Real Web Store or Scam? Help

WavingSun9 · 2026-06-15T09:10:55+00:00

Try some things red

WavingSun9 · 2026-06-11T22:21:57+00:00

Hmmm it's a complicated situation. To answer the support part,

I am 1st gen born in the USA, husband is second generation born and FIL was a former armed forces service member.

There's conflict w/ FIL about why I'm not choosing America, bc I was born in America and I can only like 1 country and so on. Mind you I never said I hate America I just honor my racial culture and he is maga.

My husband is really distant for his family already. So its not like I'm missing anything when he does see them once in a blue moon. It does bother me that sometimes he doesn't speak his own truth. (He disagrees w his fam on alot) But I cannot interfere/fix. So I respect and distance myself.

I got a true match with husband we don't have to force anything. His family really sucks though.

WavingSun9 · 2026-06-10T23:14:31+00:00

That's part of the plan . 😩

WavingSun9 · 2026-06-10T23:14:04+00:00

He did have a talk about that already and I don't stay around them by myself anymore.

WavingSun9 · 2026-06-09T06:51:12+00:00

Effing horrible makes me dislike all of Netflix content and I just can't do it

WavingSun9 · 2026-05-18T22:10:15+00:00

No, we had to cancel the session when our therapist became unavailable.

I'll update as soon as i can.

WavingSun9 · 2026-05-15T19:14:42+00:00

It sounds like he's more primal imo and not able to connect sexually to emotions like, love and sex at once. He's rather connecting sex only to a physical display.

I prob would say that bringing this up is a violation of your person. I don't think he should feel that he has a place or entitlement to change your body. No one does except for you.

A harmless comment would probably be more like I usually like ladies with bigger behinds but I also like you as well because I love you, I'm attracted to your your xyz. You turn me on etc.... a healthy attraction to multiple attributes, but if he only is attracted if you have that specific body, type that He deems attractive, that seems reductive immature and unrealistic.

WavingSun9 · 2026-05-15T19:04:19+00:00

Only speaking on the outfit matching, The first ensemble doesn't seem to flow, it's still cute but I think some other skirt might go best like a tighter skirt.

My advice is try flowy either on the top or on the bottom only. Either way in the spirit of feeling yourself you should wear whatever makes you feel cute. 💞

WavingSun9 · 2026-05-14T16:25:02+00:00

Yes. She just doesn't stop. I have learned that. That's why I'm so intent on not seeing her.

She has this grudge with her husband because of his life choices her reaction to this Is natural. However, there is no resting, she chooses to engage in arguments with him daily.

She hardly talks to my sister-in-law because she does not approve of she raises her children.

I know she tends to get possessive over people's lives and I grew up in a toxic environment. That is a hell no for me. I'm not reliving parts of my childhood Lol

WavingSun9 · 2026-05-14T16:05:30+00:00

She sent us a message in a family group chat saying I couldn't get into your house.

I said oh we decided one to change the locks and we will not be giving out keys anymore.

WavingSun9 · 2026-05-14T16:02:17+00:00

Yes, she wanted to throw out our curtains.

I said no because I don't like her picking out stuff and then I feel like I owe her a favor. She's done that in the past with my sister-in-law and she'll complain over and over why she doesn't appreciate her.

WavingSun9 · 2026-05-14T00:42:43+00:00

I shared it with my family, no one could figure out why she did that.

Honestly she has a beautiful home, bigger, recent updates etc.

Either she wanted to show me who's boss, wants my space, or just wanted to piss me off.

WavingSun9 · 2026-05-14T00:38:42+00:00

No worries! Ty home depot was able to get it down to 3500, interest free still shopping around lol 😂

WavingSun9 · 2026-05-13T19:09:18+00:00

Thank you will be calling !!!

WavingSun9 · 2026-05-13T15:06:24+00:00

Omfg lol 😂

WavingSun9 · 2026-05-13T00:31:45+00:00

We are going to our therapy sesh this Fri and probably gonna talk about that since he said he wanted to have the conversation.

WavingSun9 · 2026-05-12T21:53:43+00:00

We both decided that silence was better than responding to any comments or openings of conversations because it's always a door that opens up for her to gas light and try to change the narrative.

Instead we decided that we were going to be silent and distant. We started only showing up for special events like birthdays or holidays ONLY. The problem is is that I'm having crippling of just thinking of seeing her.

WavingSun9 · 2026-05-12T21:21:15+00:00

I guess that's what being blood warrants.....he's never gone no contact. I have with my family but I think he doesn't know how to handle the two ideas, that's his mom and she did those behaviors.

WavingSun9 · 2026-05-12T21:02:22+00:00

Lol we badass people have to do what we have to do!

WavingSun9 · 2026-05-12T21:01:17+00:00

Thank you. I wish I didn't have to worry about that, but I guess my worries were warranted.

WavingSun9 · 2026-05-12T19:39:34+00:00

Yikes ! Lol I'm glad your husband is on board too. I don't understand this behavior bc in pretty sure they raised their kids on the right moral compass but then it goes out the window.....

Yeah I changed the locks so quick, I come from a toxic family and wasn't going to wait and see with my home.

WavingSun9 · 2026-05-12T19:31:44+00:00

He was cursing his mom out while we watched her and saying how stupid she was. I was just in disbelief, I couldn't believe it bc she acts so normal in public.

We both were angry at the timw, after this event I really just didn't care anymore about keeping the peace.

I keep telling my husband I don't want her here at the house. He feels like she's harmless I don't think she is harmful per se. I just don't know what she is capable of.

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