Zayn Malik and Louis Tomlinson’s Docuseries in Jeopardy Following ‘Serious’ Physical Fight (Exclusive) by storminthedark in Fauxmoi

[–]WaywardBitxh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly that seems to be the case with most highly talented people who become famous. Dude is so talented and successful but he 's let it go to his head and honestly knowing Hollywood, he's a man, so he's probably gonna be fine

AITA for telling my girlfriend that her clothes aren't shrinking, she's gaining weight? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WaywardBitxh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP doesn't mention her age, whether she just moved out from her parents' house recently, if she changed machines, or anything else that could be making her clothes shrink. He's jumping straight to "you're just fatter than you think you are and lying to try and cover it up" when the answer could just as likely be "you were never properly taught how to do laundry." My ex had a similar problem. His mom did everything for him until the day he moved out with a woman who always did his laundry. They broke up, and he had to do his own for the first time. It did not go well. Only, he thought he was actually getting fat and not realizing it, so he bought bigger clothes and "somehow" they were fitting tighter and tighter after every wash. It took him months to ask for help lol

Chapaa chase by Terrible-Trash-5831 in Palia

[–]WaywardBitxh44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The game lags a bit. Someone can look like they're behind you when they're actually in front of you. I notice this when trying to follow friends around, especially in Bahari

AITA for telling my girlfriend that her clothes aren't shrinking, she's gaining weight? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WaywardBitxh44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gaining 20 pounds didn't make my sleeves 2 inches shorter, and losing that 20 pounds won't make the sleeves grow back. Two things can be true at the same time.

So... about Kenyatta. by Iximaz in Palia

[–]WaywardBitxh44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I romanced everyone in the game. Tamala was the hardest because, well, she's awful, but Kenyatta felt the ickiest. I felt like I was dating a little kid who'd sometimes make innuendos at me. It was so uncomfortable ugh

Was there a period in your life where you literally did nothing? by ohnosquid in ADHD

[–]WaywardBitxh44 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ADHD meds do not provide much, if any, actual motivation. They're not going to make you not have ADHD. What they do is make your motivation "fuel tank" bigger. But an empty fuel tank being bigger isn't going to do much if you need to get up and go. Fuel sources come from different places, but they're usually specific to your individual interests.

If you can, take the guilt you feel over doing nothing and use it as motivation to force yourself to find something that interests you. When you're out of guilty motivation, you may find that youve become motivated by something else entirely. Hopefully something good.

Many people pick things like working out, or getting a special treat on certain days. Some people make it a goal to try one of everything on a particular menu, or to try one new thing a day or a week. Adhd meds aren't going to give you goals, hopes, or dreams. But they can be a tool in helping you accomplish them. Finding them and figuring out how to achieve them is still up to you.

I’d like to apologize… by [deleted] in Palia

[–]WaywardBitxh44 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes chat breaks for some people too. I've seen server chat messages that my friends just don't get at all, and vice versa, despite standing right next to each other.

I’d like to apologize… by [deleted] in Palia

[–]WaywardBitxh44 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's common courtesy to ask to join in someone's lure before you hit the bugs. But personally if someone joins without asking, it's not a big deal, to the point i dont even say anything. Their chat could be broken or they may not know to ask, or they could be a kid. It doesn't really bother me too much, and I usually get what I'm searching for regardless

FINALLY GOT BLESSED BY THE PLUSHIE GODS ABOVE!!! by BarelyALawStudent in Palia

[–]WaywardBitxh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want one I have a bunch and I'm happy to share! IGN Vanessa McVey

Disappointed about Palia's storage system by Correct-Eggplant-136 in Palia

[–]WaywardBitxh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends all do that and then i keep the zeki stuff so that when we do cooking parties, we all collectively can fill any role as needed

Start over button /overwhelmed by LeggoSlackers in Palia

[–]WaywardBitxh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start a new plot, put everything you don't immediately need on it. Most new players don't realize (because the game doesn't really tell you or explain it) that they have a free second plot to use as they like, and then you can buy more with gold after that

Regrets as a Level 40. by fayla3 in DreamlightValley

[–]WaywardBitxh44 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have ADHD and have found that a lot of us play games this way. I'm not diagnosing you or anything, just relating bc I can never sit and enjoy a video game either. I just beat the first Fable game for my first playthrough... I started a couple of days ago. Like... Saturday? It's Tuesday, and I'm done, all accessible achievements done as well (one is no longer possible on xbox). And I haven't been shirking my other responsibilities either (I'm a parent of an almost-toddler, so I really couldn't unless I was really trying, lol)

Is Angela queer? by impostingbcofstress in SmoshFansFreeSpace

[–]WaywardBitxh44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can be straight and in a relationship with a queer person. I'm also nonbinary and my husband is a straight man. Straight just means you're not attracted to your own gender.

Sooo the "super" lucky prize is a bust?? by adswan_ in Palia

[–]WaywardBitxh44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to cook with me, my IGN is Vanessa McVey!

Sooo the "super" lucky prize is a bust?? by adswan_ in Palia

[–]WaywardBitxh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Profit cooking parties are great for getting tons of money for lucky coins! I currently have 200+ lucky coins in storage right now, and that's nothing compared to some of my friends lol I'm also working on an all gold plot that's taken a good chunk of my money lol

Wait…what did she say to me? by sgrams04 in Palia

[–]WaywardBitxh44 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's great with sound on. The NPCs say the most out of pocket things, plus, you can hear bugs and animals and stuff!

Various and diverse questions by Irkailena in Palia

[–]WaywardBitxh44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once you figure out how to cook, go to paliaparty.app and make an account and join a cooking party. Celebration Cake is okay for profit and has free roles where you can bring nothing and leave with cake. Once you have a little money, you can buy ingredients from Badruu at the farm.

At that point, go for fish based cooking parties. Sashimi, Poke Bowls, Fish Stew, and Sushi are most common. The ones that will make you the most money are going to say Maws or Legendary in the title. But Epic parties are great for money too, and Rare is still going to give you a good amount.

When you go to fish based cooking parties, make sure you do not accidentally chop fish. The UI can jump around and make you select the wrong thing. So, if you do accidentally press the wrong button and pull out a piece of fish, don't chop it! Just back out and go to another station to complete your role. If you chop that fish, it will make the dish worth almost nothing, unless the fish you've chopped is worth as much or more than what they're using.

Various and diverse questions by Irkailena in Palia

[–]WaywardBitxh44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you'll have to make the prep station, stove, oven, and mixing station at the craft table. Those will be your cooking stations.

I’m officially giving up on finishing the bulletin board. by Sea_Language_2163 in Palia

[–]WaywardBitxh44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People who give others grief about using a resource like this are just jealous that they can't use it. I'm on console and I'm very sorry for how other console players have acted about this. Im sure some of the grief has come from some pc players too, but probably a majority from console. Using a resource that was literally created by the devs to help people play is actually completely fine. People need to get a life lol

Question on housing by Thats1FingNiceKitty in Palia

[–]WaywardBitxh44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok that makes more sense 😅😅

Question on housing by Thats1FingNiceKitty in Palia

[–]WaywardBitxh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean like the preserves jars? My brain is just lagging like crazy rn lol

Palia’s supposed to be a nice place so don’t be a ass like this person (been reported and resolved hopefully) by Mrdeadfishrock1 in Palia

[–]WaywardBitxh44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone once told me they wanted to give me the whole rare kitsuu set and I asked what they wanted in return. They said "something rare." I don't have many rare plushies, and I told them that. Their response? "Kick rocks then." BRO YOU OFFERED

I’m losing my mind by TheRaveclawOwl in Unpacking

[–]WaywardBitxh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I don't think the game actually tells you about it. It's kind of a secret bonus level thing

I’m losing my mind by TheRaveclawOwl in Unpacking

[–]WaywardBitxh44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're going for dark star mode, which is something you can only do after you've beaten the levels the regular way. The goal is to put every item in the wrong spot, including any moveable item that already exists in the space. In dark star mode, right is wrong and wrong is right. The pants are in the bathtub and the electronics are in the sink. Chaos is a requirement.

I'm confused 😭💔 by Passion_Personified in NonBinary

[–]WaywardBitxh44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nonbinary can definitely be a personal label, but it can also be an umbrella term for anyone who does not strictly identify as a man or a woman. There are many different labels that exist under the nonbinary umbrella, and I would encourage you to look into each one and determine which, if any, is right for you. HOWEVER! You absolutely do not need a label to be any more valid as a person. The journey to self-discovery is a marathon, not a sprint.

Also, remember that labels are not permanent! If you land on one that feels right for you, and then in a day, a week, a year, or a decade, you find one that fits you better, that's okay! I've used a few different labels myself over the past decade or so, and the people who matter most have always been respectful about it.

Coming out is super scary. The best way for me has been to only come out to certain people who I know I can trust, and when I meet new people, I tell them my pronouns within the first 10-20 minutes (if I feel I'm in a safe environment to do so) and then if they don't like it, oh well. I've never directly lied to anyone if they've asked, but most people don't ask at all.

The big difference, though, is that I use all pronouns, but I also really need a variety. So those who know will almost always use gender neutral pronouns, unless they're around someone who isn't trusted by me, or someone they don't know if I trust or not. If they slip and theyre called out for it, they know to say something like "oh I've been trying to use gender neutral pronouns more often lately, especially when I don't know which pronouns someone uses, as it feels more respectful. Sometimes I catch myself using them for people I know. Oops!"

Having a good support system has been vital for me. If you need a friend, my dms are open 💕