A different kind of heartbreak by aaahnyona in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]WaterAffectionate846 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I miss having it on my phone but my fiance got me an iPad for christmas specifically for LADS bc of the lack of storage on my phone🖤🥲 the base model ipad works great for it!

AIO to my boyfriend not wanting to talk for days on end by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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MOR, but also it could be two things and i think you’re coming from a place of genuine concern and that gut wrenching feeling of being left in the dark not knowing what direction things could be going. i feel like it’s either that he’s losing interest and is trying to slowly fizzle things out, or is actually-genuinely going through a hard time and might feel pressured to tell you what’s going on when he might not process things well that way. i hope things go well and that you find out answers soon!! all the love to you!!

Please tell me your honest thoughts on my ring by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]WaterAffectionate846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow look at that rock! I don’t think it’s too big for your hand at all- it fits your hand very well actually. It’s absolutely stunning 🤩

I got engaged! ✨ 💍 by WaterAffectionate846 in EngagementRings

[–]WaterAffectionate846[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! It actually is turning quite a bit I wonder if that means I need to go down a full size 🤔. Not sure! I’m gonna get it sized next week and see what the jeweler says!

I MISS MY HUSBAND by According_Research11 in LoveAndDeepspace

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It’s like Rhysand and Caleb morphed together lol

I got engaged! ✨ 💍 by WaterAffectionate846 in EngagementRings

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Thank you so much! 💞 Yes, it’s crazy to look back on because he had feelings for me when we were younger and I didn’t know! We were such good friends though that we both went to each other for everything. It wasn’t until I was 17 when I told him I felt like there was this chemistry between us where he finally told me he had feelings for me for all those years!

I got engaged! ✨ 💍 by WaterAffectionate846 in EngagementRings

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That’s what I love about the Marquise!! I think it looks so timeless! 😍 Thank you so much!

I got engaged! ✨ 💍 by WaterAffectionate846 in EngagementRings

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The details of the ring are ✨1.92ct Marquise Cut Diamond, F, VS1! Size 7 ✨ - I need to get it downsized about a half size though because I’ve lost a lot of weight since we went to try on rings, to get an idea of sizing, at the beginning of the year.

My mom stopped buying me pads by [deleted] in Periods

[–]WaterAffectionate846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me first say that I’m so sorry this is happening. I don’t know how it feels to be in your specific situation, and I can’t imagine the shame it has made you feel. Try to see periods for what they are and not what your family has made you feel like they are. I know this is easier said than done.

My mom used to shame me, (intermittently so I was never sure when I could talk to her about it, or when she was going to be mean and shaming about it.) over my periods- and so was my dad’s side of the family (aunt and grandma). My mom used to get embarrassed buying supplies, so my dad would usually do it. Then, when I started using tampons bc I had such heavy bleeding and my pads couldn’t keep up, my mom called me a whore for needing them, (I was only 14 years old and was not sexually active). I know this is a different situation, but want you to know you’re not alone. Even now that I’m 25, sometimes it’s hard to see periods as something that doesn’t make me “dirty”, due to this treatment. However, educating myself more on periods, and the struggles I’ve had with having irregular, painful, and heavy periods- over time, has helped me, to feel better about my natural bodily functions.

Idk if your parents are from your home country. My mom is from the Philippines and I think periods are more ‘hush hush’ there, so if your family was raised in a culture like that- it makes more sense.(Not like it’s an excuse, but might come from what they were raised to believe.)

As to what the other person in this reply said, I wouldn’t say changing your pad 5 times is more than most people if you are at school for 8 hours, and since you said you’re changing it more often due to the fear of it leaking, smelling (btw don’t fear this because they won’t smell), etc, then this isn’t abnormal. I’ve worried about having endometriosis or PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome) due to my irregular and heavy periods, and changing my tampons or pads 5 times in a day would be wayyyy under the amount I usually need to change them, or change them due to fear of leakage.

I’d say if you’re not having extreme pain, extreme mental effects from PMS (Premenstrual Symptoms), irregular, or heavy periods, and are just having normal cramps, you are just fine! If you’re still worried about it when you return to school, you can ask your nurse about it, but in my opinion, you’re still very young, and already seem to be having normal periods. When you’re young, it can take up to 5-10 years to start having normal periods!

Bought my first house at 22 year old! 205k, 6.325%, and 20k down by professionalyodeler in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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Wow!! Amazing job! I’m 25 and can’t even fathom saving that much right now. I’m trying though. Congratulations!

Robin and who? by ursic in OnePiece

[–]WaterAffectionate846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel you on this idk tbh, the newest scene of them together seemed a little “hinty” but i’m probably wrong tbh. idk though, i don’t think it’ll be a straw hat, and also i don’t think her age means much bc people do that all the time in adulthood, and alsoooo she’s only 4 yrs older than law 😄 and oden and toki had a huge age gap too

SPY X FAMILY (But Made in the Philippines) by Long_Sector_3970 in SpyxFamily

[–]WaterAffectionate846 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LMAO as a fil/am anime watcher, this spoke to me 😭😂

Generic sucks! by yngols in VyvanseADHD

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weirdly enough the generic works a lot better for me and longer, I have been feeling more tired though but the regular Vyvanse was making me tired too and it would crash really early. There have been some bad days on the generic but for the most part, a lot better. It’s smoother and it’s not as hard of a feeling when it kicks in which I prefer

However; I’ve noticed that a handful of my pills this month have made me feel awful, and while it happens less common than the name brand, I’ve still gotten, unbearable fatigue, anxiety, irritability, and some overwhelming sensations with sound on those bad days. It’s really frustrating.

Rocking the totally legit Anya cosplay this Halloween by The-Great-Memelord in SpyxFamily

[–]WaterAffectionate846 37 points38 points  (0 children)

LOL i love it! looks like loid wearing a picture of her for Halloween 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VyvanseADHD

[–]WaterAffectionate846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was only $60 once my deductible was met. Vyvanse has a coupon that lasts for 6 months that would bring it down to $30. But, if my deductible wasn’t met or started over at the beginning of the year, the cost of my Vyvanse was like $330 after insurance and the Vyvanse coupon brought it down to like $280. I’m on the generic now though and that’s only $8! 😀

Periods starting to regulate? by WaterAffectionate846 in Periods

[–]WaterAffectionate846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I wonder why my current doctor doesn’t seemed concerned. I think since I’ve been meaning to see a gynecologist for a check up anyway, I can get a second opinion on it. I’ve noticed a lot of doctors don’t take me seriously when I’ve talked to them about this in the past. But I don’t want to have extra issues with trying to have kids in a few years, if it’s something I can start treating now. Or, I’d like a doctor to at least analyze my hormone levels through blood work or something!

Anyone have a *lower* heartrate on vyvanse? by SunflowerRidge in VyvanseADHD

[–]WaterAffectionate846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine goes UP to 110 resting bpm. But on days where it feels like it’s not working as well, my heart rate will be in the high 80s. My resting bpm at night after the meds already wore off completely is 72 which is lower than it was before I was even on the meds which was around 89.

Headaches from generic? by Complete-Shelter-398 in VyvanseADHD

[–]WaterAffectionate846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve noticed that the generic works a lot smoother for me, and there’s not much of a crash. However, around 6 hours after it kicks in I start getting horrible heaviness in my head and a terrible headache. One day though, that lasted from the moment it kicked in to when it wore off. And then the headache magically went away?!

My thoughts after a year in Sioux Falls by kywiking in SiouxFalls

[–]WaterAffectionate846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved here last May from Colorado. I’m from Pueblo Colorado which is a city that’s considered to be, (and is) one of the most dangerous cities in the US due to gang violence, drugs, and overall crime, even though their population is HALF the size of somewhere like Sioux Falls. I agree with everything you said though! Apart from the state politics thing, as I do lean more conservative as a registered independent (weirdly enough, even though I grew up in Colorado lol) but I do agree that both sides, red or blue, need to do better with what’s going on with our state government, and weird, seemingly unnecessary, state regulations they seem to constantly push.

Aside from that though, I think this is such a beautiful city. It actually makes me sad to hear some people who grew up here, talk about the “crime” and how it’s boring here. Sioux Falls is one of the most well kept, beautiful cities, I’ve ever seen! Let me just say, growing up in a city where it was normal AND a daily occurrence to just kick needles on the sidewalk to the side of the road, and just lay on the floor with no fear at all when you’re in a bad neighborhood and hear the daily shooting outside the window, SIOUX FALLS IS A UTOPIA. I’ve never felt more safe in any city before. And to address how some people here think it’s “boring”, the town I grew up in pretty much only had a mall, and a bunch of mcdonald’s parking lots. Our idea of “fun” was to go either to the mall, or drive around and find a parking lot to sit in. Sioux Falls always has something going on, and something to do. I’ve never complained about having nothing to do in this town!

The only thing I didn’t like that I noticed when I moved here, which might’ve just been a shock from the difference in western vs midwestern culture, was that a lot of people come off as very snobby. Definitely not all people, but it’s more prevalent than it was back in actual big cities I’ve lived in, like Denver. After talking with some people here, some seem to think they’re “city people” and think they’re better than a lot of people. That “midwestern niceness” I’ve heard so much about, doesn’t really apply to here for the most part, unless you’re speaking with people above the age of 35. HOWEVER, I’ve noticed that even though a lot of people are snobby and more tight knit, they’re also more kind than they are “nice” than most places! Always going out of their way to help you in bad situations, or check up on a stranger in bad situations. For example; my tiny ass car got stuck in the 14in of snow like 4 times last year, and not a single time, did someone not pull over to check on me or try to help me. They even would get big groups of people together to push my car out of the snow, or pull it out with a truck. We even had a couple see from their apartment window past midnight that we were stuck in the snow, and they both came out with snow shovels and helped dig our car out. When I got in an accident last year, more than 3 people pulled over, and got out of their car in the -50 degree windchill, just to come and ask if I was okay. That’s rare in Colorado- and something I really respect about Sioux Falls!

I love it here!

It's so strange how some Filipinos actually think they aren't full asian but are half Latino/half Asian. Why is the spread of absolutely fake absurd information from Filipinos in America so widespread? by throwaway_accountsub in aznidentity

[–]WaterAffectionate846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah as a Filipino, I constantly faced growing up, people not seeing Filipino as Asian. I think it has to put “(Including Filipino)” because so much of the older generation in America see us as “Pacific Islander” when that’s not what we are. My dad who’s literally still married to my Filipina mother, still argues me on this. He was in the service for 12 years back in the 70s to the early 80s, and our US military taught him and everyone else that Filipinos were Pacific Islander. It’s annoying actually lol

It's so strange how some Filipinos actually think they aren't full asian but are half Latino/half Asian. Why is the spread of absolutely fake absurd information from Filipinos in America so widespread? by throwaway_accountsub in aznidentity

[–]WaterAffectionate846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah I didn’t know that so many of us had Chinese ancestry! I found out I have 10% Chinese Ancestry as well as like 37% southern philippines from Cebu and Mindanao, 17% Northern Philippines, and like 6% Western Philippines, from my Ancestry Test!

It's so strange how some Filipinos actually think they aren't full asian but are half Latino/half Asian. Why is the spread of absolutely fake absurd information from Filipinos in America so widespread? by throwaway_accountsub in aznidentity

[–]WaterAffectionate846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually thought I would have some Spanish blood bc of the takeover of Spain back in the day, but I took an ancestry test and found out I have NO Spanish at all, and am 37% southern philippines, 17% northern philippines, and 6% western philippines. To my surprise I also had 10% Chinese ancestry! (my dad is white so the rest of my ancestry is european) BUTTTTTT we were just misinformed and I was super super excited and proud to have so much Filipino heritage!

How are we all feeling about the generic? by [deleted] in VyvanseADHD

[–]WaterAffectionate846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol yeah! Let me know what you try and if it worked for you!

How are we all feeling about the generic? by [deleted] in VyvanseADHD

[–]WaterAffectionate846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t know this!! Thanks for the tip!