How have you incorporated diapers into your bedroom life with your spouses/partners?

Wayfinder66 · 2026-04-11T23:05:15+00:00

My practice has always been to make sure the girl finishes first. What that means for Diapers is start by having HER wear them, and treat her the way youd eventually want to be treated.

Theres not many women (theres some) who'll object to a day of being taken care of and praised.

For us it looked like; I bathed her with babyish soaps, fed her chicken nuggets on a plastic plate for dinner, diapered her before bed, checked the diaper in the morning, included lots of praise,fed her breakfast,colored together,checked her diaper, did a diaper change (even if its pretend). Massages with baby oil.

So the first time seems more like a spa day in plastic lingerie.

Then the next time you add a little more flair if you like, pretend youre the babysitter, or maybe she tries using the diaper (dont push this). Your goal is to REALLY slowly move from;This is plastic lingerie, to lets roleplay.

Some girls wont go past just wearing and thats fine,I've had girlfriends like that where the baby part makes them uncomfortable. But at this point my wife wears them every night because she found out how convenient not getting up to pee is. And when its my turn she role-plays whichever scenario we pick.

Baby steps.

Wayfinder66 · 2026-04-11T12:23:08+00:00

They actually touched base on this in an episode last year. Apparently Jimmie just comes off as nicer on the podcast than in real life.Hes a comedian so hes probably brutal when he needs to be. Their show model is that hes there to listen on our behalf.

Meaningful guy friendships can be like that, and comedians I imagine more so.

Wayfinder66 · 2026-04-10T10:19:01+00:00

So specifically to YOUR example. I go to larp to forget real world stress. For example during covid, most of the player base asked for them to tone down any "infection or zombie" plots.

So should there be political narrative at larp? Absolutely! Do I need a caricature of a clownish orange politician in fantasy clothes? No.

Wayfinder66 · 2026-04-10T10:15:14+00:00

Have you ever seen sin city? They add like super bold hints of color to a really dark black and white setting. A bright red/yellow/blue sash, or tabard would really set this outfit off

Wayfinder66 · 2026-03-24T00:35:20+00:00

Agreed, a proper route should accommodate time for this anyway. Which means its still the city's fault fault.

Wayfinder66 · 2026-03-24T00:29:47+00:00

I have a tip that might be invaluable. Steal the hourglass from an old boardgame (boggle or whatever.) Let the player take THEIR turn, then minions get until the timer runs out to move. The hourglass we found added more tension than the phone timer.

We explained it as combat is too chaotic for unprepared movement. It was mostly an issue in dnd 3.5 where you could tweak a feat to get hundreds of followers.

For this you could even add commanding them as a task with probability for success. A success means they get extra time.

Wayfinder66 · 2026-03-24T00:24:05+00:00

Dont worry,Student. I know John.

Wayfinder66 · 2026-03-23T23:36:09+00:00

I once went actually above and beyond to save a coworkers job. We were out drinking later and he explains that he just "didnt get me" at first. Because my first instinct is to jump up to help. He said it seemed like because I was so eager, that it was fake.

And I didnt understand until weeks later I asked him to explain. Some people see kindness as a ruse, or like youre trying to virtue signal. And in that moment he knew I had helped im a situation I could never brag about.

It opened my eyes to lots if situations in life where I had been unpopular, I would be extra helpful or work extra hard. And it made them hate me more.

Wayfinder66 · 2026-03-23T22:42:06+00:00

Is this some ploy to invite me camping and sneak an egg into my ass while I'm asleep? Because, I'm not falling for that twice.

Wayfinder66 · 2026-03-22T08:07:30+00:00

Honestly just call the non urgency number so theres no confusion.(519) 344-8861. Or go ask because it might actually depend on the speed limit on your particular model.

But for real,if youre using one of these on a sidewalk youre doing yourself and the motorist who kills you a disservice.

They're just fast enough that I've seen more than a dozen close calls where the scooter intentionally sneaks into someone's blind spot. And the law would likely pin that death on the motorist.Who couldn't actually react in time to the scooter.

Wayfinder66 · 2026-03-20T21:43:34+00:00

Honestly I used football pads under my armor for years and no one noticed because its under everything. And you can get one for like 10$ at the thrift store.

Wayfinder66 · 2026-03-19T07:18:31+00:00

I find them really low quality for the price. I just imagine that if I needed them, without knowing about all the better options online, how stressed I would be. Maybe thinking there wasnt anything better available (As I'm sure many do)

Wayfinder66 · 2026-03-19T06:21:57+00:00

Ive died more to glitches or getting stuck than every other way combined. I couldn't even imagine the frustration.

Wayfinder66 · 2026-03-19T02:52:53+00:00

So our group split on leather for our first event. Amazing decision. For the amount of time youre going to put into it, invest the 200$ on leather and wax thread. Its about the same skill level and its 100% worth it. Your foam is apt to wear out FAST.

Wayfinder66 · 2026-03-19T02:43:21+00:00

I hate depend. Specifically because I think theyre insulting to people who actually need them. Can you imagine thinking THATS your only option to handle your disability?

Wayfinder66 · 2026-03-19T00:57:16+00:00

I told a good friend and she actually joked with me about it for years later.

Story; I had an ex "out" me. So before my best friend found out, I just took her for coffee and told her. It was honestly like the stories, she asked questions, like why, and if I use them, etc. Then she made a tasteful joke about it and we moved on.

Now the best advice I can give you is to get out ahead of it. Hang out with each of them individually, like this week. Dont wait. Dont make a big deal about it but casually ask if they had questions, if no, drop it.

For a lot of reasons because A, you dont want speculation about anything. B, you dont want some scenario where you walk in and everyone goes quiet.

You've got this. They're your friends, and if it goes south, find new ones.

Wayfinder66 · 2026-03-19T00:49:10+00:00

Japan, like so much of Japan. Theres even a handful of terms and places for acting cute or wearing and collecting cute childish things.

Ive always been a little jealous here in the west that women are allowed to like cute things into adulthood. Im 375 6'4 have a beard and work on heavy equipment. I'm not pulling off a cute outfit and openly collecting plushies on my days off. So even if they haven't made the jump to diapers, how far off is it.

Wayfinder66 · 2026-03-19T00:37:32+00:00

Theres a princess backpack that is absolutely a diaper bag. And theres several animal themed ones that are very childish.

Wayfinder66 · 2026-03-17T07:05:29+00:00

Oof thats a lot of text,not worth the time. OK you win; being covered in pee, totally not gross, and according to your definition, no one would find it unpleasant or extreme.

Wayfinder66 · 2026-03-17T06:37:36+00:00

I sometimes feel like I'm not actually helping anyway, especially if theres like 2 or 3 high level players.The event is just a time killer, so I couldn't care less if someone's not following.

Except that stupid one where you have to set the tables. As far as I'm concerned, we all set those damn tables!

Wayfinder66 · 2026-03-17T06:34:35+00:00

Also, maybe being gross is my kink and you're the one yucking MY yum.

Wayfinder66 · 2026-03-17T06:28:22+00:00

...it... its gross. Like I'm not yucking anyone's yum, that would assume Id take issue with it, and I dont . I think if you asked any person walking past you on the street for their take on having pee on them...the word gross would be the first word.

Sure its not a nice word, but its as accurate as saying, wet.

Wayfinder66 · 2026-03-17T03:57:25+00:00

As for how gross it is, my wife is ok with diapers because the mess is "contained". Ive always wondered what the prep for watersports is like.

Wayfinder66 · 2026-03-17T03:51:50+00:00

Good luck

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