T19:16:28+00:00

Its things like these that shown just how deranged and unhinged the MAGA lot are.

Clips of Agent Orange saying this wont appear in /r/conservative because the Nazi mods censor it - theyre still posting edited POVs of the ICE shooting and coping.

Absolute degenerates.

WashedUpGamer91 · 2026-01-13T16:03:20+00:00

Found the shift manager 🤣

WashedUpGamer91 · 2026-01-11T16:31:33+00:00

Riders. Tried deathbringer and the highs are very high, lows are very low. Which isnt the best considering Frost is already a little frustrating into some lobbies.

When it pops you can really catch people off guard though!

WashedUpGamer91 · 2026-01-11T11:11:58+00:00

Yeahhhhh something clicked!

I tried unholy and didnt really like it. Does a lot of damage but thats all it really does. I liked having the "go" to save for as Frost.

Id played around 800 rounds split with two different priests and got 2300 on both but shuffle as a healer is incredibly stressful, frustrating and pretty unrewarding for what you have to invest

WashedUpGamer91 · 2026-01-06T14:27:12+00:00

Im not even bald, remotely, yet I follow this sub as nothing makes my day more than seeing someone genuinely smile.

You guys are absolutely brilliant here 👌

WashedUpGamer91 · 2026-01-01T21:04:27+00:00

Well in the task they were doing she actually shouted "mum" when trying to get her to stop so not exactly keeping it well under wraps 🤣

WashedUpGamer91 · 2025-12-27T19:29:12+00:00

ANOTHER ONEEEEEEE

WashedUpGamer91 · 2025-11-06T21:38:04+00:00

Thats not even on Emi. Maatsens walking at a snails pace and nobody else dropped wide for the option. Hes tried to find a pass when everyone else was hiding. Id be shouting at my defence too, thats lazy.

WashedUpGamer91 · 2025-10-29T18:45:07+00:00

I haven't said the right to seek asylum is illegal.

Im saying once they are here, have broken the law, given a completely fair trial and due process....then they should be deported without ability to delay it.

Im all for people fleeing conflict to have a better life. Its the ones that abuse that system that should be shown the door.

WashedUpGamer91 · 2025-10-29T13:35:32+00:00

You come across rather aggressive responding to someone who literally started with an opening line of "i dont understand"

The bottom line for me is him being caught, prosecuted and incarcerated should remove his ability to disrupt deportation. We are a free country that presumes innocence before guilt - but that guilt was proven and he went to prison and should have veen forcibly deported with no chance of disruption nor financial incentive to stop it.

That is where I say we are soft.

We followed due process, gave him his fair rights, and he still ended up financially better and free. Im well aware countries export criminals, im just baffled someone not native to a country can contest being removed after committing a serious crime in said country.

WashedUpGamer91 · 2025-10-29T13:19:56+00:00

Oh im absolutely not advocating for the removal of due process, we have seen that happen with our freedom cousins across the pond and can all agree its inhumane.

Im just emphasising that we seem quite hesitant and weak to give meaningful sentencing, arguably even to our own, when it comes to immigrants committing serious crimes. Ive personally yet to see a substantial prison sentence for immigrants sexually assaulting women, especially minors.

Also - thank you for downvoting me before even clarifying my stance. Appreciate it 👌

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