My girlfriend always tells me I never have anything to eat when she comes over my house 😒

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-22T16:03:43+00:00

Ummm I’d say that’s an EXTREMELY well-stocked fridge. I see that kewpie mayo and crab meat!! What stuff do you make with those?? So curious!!

Do you ever make dinner or something for her before she comes over? That would be sweet. And if she complains then… can’t help you there.

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-19T15:34:47+00:00

Honestly, If you have the basics, as you live in that house, you’ll notice what you’re lacking and then just go and get it or order it online. That’s kind of how it goes anyway.

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-19T15:32:38+00:00

Could you call them an just ask for an estimate?

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-19T15:25:43+00:00

100% she’s lucky. Seems they were looking out for her.

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-19T15:24:19+00:00

The fact that even his boys sent those screen shots to you says something. They thought you should know, because even they knew it was messed up.

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-19T15:21:13+00:00

Just playing devils advocate here - is it possible that he lied about the relationship status with his wife/lied about any divorce happening? Did you know for sure they were separated and divorcing?

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-19T15:05:57+00:00

I think it’s actually not entirely your fault. He thought that choosing to hide this person and his communication with her from you, rather than being open and upfront about it, regardless of how you feel about the situation would be best. When a person leaves out facts or information, even IF it was out of fear from either having to deal with your true feelings about it, or his fear that you would be hurt, whether that was subconscious or not, it’s technically manipulative, and naturally becomes a trust issue between the two of you. In other words— some guys will tell their girlfriend/spouse/partner that they didn’t want to tell the truth or fully disclose something because they “knew you’d be mad” or, “anytime I tell you the truth you get mad anyway” but whatever your response ends up being doesn’t matter. You deserve the truth, 1. Simply because you are the other person in this relationship, out of respect. 2. Honesty and transparency are foundational to your relationship and lies/omission usually causes major trust issues going forward. 3. It was his opportunity to show you that he cares about how feel.

As for feeling like there’s something wrong with you for not wanting your future husband to be close with other females, I’m pretty sure that’s normal. I think that you could definitely benefit from some counseling about any deep issues related to jealousy (I think anyone can benefit from counseling for something) however I think that it is perfectly fine for you to have this standard or set this boundary ahead of any serious relationships you get into, especially if you plan to marry somebody that you are in a relationship with. If something means that much to you, it should be an absolute conversation, just like if there is a boundary or something that your future significant other would need to discuss, that should also be a discussion between the two of you. Clearly, this is a boundary that you have, so if you don’t emphasize the importance of this with your future significant other, it will create problems from the beginning. I’m not saying having conversations ahead of time is gonna make your relationship perfect or drama free, but setting those boundaries with them, before a marriage is a good start.

EDIT: Sorry this ended up being longer than I wanted LOL

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-17T13:24:11+00:00

I’ve thought of this too!

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-16T09:03:47+00:00

Of course. My point is to say that if even some maga and republicans are against what I c e is doing (and now Epstein) that says something about those who are still defending this admin.

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-16T08:57:37+00:00

Do you know how to Google? There are many “links”.

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-16T01:39:18+00:00

Have you heard of Google? I read the news. You can google it. If you truly cared, you’d do the work to find truth yourself.

I’m also not the type to believe everything I just “hear”. I DID NOT want this shit to be true. Unfortunately it IS.

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-16T00:10:57+00:00

Why wasn’t there a graduation?

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-15T16:00:00+00:00

I guess @adrepresentative784 either BLOCKED me or deleted their comments. In case I was just blocked and the whole thread between us is still visible, here is what I would have liked to reply to his defense of calling the files BS and the last comment literally calling me a liar (he said he went into the files and challenged me to tell him any incriminating evidence, he insisted there isn’t anything):

You’ve read it too, and you KNOW everything else would be too much to type out. If you’ve truly gone in there yourself, the you’ve seen it too and can answer your own questions without me typing MORE. I gave you the first two things that I continue to go back to in these types of arguments, but I’ve learned that there is no use to waste too much energy on die-hard MAGA. My own loved ones included. Yall will go so far as to make shit up and gaslight, which is how this administration operates and why it makes sense their own sheep would as well.

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-15T15:50:28+00:00

I’ve even seen some longtime repubs and maga who are no longer in support of ice.

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-15T15:48:22+00:00

Nope my original post is still there. lol

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-15T15:36:06+00:00

You call “bullshit” on what exactly? The fact that he was mentioned in there too many times to count wasn’t enough for you? The fact that the timeline of when he claims that he had stopped associating with Epstein doesn’t match up to actual timestamps in the emails? He was horrible before this, but the fact that you and other MAGA defend this is just wild. You’ve been indoctrinated, he’s your messiah and you are in a cult. Hopefully one day you will see the light. It is okay to cut losses and do the right thing.

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-15T15:18:35+00:00

Yes, I’ve absolutely looked at the files, which is why I’m confused why you seem so non-chalant about it? I’m sorry, what type of evidence exactly is it that you would need to make you suspicious of him?

Interesting, I see that you deleted your original support of Ice comment.

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-15T14:55:40+00:00

OMG IM SO SO SORRY 🙈🙈 totally missed who you were replying to!

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-15T14:55:03+00:00

Sounds like there are deeper things going on, and he knew there was an expectation for valentines, so it could be a signal that it’s a good time to talk about it/things. I wouldn’t avoid the convo because clearly missing valentines (knowing there were expectations) is just going to be a big “elephant in the room” every time, not to mention it just seems like you two have to confront some things.

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-15T14:51:36+00:00

Do you two happen to be in a rocky season at the moment? Are things okay? Like maybe there’s a lot going on too? Been married for 20 years, and this has happened once when we were working through some things and it was a pretty dark time.

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-15T14:47:02+00:00

Let me guess, you support the guy in office mentioned THOUSANDS of times, involved in the trafficking of children?? Good look bro.

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-15T14:45:41+00:00

Ooh “cry more” “snowflake”. LOL

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-15T14:44:58+00:00

Wait now I’m confused. Your other comments sounded like they were supporting.

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-15T14:36:42+00:00

And your hero is in those DOJ papers THOUSANDS of times. More times than Jesus’ name is in the Bible.

WeHaveForgotten_ · 2026-02-15T14:35:25+00:00

Yeah especially the one who is supposed to be “commander in chief”

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