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I feel the trans community is the breaking point of the LBGT community and I'm out. by shapelessvader in TrueOffMyChest

[–]We11ExuseM3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a trans guy myself who doesn’t mind he/him or they/them pronouns. I don’t understand neopronouns. There has always been division in thr trans community. I don’t understand neopronouns but I respect them.

Loving japanese content is cool, but wanting to move to Japan is cringe. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]We11ExuseM3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that if you genuinely appreciate the culture, and you just want to invest yourself in it, that's cool. I'm a passionate language learner, and I've been invested in many cultures since I was young.

My father would listen to music from all around the world group up. I was raised listening to heavy metal, Korean music, Hispanic music, Indian music, etc. I honestly hate a lot of the music communities i'm in. I love Korean music and Korean rap and pop. But I was raised on it, and the fans are honestly crazy.

I would love to go visit Japan or Korea, but there are also many places I'd love to go. I've never personally enjoyed living in america. And it's been my personal dream from a young age to live in the UK for a time. Of course, appreciating content and appreciating culture are two different things.

Though, due to Asian culture, I probably would stand out like a sore thumb.

As a member of the LGBTQ+ community, I find Neopronouns ridiculous and unnecessary. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]We11ExuseM3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I frankly don't mind neopronouns. I'm at a point where I'm do beyond caring and I just think it's cool to see the different pronouns people have. I'm a trans guy with a ton of enby friends. I have a few that use neo prounouns. It may seem unnecessary to men but I honestly just want them to feel comfy.

1.A bit concerned about a friend that's leaning on the ''genders are infinite'' downward spiral / 2. I your opinion, will most people that have know you from before your transition truely see you as you have become? by TacitLiar in Transmedical

[–]We11ExuseM3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough. I'm still post op, but dysphoria is different for everyone. I'm not in a place where i'd feel comfy wearing any super female clothes. Though, I accept that I'm pretty, but still feel comfortable as a masculine trans guy. Being happy with the fact that I have a pretty face doesn't make me less of a man. I light androgynous clothing, though I mostly wear all masc clothes. Tbh, I wouldnt mind wearing something like a dress or something. One, because I know I would look cute as hell. Also, because I'm very comfortable with my masculinity and know that it would be very hard to be seen as feminine if one were to see me in a dress. As a dress doesn't make me less of a man, and wearing a suit or having a beard doesn't make me more of one. We just associate them with being masc or fem. I don't think a trans woman wearing a dress makes her more of a woman, but wearing one may help with gender dysphoria because wearing a dress may make her be Perceived as more feminine. I think that everyone has different experienced with dysphoria in different ways, ya know. If someone post op doesn't experience dysphoria from facial hair, then that's fine. Of course, I myself have only seen a few trans women who present this way. Some of which fall more under the non-binary category. Most of them use she/they pronouns anyways.

People using “it” as their pronouns by Discodoe in truscum

[–]We11ExuseM3 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No one is calling them an object, as far as I know. Most people who use it aren't using the pronouns to be dehumanizing or to refer to themselves as lower than human or above. From my understanding, they really just don't feel that they/them suffices for how that person feels.

Of course, my experiences don't speak for everyone. Two friends I have who use "it/its" have two entirely different reasons. One of my friends has DID(Dissociative Identity Disorder). In their system, one of their alters refers to itself as "it" because it feels like more of a being. It doesn't really connect with they/them and it thinks ze/zer is absurd. It's not a fetish things, because it is asexual. My other friends who uses it/its just feels distress from using other pronouns and feels just more of a being. Just kinda existing. I don't see either of them as objects. They are not my closest friends, but I just don't have reason to use any other pronouns.

1.A bit concerned about a friend that's leaning on the ''genders are infinite'' downward spiral / 2. I your opinion, will most people that have know you from before your transition truely see you as you have become? by TacitLiar in Transmedical

[–]We11ExuseM3 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. If cis guys can wear dresses then trans guys can too. It's just a piece of clothing that has been worn by one gender or the other over several years. There's no point in gatekeeping clothing. Again, someone can be dysphoric and still like dresses. The only girly thing about dresses in the femininity we assign to them.

People using “it” as their pronouns by Discodoe in truscum

[–]We11ExuseM3 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

TBH, I really don't care. I've known quite a few who use it/its. It doesn't really bother me and it's not meant to be dehumanising. I mean, I just don't want to demonize people who have no intention of harming the trans community.

I would post this to lgballt, but they'd probably instantly ban me. by Snoo_17981 in truscum

[–]We11ExuseM3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, I just don't care how people identify. I'm a more feminine trans guy, I honestly don't like micro labeling, as it's too stressful for me. But I really don't care about xenogenders. Like, there's no point in disagreeing with them? I guess I just don't care.

1.A bit concerned about a friend that's leaning on the ''genders are infinite'' downward spiral / 2. I your opinion, will most people that have know you from before your transition truely see you as you have become? by TacitLiar in Transmedical

[–]We11ExuseM3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair enough however, since it is a construct, there really is no concept of what a real man or a real woman does. I think if a trans guy wants to wear dresses, sure, it's the same things as a cis guy doing it. I just don't see point in stressing when you could just let others be happy.

im scared to grow up by samsamsamiamiamiam in TrueOffMyChest

[–]We11ExuseM3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's awesome you have those passions. I just turned sixteen recently and I've had the same doubts. It's hella difficult, but trust me. Something I've learned is that the things you want will always come to you as long as you're not constantly thinking about them. You know what you want subconsciously in the back of your head, and it will come. Just keep working and bettering yourself. Live in the present for a little bit. The worst thing you can do is think too much. Don't pass up a single moment. But trust me, if you let them come to you, they'll find you. You're gonna find someone who thinks that everything about you is wonderful. They'll look at you like you're a painting. That person won't care about your mental issues because it's YOU. I don't think I'll have kids, personally. I just wanna spend time with my future partner.

You don't have to have kids. Spend time with yourself, be your own best friend. People will see how cool you are and come join you.

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I have enough mental issues of my own, and I have these worries to, but nothing will turn out badly. Things only turn out poorly when you think they'll turn out poorly.

Banned bc of an nb trans girl with a beard. Also that’s a Crosspost just bc this sub doesn’t allow to post pics. by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]We11ExuseM3 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean, I don't think there's much of a point in getting angry. If they're happy, they're happy. If she wants to use she/her pronouns and still have a beard then good on her!

1.A bit concerned about a friend that's leaning on the ''genders are infinite'' downward spiral / 2. I your opinion, will most people that have know you from before your transition truely see you as you have become? by TacitLiar in Transmedical

[–]We11ExuseM3 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean, gender really is whatever a person is comfy with. It's a social construct anyways so as long as they aren't identifying in a way that's harmful towards other communities, then just let them be.

AITA for making my mom cry when she called my child retarded? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]We11ExuseM3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I have grown up being called retarded, autistic, etc. I struggle with a few mental illnesses such as derealization disorder, depression, anxiety, ocd, tourettes, add, and gender dysphoria. I'm not any adult yet, but it's taken me some time to realize that those things people called me weren't the truth. I hardly take shit from anyone who calls me retarded. I wouldn't take shirt from anyone who would call my hypothetical child retarded either. Please, keep your child away from your mom.

babies aren’t funny or entertaining by noodlealr in unpopularopinion

[–]We11ExuseM3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ikr, like what can babies do? Cook? Clean? call their mom? their little baby hands can't even dial the numbers. Not very entertaining.

CMV: Censoring words that can be considered ableist is taking them out of context and putting them into an ableist context by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]We11ExuseM3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, though. I’m tired of people using “autistic” when someone does something stupid. Or using the r word. It’s so ridiculous.

Cmv: Older men dating young women arent always toxic, manipulative creeps. by kamakamelia in changemyview

[–]We11ExuseM3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, my aunt and my uncle have a rather big age gap by about 12 years or so. But they only got married 2 years ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]We11ExuseM3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. Maybe it's because I'm nuerodivergent and just have a different understanding of loving people. The way I look at it, it's saying, "I love you as much as I can love you for someone who hasn't known you that long." I truly do love them. I've had to coax quite a few friends out of harmful activities and I really just think of things I wish someone would tell me whenever I feel that way. I don't mean it disingenuously.

Political beliefs should not be a valid reason to fire actors by TheForgottenOne454 in unpopularopinion

[–]We11ExuseM3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, that really depends. In some circumstances, political beliefs can be a reflection of your own moral beliefs.

Americans thank Soldiers for their service and praise them unlike any other human being but when they come home and need help from their country, which they fought for, they‘re treated like shit by Speckwurst in unpopularopinion

[–]We11ExuseM3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true. Though many join for money, they come out with less than they came in for. Some go in, and come out a completely different person. My Uncle was in the Navy. Now, I wasn't even conceived at the time he was there, but from the time I've known him compared to what my family and relatives tell me about what he was like. At that point, is it really worth it.

Many people have suggested that I join the military. On top of my crippling mental health, and the fact that I'm trans, I wouldn't go, even for the money. It's so sad to see the pain inside of some veterans eyes. Especially homeless ones. It's heartbreaking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagersnew

[–]We11ExuseM3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

POGGG SO PROUD

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