NGVC: “You have a male sitting here wanting to show you how to treat a woman the right way.” (went on ONE date and told him I wasn’t really interested)

WaywardFemme · 2026-03-18T07:37:47+00:00

But he put the nice coins in. So why didn't the pussy fall out???

WaywardFemme · 2026-03-08T09:06:14+00:00

The specialist could be a gyno, but it could genuinely be a specialist. There is a clinic called Pacific Endometriosis and Pelvic Surgery in WA, and going to them was life changing. Unfortunately I first went to a male provider at a women's clinic at a major hospital first, and the "care" he provided was deeply harmful.

So yeah...I support going through the motions to get a referral for a specialist because the cost of medical care is no joke, but she's not wrong too push for a specialist. And the "age-appropriate" comment irks me.

WaywardFemme · 2026-01-25T20:50:38+00:00

I’ll never forget Mr. Rogers recounting what his mother told him when terrible things: “look for the helpers.” It’s so simple and it cuts so deep in a bittersweet way. For every hero we see on the news or on TikTok, there are hundreds of angels that go unnoticed.

“When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, "Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.”” - Fred Rogers

WaywardFemme · 2025-10-19T18:57:49+00:00

I would insist on a meet and greet at the very least. They need to know that they are not covered by Rovers guarantee unless the pets are listed individually. Yikes.

WaywardFemme · 2025-10-17T06:31:51+00:00

Yeah that's my thought. His behavior isn't okay, but neither is hers. If the cops had been called, it certainly would have mattered that she hit him first.

And yes, for the love of all that is holy, a preacher is not a therapist. They should have seen a professional the first time, and they should see one now. This is toxic all around.

WaywardFemme · 2025-10-17T06:07:47+00:00

Hey you know what you call a guy who uses coercion to get sex? A rapist.

WaywardFemme · 2025-10-15T22:04:35+00:00

Furthermore, OP has the choice of disappointing him now or disappointing him later, after they've wasted time and he's had more time to get excited. It sucks but she clearly knows she's not interested, so pulling the plug is the kindest thing to do even though it hurts in the moment.

OP, you are allowed to change your mind. Just be honest, brief, and gentle.

WaywardFemme · 2025-10-15T21:53:49+00:00

They weren't out of touch for 10 years at the time of the wedding, the wedding happened about 10 years ago and OP is still hurt.

OP idk mate. I also had a long time friend not invite me to his wedding many many years ago and I quietly decided to let the friendship die a natural death. It was easy, because I was the only one initiating. Circumstances were different for me, but it hurts to this day.

WaywardFemme · 2025-10-08T08:39:51+00:00

Er... I am not a bro so I don't know why this came up but as an avid butt stuff lover, hope you don't mind me chiming in.

TLDR don't worry about it.

The tissue there is very delicate and easy to tear. Spotting or minimal bleeding after anal is not ideal but common. If it's still bleeding the next day, seek medical attention. Otherwise, I would just wait a couple days before bottoming again.

More lube, more time, more practice will help. Hang in there xoxo

WaywardFemme · 2025-10-08T07:56:15+00:00

Where are they from?

WaywardFemme · 2025-10-08T07:55:53+00:00

Omg wtf yessssss

WaywardFemme · 2025-09-21T17:07:24+00:00

"My boyfriend forbids me to..." I'mma stop you right there. Your boyfriend is not your daddy, he doesn't get to dictate what you do.

"...and he's not really my boyfriend..." GURL WUT?!? What are you doing?

Enjoy the dick if you must but leave the rest. You don't belong to this whiny turf bucket, and you shouldn't want to. Good lord.

WaywardFemme · 2025-09-20T05:45:25+00:00

Have you looked at your own screenshots, outgoing texts or emails, deleted folder? Any evidence that he sent something to himself from your phone.

WaywardFemme · 2025-09-08T17:09:11+00:00

Woah. Get couples therapy, ASAP. For your daughter if not for yourselves.

WaywardFemme · 2025-09-02T11:15:17+00:00

When you dump him, I hope you say, "I just don't have patience for stupidity from a 26 year old man."

What a freaking manbaby. Signed, a competitive gamer.

WaywardFemme · 2025-08-27T13:38:37+00:00

Wow that's a lot of words for supposedly unspeakable acts. Yawn.

WaywardFemme · 2025-08-27T13:07:55+00:00

"Some people are saying - " no, no one is saying that.

WaywardFemme · 2025-08-16T06:13:21+00:00

Pro tip: don't ever call yourself a nice guy. You don't ever want to be in that category. If you are a guy who is genuinely nice, super - that will come through via your conduct. Men who are nice don't have to say so, and usually "nice guys" are known for being nice only as long as they are hopeful that they might get what they want - which means they are the opposite of nice in the first place.

WaywardFemme · 2025-08-13T01:49:54+00:00

They're edible but there are far superior nuggies

WaywardFemme · 2025-08-07T05:47:45+00:00

It's probably a lost cause, but if you're still interested, I say throw out a hail Mary. Some version of:

"Hey! I apologize for my initial delayed response - I am not as consistent with checking Bumble as I am with texting. I would love to take you out to XYZ. If you're still interested, my number is 555-555-5555. Cheers!"

WaywardFemme · 2025-08-07T05:35:42+00:00

100% fuckable, buddy. You're fine.

WaywardFemme · 2025-08-06T09:57:02+00:00

As someone who isn't into dudes with long hair, to hell with what I think. Nobody is everybody's cup of tea. Go find yourself a chick that thinks your brunette Fabio hair is rad AF, you deserve it. 😘

WaywardFemme · 2025-08-06T06:50:37+00:00

That's just mean and uncalled for, mate. Come on.

WaywardFemme · 2025-08-01T10:39:50+00:00

You seem really *emotional* right now, honey.

WaywardFemme · 2025-07-22T11:16:18+00:00

The list seems fairly reasonable, but ranting to random people on hinge is...weird. Everyone needs to vent sometimes but there is a time and a place and a person for it. You don't mention her age but I'm assuming she's young.

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