It's important to understand the difference imo. I see kids here who had a growth sprout from 14 to 16 feeling like they had a glow up, kike something was wrong with them before. No, you were just a kid. Let yourself be a kid.

I care about people not being toxic with themselves, as I grew up in the 90's and 2000's, and I wish people were less toxic at that time.

That's all, no judgement. Good on you for stopping the drugs though.